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Ngabe ukusakaza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, kuhanjiswa ngamashubhu-amasayithi, ukuvuselela ubulili bentsha?

Emayelana ne-2006-07, lapho abafana beqala ukubonisa kuwebhusayithi yethu izinkinga zokusebenza zocansi ezihlobene nobulili ezingapheli, bavame ukululama ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbili bengenazo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukushaya indlwabu noma iphupho elingcolile, kanye nobuncane be-orgasm. Iningi labo kwakungabathakathi bekhompyutha ababethole i-porn esheshayo ye-Intanethi ngaphambi komhlambi-bese ithuthuka izinkinga zokusebenza ezingasebenzi ngesikhathi socansi langempela. Sizobabiza ngokuthi “Abadala.”

Ngokushesha saqala ukubona izitayela ezimbili ezingalindelekile:

  1. Isikhukhula samantombazane amancane (ekuqaleni kweminyaka engamashumi amabili nantombazane eseneminyaka eyishumi nantathu) wabonisana ne esifanayo izinkinga ze-erectile-ukungasebenzi. Ngokushesha, bahlanganisa i iningi lezivakashi ezintanjeni eziningi nasemasayithini lapho amadoda ayekhononda ngezinkinga zokusebenza kocansi ezihlobene nocansi, futhi
  2. Laba bafana abancane (“Abafika”) ngokuvamile badinga isikhathi eside (ngezinye izikhathi izinyanga zide) ukuphulukisa ezinkingeni zabo zokusebenza. Eqinisweni, abanye babedinga ukuxhumana njalo nomlingani wangempela-eletha inkinga eyinselele "yenkukhu neqanda" emhlabeni wokuxhumana okungajwayelekile.

Abadala be-Oldtimers:

[Ubudala 51] Nginezinsuku ezingama-65 ezingcolile ngocansi manje futhi ngibona imiphumela. Ngibe ne-ED kusukela ngo-2007. Kwase kuqhubeke kwaya ngokuya kufinyelela ezingeni lokuthi neViagra ayizange isize. Ngangicindezelekile futhi ngiphelelwa yithemba. Kade ngifuna izinyanga ze-ED izinyanga. Ngizamile konke: ukuyeka i-caffeine, i-DHEA, amavithamini namaminerali, ukwehlisa isisindo, ukwengeza isisindo semisipha, ukwandisa i-cholesterol yami, amakhambi. Ngangiqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngangizophila nje nayo, ukuthi kwakuyingxenye nje yokuguga. Ngiyeke ukubanda okubandayo kwi-porn futhi angikaze ngiphuthe kancane. Uma i-porn ingiphuca ubulili bangempela ngakho-ke akukufanele.

Ukululama kwami ​​bekuphansi naphansi. Kodwa ukulungiswa kwami ​​kwasekuseni bekungaguquguquki emasontweni ambalwa edlule futhi izikhathi ezimbili ezedlule ngiye ocansini ngathola ama-rock hard erections ebengingenawo eminyakeni edlule futhi ngawakhathalela sonke isikhathi. Futhi ama-ejaculations eza kalula futhi azizwa engcono kakhulu. Ukuzwa kocansi kuyabuya futhi. Ngaphambi kokuthi ngikwazi ukuthola ukulungiswa okwanele ngokocansi kwakungathi ipipi lami selicishe laba ndikindiki. Manje ngizwa imomozi isithela phezu kwepenisi yami futhi izwakala iyamangaza.

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I-ED yami ihambe 90%. Inkinga YAMI ingabe engekho, mhlawumbe ngize ngiphumelele kakhulu kuye, kodwa ubulili bungcono nakakhulu. Ngivuka kuze kube ngukulungiswa kanzima kakhulu ekuseni kakhulu futhi ngaphandle kwefantasy noma ukuthinta, kuqhubeka kumaminithi we-20-30. Ngingumdala we-49 freaking. Ubani owayengacabanga ukuthi ibhoner yami engumfana uzobuya! Ubuhlobo bami bobulili bungcono kakhulu ngoba ubuhlobo bami bungcono.

Umqambi ojwayelekile:

Ngikusuku lwe-141 lokushaya indlwabu ezingcolile. Angikaze ngibe nezinkinga ze-ED, kepha ngiye ngabambezela izinkinga zokujula, ukuvinjelwa okubuthakathaka, nakho konke ukuzethemba okuphansi / ukungabi nezinto zokugxila. Njengamanje, ngizwa i-85-90% ngisho nangemva kwezinyanga eziyi-5. Ngibe nobulili obuphumelelayo ngempelasonto edlule futhi bekuyisipiliyoni esihle. Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngisadinga ukuphinda ngisebenzise i-rewire (ngicabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe ngizodinga umlingani ongaguquguquki), kepha ngizizwa ngiphilile kakhulu. Ucansi lwafika ebusuku kakhulu nangemva kosuku olude lokuphuza. Bengizwela kakhulu, kepha isikhathi sami sokululama besisihle futhi bekuyisipiliyoni esihle kubo bobabili abathintekayo.

Kungani lo mkhuba we-ED osemusha?

Kungenzeka ukuthi lo mkhuba omubi umphumela wemvelo ka ubuchopho obukhulu kakhulu obusakhulayo ukuhamba nge-highspeed (okusho, ukucindezela) porn. Ucwaningo lwamuva, lwembula kokubili ososayensi abakwazi ukubeka ubulili bamammalian futhi ukuhlukunyezwa okuyingqayizivele yobuchopho obusha, isekela le ncazelo. (Ngaphezulu ngezansi.)

Uyabona, i-Oldtimers iqalile ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngaphandle ijubane eliphezulu. Ngokuya ngeminyaka yabo nezimo zabo baqala imisebenzi yabo yobulili bodwa ngekhathalogi, umagazini, ividiyo, izithombe zocansi ze-TV, noma ngokumangazayo (kubafana banamuhla), imicabango yabo. Futhi ngokuvamile babenakho abanye ubulili, noma okungenani ukuthandana, nomlingani wangempela ngaphambi kokuba bawe ngaphansi kwepelingi ye-porn highspeed futhi bathuthukise izimpawu zokuqapha.

Ngamafuphi, abakwa-Oldtimers baqeqeshe ubuchopho babo bentsha ngokuhlukile kunabaFikayo banamuhla-ovame ukuthola i-sex sex ngokusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile (eziningi ezineminyaka engama-10), futhi ungalokothi usebenzise.

Ngamanye amazwi, iminyaka ikhona hhayi ukuguquguquka okuyisisekelo sokuthola okulula. Ukubonisana nabalingani bangempela ngaphambi kokuphakama u. Uthi uneminyaka engu-22 ubudala:

Ngangineminyaka yobulili ngaphambi kokubuka i-porn ye-Intanethi noma ukuthuthukisa i-ED. Ngangishaya indlwabu kuphela kwi-intanethi ye-Intanethi eminyakeni engu-2.5 ngaphambi kokuba ngibe ne-ED ngineminyaka engu-22. Kusukela lapho ngiye emavikini ayi-8 aqondile ngingenayo i-porn noma indlwabu. Angazi noma ngabe sengibuyile impela ku-100%, kepha uma kungenjalo kungakenye ye-90th percentile. Ngidlule kukho konke isikhathi sokufa nakho konke. Ngesikhathi senza inqubo ngaya ocansini cishe izikhathi ezingu-3. Isikhathi sokuqala sangemva kweviki le-1. Ngijabule ngempela ukuthi ngidlule kukho konke lokhu. Manje sengithanda umthondo wami sengathi bekungumuntu, mhlawumbe ngaphezulu. lol !!!!

Nayi i-Oldtimer:

Bengilokhu ngibheka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kusukela ngingu-13 noma kunjalo (ngingu-47 manje). Akukaze kube yinkinga kimi ngize ngithole i-Intanethi esheshayo e-2000. Ngaqala ukuqaphela izinkinga zokuba nzima futhi okubi ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi bengilokhu nginamandla okukhipha umyalo. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kwe-porn ephezulu kakhulu ngaba nenhlanhla uma ngishiya i-40% yesikhathi. Ukuya ocansini nowakwami ​​ngaleso sikhathi kwaya ngokuya kuncipha.

Izwe elisha elinesibindi se-porn

Ngamafuphi, izinto sezishintshile. Kusukela ekukhuleni (noma ngaphambili), abafana abancane manje sebenza kakhulu konke ukushaya indlwabu ku-inthanethi ye-porn. Abanye abakwazi ukucabanga ukuvuthwa ngaphandle kwayo.

Isimo esinjalo socansi sihlukile ekuziphendukeleni komuntu, kepha ngaphambi kokuthi sichaze kabanzi mayelana nokuhlelwa kabusha, nesayensi ngemuva, kwalesi simo asibheke ukuthi kungani ubuchopho bentsha buyingozi kakhulu.

Kusungulwe kahle ukuthi yethu izinkumbulo ezinamandla kakhulu kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhula. Yilapho ubuchopho bethu buvuthiwe ikakhulukazi ekufundeni ulwazi olusha-ikakhulukazi mayelana nokulingana.

Umthamo wesithakazelo faka izinhlangano ezintsha zocansi amakhowe azungeze i-11 noma i-12 lapho izigidi zezixhumanisi ezintsha ze-neural (synapses) zidala amathuba angenamkhawulo. Nokho, ngokukhulile ubuchopho bakhe kufanele buqede izifunda zakhe ze-neural ukumshiya nge-assortment ephathekayo yokukhetha. Ngamashumi amabili, kungenzeka ukuthi akakho wanamathela ngezimpahla zobulili awela phakathi nesikhathi sobusha, kodwa zingafana nezimpikiswano ezijulile ebuchosheni bakhe-akulula ukuzinaki noma ukuzihlanganisa kabusha.

Yikuphi ukulala kwangempela okubandakanyaUbuchopho bomuntu buhamba ngezinyathelo ezimbili zokukhula okuphawulekayo kwe-neuronal: eyodwa ku-utero futhi kuzo zonke izinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zokuphila, omunye phakathi kweminyaka engu-10 no-13-nje lapho abafana abaningi (futhi manje, amantombazane amaningi) beqala ukubheka izithombe ze-intanethi. Kulungile, ngalokhu isikhathi esibucayi sokuthuthukiswa, thina bantu sibheke ekuziphatheni okuhambisana nobulili obufanele. Sifunda ukuthi singadlala kanjani futhi sixhumane nabalingani abangenzeka.

Lokhu kwesibili ukuphefumula ukuphinda kufaka ukuphindaphinda, bese kuthi ukususa of, ukuxhumana kwe-neural. Kanye, izakhi zofuzo kanye nemvelo zibumbe ubumba lwe-cerebral cortex yentsha. Njengoba ukusetshenziswa-it-noma-elahlekile-kuqhubeka, ubuchopho buhlela kabusha futhi buhle ngokwayo:

Imifula ye-cortex ishiya amasiphayithi amancane asetshenzisiwe, kuyilapho eqinisa kahle izindlela ezihamba phambili ze-neural. Ama-axon cell e-Nerve emigwaqweni ethandekayo ahlehliswa kangcono ne-myelin, okwandisa ijubane lezimvo zesisindo. Amagatsha amancane athola imiyalezo (ebizwa ngokuthi ama-dendrites) akhula njengemivini ukuzwa kangcono isignali engenayo. Ukuxhuma phakathi kwe-axons ne-dendrite (i-synapses) yanda kuma-circuits aqinile futhi ichithekile kulabo ababuthakathaka. Ekupheleni unezinkumbulo, amakhono, imikhuba, izintandokazi nezindlela zokubhekana nazo ezima ukuhlolwa kwesikhathi. (Ama-Dobbs, ugcizelelwe wengezwe)

Emibhalweni encane emangalisa, njengamasha, sivimbela izinketho zethu-ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi ukhetho lwethu lubucayi kangakanani phakathi nokukhula kwethu kokugcina, kwe-pubescent, neuronal. Ngokusho komcwaningi Jay Giedd,

Uma osemusha enza umculo noma ezemidlalo noma izifundiswa, lawo ngamaseli nokuxhumana okuzobe kusebenze kanzima. Uma belele kusofa noma bedlala imidlalo yevidiyo noma i-MTV [noma i-Internet porn], lawo ngamaseli nokuxhumana okuzosinda.

Ingabe kuvele ukuthi abafana abaqala ngokushesha ekubhekaneni nezinkinga zokusebenza ngokobulili njengoba bebeseduze / befika kubantu abadala? Cishe cha. Umsebenzi we-Dopamine, okuyinto amandla erections, ziphakamisa ku intsha yasekuqaleni futhi unqabe ukuya fikela amazinga omdala ngeminyaka engamashumi amabili yokuqala. Yilapho laba bantu bevame ukubona izimpawu ezingenakuphikwa.

Ubulili bungalungiswa ... ngisho nasephunga lokufa

Uma uzibuza ukuthi wena, noma umuntu omthandayo, wazithola kanjani ngokungalindele ukulala nesilwane, ukudlwengulwa yiqembu lezigelekeqe, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili noma enye into evusa inkanuko, ungabe usazibuza. E-laboratory, umcwaningi uJim Pfaus usebenzise ngempumelelo umklomelo wama-jollies wezocansi ku isimo sezilwane ezincelisayo ezincane ukuthanda i-cadaverine (iphunga lenyama ebola).

Imvamisa amagundane agwema ukubola kwenyama. Kungokwemvelo; akukhona ukuziphatha okufundwayo. Bazongcwaba abangani bakho abafile noma ithoshi elenziwe ngokhuni elifakwe ku-cadaverine. UPfaus wafafaza abesifazane abalalelayo nge-cadaverine, wababeka ezinkanjini nabancane, abesilisa abesilisa befuna ukulahlekelwa ama-V-card abo. Impela, abesilisa bahlangana futhi bakhishwa ejacini kaningana. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva amagundane amancane afakwa esibayeni esikhulu esinezinsikazi ezinephunga elijwayelekile nabesifazane abanuka ukufa. Amagundane afakwe ku-cadaverine ahlanganiswe nazo zombili izinhlobo zabesifazane. Owesilisa omdala ojwayelekile ubengasondeli kwabesifazane abanuka njengokufa — noma ngabe kunjani.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa amadoda asesimweni athola isithwathwa sezinkuni egcwele i-cadaverine. Badlala nayo, futhi abaningi bayigxuma, njengoba bebengathanda uma le ndolo yayigcwele okuthile abayithandayo ngempela, njengokothokolethi noma izicathulo zangasese.

Manje yini enikeza abaFikayo banamuhla ukukhahlela okukhulu kwezocansi? Hhayi ontanga bangempela, kepha i-porn. Njengoba nje amagundane nabantu bengalithandi ngempela iphunga lenyama ebolayo, abasebenzisi abaningi be-porn banamuhla abakuthandi ngempela bakhuphukele ku. "Kuyinkimbinkimbi."

I-dopamine ephakanyisiwe kanye nezinguquko ezithandweni zobulili

Nabu ubufakazi obengeziwe bokuthi ukuthanda izinto zocansi kungabuyiselwa esimweni ngokujulile: Isilinganiso sowesilisa singaba njalo kufakwe isimo sokukhetha umlingani wobulili obufanayo ngokubamba i-dopamine yakhe. Futhi akuthathi isikhathi eside kakhulu. Abaphenyi bajova i-rat yesilisa nge-dopamine agonist (umuthi olingisa i-dopamine), base beyifaka ehokweni nomunye wesilisa. Amagundane amabili avele ahlanganyela ndawonye usuku olulodwa. (I-dopamine agonist iphumile ohlelweni cishe ngosuku olulodwa.) Abaphenyi bakuphindile lokhu amahlandla ama-2, izinsuku ezi-4 zihlukene.

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, owesilisa ovuliwe wahlolwa. Njengoba engekho i-dopamine agonist ohlelweni lwakhe, wabekwa emgodini nabesifazane bakhe besilisa nabesifazane abamukela ucansi (khumbula ukuthi i-dopamine yayingekho ohlelweni lwakhe). Ukuqagela ukuthi yisiphi isici esiphendule kakhulu kunayo? Wabonisa ukusabela okuningi kowesilisa: ukuphazamiseka okwedlulele, uphenyo oluningi lomzimba, ngisho nokuncenga kwamabhinqa-uma kuqhathaniswa nokuziphatha okuvamile kwesilisa.

Isifundo? Amazinga aphezulu e-dopamine angabuyisa kabusha ubuchopho ngamandla futhi aguqule ukuthanda izinto zocansi. Abaphenyi bagcizelele ukuthi igundane lowesilisa alisona isitabane, njengoba engazami ukufaka elinye igundane. Nokho wayeseshintshile nakanjani. Ngokufanayo, ukusetshenziswa kocansi okuqhubekayo ayikho shintsha ukujwayela kwakho kobulili, kodwa kungashintsha ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-porn lukuheha.

Isimo sokuqala sisesimweni esinzima ukusula

Nansi into esabekayo kwabasanda kufika: Isimo sokuqala ngocansi singanamathela. Ubuchopho bentsha busezingeni eliphakeme lokuzwela kwabo (1) ku ukusayina kwe-dopamine futhi (2) ubungozi bokulutha. Inoveli, okumangazayo, okuvusayo kungashukumisa umhlaba wabo ngendlela engeke kube yingqondo yabantu abadala. Leli qiniso le-neurochemical lisebenzisa ubuchopho obusha. Bafunda ukuchaza ubulili ngokuya nganoma yisiphi isisusa esinikeza i-buzz enkulu kakhulu yezocansi. Lesi sifundo sinamandla, njengoba kungabonakala kumagundane ayethanda amathoshi anephunga le-cadaverine.

Ngokuphambene nalokho, isimo sengqondo socansi sinwebeka kakhulu nakakhulu uma kwenzeka ngemuva Amaphethini avamile wokubambisana asungulwa. Isibonelo, ososayensi bathela owesifazane owamukelayo owesilisa kamuva, ngomzuzwana kamuva, wamxosha ekhishini lakhe. Lokhu kwamenza afinyelele ngokushesha kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Uma laba besilisa befunda leli phethini phakathi nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokuqala kocansi, babambelele kubo-ngisho nalapho kamuva bavunyelwe ukungena ngokungathinteki kwabesifazane.

Ukubona umehluko, abacwaningi baphinde bafundisa abesilisa abanolwazi (ababefunde ucansi ngaphansi kwezimo ezijwayelekile) ukujula ngokushesha, ngokuzulazula abesifazane ngemuva komzuzu. Kodwa-ke-ngokungafani namagundane abezimo zawo zocansi zazilungiswa kwasekuqaleni-amagundane anolwazi abuyela emuva ekuziphatheni okujwayelekile kokuvunyelwa lapho evunyelwe ukufinyelela okungaphazanyiswa kwabesifazane.

Le migqa yocwaningo ihambisana nalokho esikuzwa kubafana abaphulukana no-ED. Abafana abathuthukisa ubulili babo ngaphambi basebenzisa i-Internet ye-intanethi kuphela badinga izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze babuyiselwe kusuka ku-ED. Amantombazane aqale ukushaya indlwabu ngokushesha ku-intanethi ye-Inthanethi ngokuvamile adinga izinyanga eziyisithupha noma ngaphezulu ukuze abe nobulili obuyanelisayo.

Intsha yanamuhla iqala ukuqeqesha amakhono ayo okukhwelana ngamaphikseli kunokuba abalingani bangempela. Ukuqeqeshwa kwabo akubalungiseli ukuthola injabulo ejwayelekile ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini (noma ngocansi lomlomo) nomlingani wangempela. Kufana nokushaya amabhola ethenisi ukuthuthukisa ukudubula komuntu. Abafana baqeqeshela umdlalo ongafanele, ngakho-ke lapho (uma?) Bashintshela kozakwethu bangempela kufanele bafunde umdlalo omusha ngokuphelele.

Ukuchitha iminyaka ngaphambi kokuqabulana kwakho kokuqala kufihlwe esikrinini kuvulwe amathebhu ayi-10, ukwazi amakhono angabazekayo wokubuka izenzo zocansi ubaba wakho angakaze azizwe, nokufunda ukushaya indlwabu ngesandla sakho sobunxele akukuhlomiseli ukuthola indlela eya esisekelweni sokuqala, ake kuphela okwanelisa ukwenza uthando. Eqinisweni, intsha yanamuhla ingahle ilahlekelwe uphawu ngokuphelele, ngokungazi ngamakhono wokuqomisana nokufunda ngocansi:

(Ubudala 22) Ngakho-ke, ngithatha intombazane eshisayo ngempela ngiyibuyisele endaweni yami. Wayebhema ngokuphelele, kepha angikwazanga ukuphatha naye. Ngathi ngidakiwe. Ngemuva konyaka ngahlangana nenye intombazane eshisayo. Benginengilazi yewayini kuphela kepha bengingakwazi ukukwenza. Ngangichotshoziwe. Ngamantombazane kwakuzwakala kuxaka futhi kungeyona imvelo. Ngangikuthanda ukubabamba nokuba nabo, kepha kwakungekho nenjabulo yocansi kimi, okusobala ukuthi akulungile. Ngijwayele ukujwayela leyo ndlela yakudala yezocansi. Kazi le nqubo yokutakula izothatha isikhathi esingakanani, futhi uma kungenzeka. Ngikhathazekile ukuthi kungenzeka kube lukhuni kakhulu kungene ebuchosheni bami….

Ingabe isimo socansi singachaza ukuthi kungani abafikayo banamuhla abashaya indlwabu kuphela ngamaphikseli nokuxabana okunzima kunzima ukuphinda baphendule impendulo yabo yezocansi kubalingani bangempela nakubulili obuvamile ngisho noma sebayekile ukusebenzisa i-porn? Ukubuyekezwa kukaPfaus ngesimo socansi Ngubani, yini, kuphi, nini (futhi mhlawumbe noma kungani)? Indlela Okuhlangenwe Ngayo Imbuyiselo Yezocansi Ixhuma Ukufisa Ngokwecansi, Ukuthandwa, nokusebenza isikisela ukuthi impendulo inguyebo.

I-Dilbert - DigisexualKungenzeka ukuthi ucwaningo lwesimo socansi luchaza nokuthi kungani abantu abadala bebengabonanga nge-Internet / i-deathgrip ukushaya indlwabu, futhi ngubani owayenecansi langempela ngaphambi basebenzise i-ED, ngokushesha babuyele ekuphenduleni komzimba ngokocansi-nakuba bekhulile futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abanakho amazinga amasha ama-hormone ocansi kanye ne-dopamine?

Inkulumo kaSepthemba 2015 ye-TEDx yensizwa edinga isikhathi esengeziwe nokuthola kabusha / ukubuyela emuva ukuze inqobe i-ED eyenziwe nge-porn ne-anorgasmia -

Isiyaluyalu singabangela izimpawu ezingalindelekile

Ukulungiswa kwangaphambi kwesikhathi akuyona ukuphela kwengozi yabafana abaqala ngejubane eliphezulu. Iningi labafana abane-ED eyenziwe ngocansi ekugcineni babika ukuziphatha kanye nezimpawu ezivamile kubantu abaningi abahlukunyezwayo, njengoku: ukuhluleka ukulawula ukusetshenziswa, izifiso, ukuqhubeka nokusetshenziswa naphezu kwemiphumela emibi (kuhlanganise ne-ED), ukukhuphuka, nezimpawu zokuhoxiswa lapho beyeka. Lezi zimpawu imiphumela yezinguquko zeplastiki ebuchosheni babo. Njengoba sesibonile, ubuchopho bentsha yiplastiki enkulu kakhulu kunezikhukhula ezindala-ezishiya tkuvula amathuba amaningi okuhlaselwa kwezidakamizwa.

Izihluthulelo ezimbili izinguquko ezihlobene nomlutha abizwa ukungafuneki futhi ukuzwela, ngokulandelana. Ukungahlehlisi Kusho ukudayela okujwayelekile phansi kokuphendula kuyo yonke injabulo… ushintsho oluyisisekelo. Kusemuva kwemizwa yokuthi, "Angikwazi ukuthola okwanele". Ukukwazisa kubhekisa ekusebenzeni kabusha kwe-hyper-reactivity / injabulo-kepha kuphela ekuphenduleni imikhondo ethile ubuchopho obuhlobanisa nokulutha. Kuyinkumbulo enkulu yobumnandi, ebhebhethekisa izifiso ezinzima zokungazinaki.

Konke, lezi zinguquko chaza ukuthi kungani i-porn isebenza futhi ingane eshisayo ayenzi. Abanye abantu bayodinga izinyanga eziningi ukuze babuyele ubuchopho babo kubalingani bangempela.

Kungani kungenjalo bafo isaziso ukuthi izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezithandwayo ziphinda ziphinde zithinte ubulili bazo?

  1. Ukushaqeka nokushaqeka okungapheli kwe-Highspeed porn kufaka i-aphrodisiac enamandla, kodwa engokwemvelo, ngakho laba basebenzi bangakwazi njalo ukuphuma ku-porn uma bebukele ngokwanele, noma ngaphezulu kakhulu, impahla.
  2. Ukwehla kwamandla okwakhiwa kuhamba kancane njengoba ubuchopho bukhula bungasabeli kangako kozakwethu abangahle babe khona kanye nokuxhumana ngokocansi. Okwamanje, abacabangi ukuzama ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle porn, ngakho ukuwohloka kuphekwe.
  3. Bavame ukusebenzisa i-Internet ye-porn iminyaka eminingi ngaphambi kokuzama ukuya ocansini nomlingani.
  4. Ngaleso sikhathi, abanye ngokwethembeka abazi ukuthi ukuphendula okuvamile kobulili kwabesilisa kuyini — ngoba bavaleleke ekugqilazweni kocansi kusukela ekuthomeni, njengabo bonke abangane babo.
  5. Lapho bengakwazi ukwenza ngesikhathi socansi lwangempela, bangahlala bekusola kokunye: utshwala, ukhula, izinwele ezingalungile noma umbala wesikhumba womlingani wabo, ukungabikho kobulili bendunu, noma yini.
  6. Izeluleko ezivamile zanamuhla ziphikelela ngephutha ukuthi ukuthanda izinto zocansi akunakuguqulwa, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile azinabungozi, nezinkinga ze-erectile emashumini amabili nanhlanu ngokuvamile futhi engahlobene nokusetshenziswa kocansi. (Huh?)

Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukubuyisela kubalingani bangempela?

Ubude bezinkinga eziluthayo, kodwa nesilinganiso sobuciko bezobuchopho. Ama-Brain ahlukile futhi alulame ngezinga elihlukile.

Cabanga ngalokhu imiphumela yokutakula umlutha kuleli qembu lamaphara. (Qaphela: ososayensi babekala ukungafuneki kanye nokuguqulwa kwayo.)

Ezintathu [izilwane] ezivezwe ku-cocaine kuphela ngesonto elilodwa, [ukubonakaliswa kwe-dopamine evamile] kubuyele emuva, amazinga wangaphambi kwezidakamizwa kungakapheli amasonto amathathu.

Izihloko ezinhlanu ezenziwa yi-cocaine ezithandayo izinyanga eziyishumi nambili bafundiswa ngesikhathi sokuqeda i-cocaine. Izihloko ezintathu kulezi zinsuku zazibonisa ukuthi zilulame ngokuphelele [ukubonakaliswa okuvamile kwe-dopamine] zingakapheli izinyanga ezintathu zokuziyeka, kanti enye Izifundo ezimbili azizange ziphuluke ngemva konyaka owodwa wokuzilahla. Isilinganiso sokubuyisa sasingathintwa nokudla okudakile kwezidakamizwa ngaphezu kwezinyanga eziyishumi nambili ze-cocaine ukuziphatha.

Sithatha lokho Ukulutha kwezidakamizwa ze-inthanethi "kuyabuyiselwa" ngaphezu kokulutha i-cocaine, kodwa akekho owaziyo. Sesivele sizwa kusuka emadodeni abo ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili / ukusebenza akutholakali ngokugcwele emva konyaka.

Akufanele kube yi-alarmist, kodwa konke lokhu kucwaninga okuthathwe ndawonye kuphakamisa ukuthi intsha engathi ngelinye ilanga ithemba ukujabulela ubulili nabalingani bangempela kudingeka ikwazi ukuthi

  1. kungaba yingozi ukufaka impendulo yomuntu kwezocansi ezintweni ezihluke kakhulu kwezocansi langempela, futhi
  2. kanti ingozi yokulutha umlutha akuyona yonke indawo, ingokoqobo, futhi izinguquko ezihlobene nomlutha ebuchosini kungaba nzima ukuguqula.

Nakhu ukuphulukiswa kwakubukeka njengokwelulama kwamadoda

(Qaphela ukuthi ngisho nangemva kokuba othile ethola okwanele ukuba abe nobulili obuvamile, cishe uzobona ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo izinyanga.)

Umuntu wokuqala - (Ubudala 18) Ngayeka ukubuka i-porn nokushaya indlwabu (ngangingenayo i-orgasm yezinsuku ezungeze i-124 ngaze ngaya ocansini). Lapho ngiqala ukuya ocansini, ama-erections ami abuya emuva, kepha ngase ngibambezele ukuphuma kwe-ejaculation futhi ngangikwazi kuphela i-orgasm nge-handjob ngemuva kocansi. Ngangiya ocansini sengathi ngishaya indlwabu ocansini. Angizange ngigxile emuzwa. Ngalesi sikhathi, ngakhululeka ngokuphelele futhi ngagxila ethangeni lami nasekuzizweleni. Kusebenze kahle. Kuyinto entsha kimi futhi ngine-orgasm enhle. Konke okudingayo ukufunda ukuthi ungalujabulela kanjani ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Kuhluke kakhulu ekushaya indlwabu.

Mayelana ne-3 kuya ezinsukwini ezingu-4 manje, ngaphambi kokuba ngilale ngecansi, ngavele ngishaya i-penis yami, ngifaka iminwe yami eduze kwe-shaft. Ngagxila ekuzweleni ngenkathi ngenza lokho. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kwangisiza ukuba ngifunde ukuthi ngigxile kanjani epeniseni yami nasenhliziyweni yami. Izinto ezibalulekile zokuyeka ukumiswa kokuphuza:

-I-Relax: Umzimba wakho wonke kufanele uphumule. Nonke imisipha, ikakhulukazi i-penis yakho. Kufanele ukwenze ngokuqaphela.

-Focus emoyeni: Vala amehlo akho uma kufanele. Qaphela ukuzwa futhi uzizwe.

-Nciphisa phansi: Ungaziphoqi ku-orgasm noma ku-ejaculate. Jabulela umzuzwana ngamunye wakho konke. Ukuphoqa kusho ukuthi awukhululekile futhi awunakile ekuzweleni, kepha kunalokho ufinyelela i-orgasm. Gxila ohambweni, hhayi lapho uya khona. Uzofika lapho ekugcineni.

Qhubeka: Uma usazizwa sengathi ukude ne-orgasm, awugxilile. Khululeka, gxila, wehlise ijubane, qhubeka futhi uphinde.

Ngifinyelele imigomo yami. Isikhathi sokugxila eyunivesithi manje.

Umfana wesibili - Ngiye ngaphuma ekushaya indlwabu ku-porn ye-1/3 yonyaka (ngokungabuyeli emuva kakhulu, futhi akukho hardcore). Ukuzwela kwami ​​enjabulweni kuyanda. Isibonelo kusuka empilweni yangempela: Bengihlala ngithanda izinto ezijwayelekile njengokulalela umculo wepiyano, ukudla amapentshisi noma ukuphuza itiye eliluhlaza. Kepha ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule injabulo ikhule kakhulu. Namuhla ukudla amapentshisi engadini yethu 'bekufana ne-orgasm' (kusobala ukuthi akunamandla kangako), kepha kuhlala isikhathi eside. Kwakungathandeki nje kuphela, kepha kwakumnandi kakhulu futhi kwanelisa. I-IMHO lesi yisizathu sokuthi ukuyeka ukushaya indlwabu ku-porn kukhokha ngempela.

Umfana wesithathu: Mhlawumbe nginokutholwa okude kakhulu okuvela ku-ED ehlobene nezocansi, okwakungikhathaza, ngakho-ke ngethemba lokuthi sengingasebenza njengokhuthazo kulabo abakhungathekiswe ukungabi nemiphumela. Okokuqala, ukuthola umlingani ongaguquguquki bekungikwenzeleni. Ngaphambi kwalolo kukhungatheka ngangibona konke. Ukuqala ngenyanga ye-7 ngemuva kokuqalisa kabusha nganginomuntu engangidlala ngothando naye, ngilale naye, ngigone naye, futhi ngiqabule ngobumnene ngaphambi kokuya ocansini. Lokhu kwangibuyisela kancane kancane. Ekuqaleni nganginzima kuphela isikhathi esifushane futhi kwakudingeka "ngiphuthume" ukungena, kodwa njalo isikhathi sami sokuqina saqina. Futhi amazinga aphezulu okujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi anciphile njengoba isikhathi sesigugile — ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele.

Ngavele ngilale ngocansi kathathu ngobusuku obulodwa nginezinkinga zero. Angikwazi ukukholelwa ukuthi ngikude kangakanani kusukela ngifika kulolu hambo. Manje ngizikhandla nje ngokumanga ngobumnene umthandi wami futhi ngingenayo inkinga ngekhwalithi yokwakhiwa. Nginaso isifiso sokushaya indlwabu. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi i-libido yami izoqhubeka nokuthuthukisa, kanye nama-orgasms ami ayengaziwa lutho ekuqaleni (kodwa kancane kancane athole kangcono). Ngento yonke ethatha isikhathi eside kimi, ngiyakwazi ukucabanga kuphela izinguquko ngonyaka kusukela manje. Izinyanga ze-9 futhi sengivele ngingumuntu oguqukile. Thola umlingani wangempela. Thatha isikhathi sokuxhumana nomuntu (hhayi nje ngokobulili). Kuyinto okuhlangenwe nakho okunamandla kakhulu ukuchaza. Ngithemba ukuthi akekho owake kwadingeka angene kulokho engakwenza.

Umfana wesine: (Oldtimer) ngifakele iminyaka engama-40… uku… .porn !! Futhi angikaze ngibe nenkinga ye-ED kuze kube yiminyaka yokugcina ye-3.5. I-porn-site porn ibangela izinkinga ezinkulu, kepha bengingazi nje. Bengicabanga ukuthi yiminyaka yobudala, noma iqiniso lokuthi anginaso isimo, noma isithukuthezi noma yini ... ngize ngifunde ukuthi kanjani Internet izithombe ezingcolile zithinta ubuchopho bethu futhi zisenza singaphenduli amantombazane langempela kanye nocansi nabo.

Manje, angikho ngaphansi kwemibono yokuthi ngoba ngihambe izinyanga eziyisithupha ngaphandle NOMA izithombe ezingcolile zobulili manje engikwazi ukubuyela kuzo ezingcolile ze-intanethi. Ngikholwa ukuthi ngaluphula unomphela lolu hlelo. Ngakho-ke ngeke ngiphinde ngibheke noma iyiphi i-porn kunokubhema ugwayi njengoba bobabili bengangibuyisela emuva ezweni elibhemayo / elibhemayo. Nangu umkhabi. Eminyakeni engu-40 YONKE ngaphulwa ngezindlela ezingezona eze-ED.

  • Bengilindele ukuthi bonke abantu besifazane benze yonke into futhi anginandaba nokuthi bebengakhululekile yini ... ngokukhala ngokuzwakalayo, izinkulungwane zamantombazane ezingamanyala ziyakwenza
  • Ngilindele ukuthi bonke ubulili bufana nezocansi zobulili ezingcolile (okwenza izinto zikhishwe ngabesifazane futhi benza kancane kakhulu ukuzinikeza uthando, isithunzi, inhlonipho, umusa, njll)
  • Angikaze nganeliseke ngocansi nanoma imuphi umuntu wesifazane ... noma ngabe wenzani, wayekwenza kangaki, njll. Kwakunganele
  • Ngabhubhisa ubuhlobo obuningi ngaphezu kwalaba ngenhla
  • Angikaze ngijabule ngokuphila kwami ​​kocansi
  • Angikaze ngijabule ebudlelwaneni ngoba angizange ngisebenze kubo… angidingi ... uma ethukuthele noma yini, benginabafazi bami bezocansi ukuze nganelise izidingo zami zocansi
  • ucansi aluzange luzwakale lumangalisa njengangesikhathi ngiseyingane ngemuva nje kokulahlekelwa ubuntombi bami… Ngisho, kwakukuhle kakhulu, kepha hhayi ngokumangalisa ngendlela emangalisayo ukuthi ngangikwazi ukuzwa wonke amaseli angaphakathi kwakhe ethinta wonke amaseli kimi nakuwo wonke lawo maseli adubula amasiginali wenjabulo kagesi aqhuma kimi wonke ... manje ayaphinda futhi…
  • zonke izinto ezijabulisayo empilweni (imibala, umculo, ukuthinta, ingxoxo, amahlaya, ukusiza abanye, ukuba nomusa, ukubonana umusa kwabanye, njll) manje kuyathokozisa kakhulu lapho iminyaka eminingi, leyo minyaka ibe yinto enzima kakhulu.

Kuyamangalisa…

Umfana wesihlanu: Ekolishi, ngaqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ngangithuthukisa i-ED. Ekuqaleni, bengingakwazi ukugcina ukwakhiwa noma kunini lapho ngisebenzisa ikhondomu, kepha ngathi lokho kubangelwa ukukhathazeka kakhulu kokusebenza kanye / noma ukudakwa. Umcabango wokuthi i-PMO ne-ED behlobene bekungekho, yize sekusobala kabuhlungu manje. Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka ngaqhubeka ngaya ku-PMO ukuze ngisebenzise izinto ezinzima. I-ED yaya ngokuya iba yimbi kakhulu. Angisakwazi ukugcina i-erection ngaphandle kwekhondomu, ngingenangqondo, futhi nginentombi ekhululekile. Ngalesi sikhathi ngithole umuthi wami wokuqala ku-Viagra. Cabanga indlela engangizizwa ngayo lapho ngiphuma ehhovisi likadokotela ngineminyaka engu-24! Vele kufihle uphawu lwenkinga kuphela, kepha kwangivumela ukuthi ngilale futhi. Lokhu kwakungukuqala kwenkathi yeminyaka engu-3-4 ephawula okubi kakhulu empilweni yami. Yize ngangiphumelela ezifundweni futhi kamuva, emsebenzini, ngangicindezelekile futhi nginamahloni. I-ED engapheli ngisemncane kangaka yayingidabula, futhi ngangingenayo i-IDEA porn kwakuyinkinga. [Bheka iposi lakhe le- umphumela ojabulisayo.]

Umfana wesithupha: Ngibe nezikena ezahlukahlukene (njenge-MRI), ukuhlaziywa kwe-cerebro-spinal fluid, ukuhlaziywa kwe-endocrine, izifundo zokuqhuba izinzwa (i-electromyograms), ngathintana nodokotela wezifo zomchamo, udokotela wezocansi kanye nodokotela wezengqondo nge-ED yami. Akekho noyedwa ongibuzile ngokusetshenziswa kocansi. Kodwa-ke ngazama ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ngiphinde ngagwema noma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-ejaculation noma ukushaya indlwabu amasonto e-7. Ngahlangana nomuntu ngesonto 7 futhi okwesithathu esasihlangane naye sasivele silenga embhedeni ndawonye, ​​sikhuluma futhi sisondelene, futhi ngaba nokwakhiwa okuqinile okuhlala ihora le-1 nemizuzu ye-20 cishe ngokungami. Kwakumnandi impela ungenzi into esobala kepha ukumane ukuhlekisa ngezikhathi ezithile esikhundleni salokho. Ngakusasa senza uthando futhi ekugcineni ngaya emaphethelweni futhi ngaba ne-orgasm yami yokuqala cishe ezinsukwini ezingama-50. Kwakumangalisa impela, kepha ngakhululeka lapho ngithola ukuthi kwakungebuhlungu yize ngangizizwa ngihlukaniswe ngokwedlulele emahoreni ambalwa alandelayo (hhayi ngicindezelekile kepha into efanayo, njenge-melancholy). Ngakhululeka futhi ukuthi ama-erections aqhubeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezizayo futhi ngamthanda kakhulu, ngakhipha ama-3 izikhathi ezifanayo kusihlwa lapho ngimbona futhi ngemuva kwesonto. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngingasho ngokuphepha ukuthi ngiphulukisiwe! 

Siyethemba ukuthi ososayensi kungekudala bazoqala uphenyo olusemthethweni mayelana nesimo sokungasebenzi kahle kocansi okubangelwa ucansi, kanye nobungozi obuyingqayizivele bobuchopho bentsha. Okwamanje, yilabhorethri yakho. Yenza okwakho ukuhlolwa.

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