Ubulili kanye nobuchopho

Lesi sigaba sobulili nobuchopho siyakhula ukuze sihlanganise izihloko okuthi, lapho uthi nhlá, zingabonakali zihlobene nokulutha kocansi. Noma kunjalo, zonke izindatshana zihlobene ngoba zihlola ukugqugquzela ngokocansi ekuzweleni nasepulasitiki kwesekethe lomvuzo.

Isikhathi sokuhlukanisa 'ukuthambekela kwezocansi' kokuguqukayo 'kokuthandwa ngocansi'

RIzimboni ze-esear show zibonisiwe ukuthi izilwane ezincelisayo zingenziwa isimo (futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukubuyiswa kabusha) ukulungisa ukuphendula kwabo ngokocansi ngokukhululeka okumangalisayo.

Ukuvuthwa kwentsha nocansi kakhulu kuyinkimbinkimbi emangalisayo

Ngokuzayo lapho uzwa othile ephikisana ngokuthi “Izingane ziya ocansini futhi akekho umuntu okufanele anqande ukukhetha kwazo kwezocansi,” bakhumbuze ukuthi ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi ukukhuthazwa kocansi okunamandla kunamandla okuguqula umkhondo wokuqala wobulili bobusha ngezindlela ezimangazayo.

Ufuna ukuthola ukwaneliseka okukhulu? Yazi ubuchopho bakho.

Umbono wezobuchopho-mbono wokuthi kungani imibono yezocansi inganciphisa injabulo yakho yocansi nokuxhuma nomlingani wakho. Njengoba ukucabanga ngomkhuba kuwumkhuba wabasebenzisi be-porn, lesi sihloko singase sikusize ekutheni ululame.

Isifiso ngezinye izikhathi siyaqhamuka phezulu ngemuva kocansi olushisayo

Umqondo othi “the more you scratch the more youchch” kwesinye isikhathi usebenza ku-orgasm. Idizayini yesekethe yomvuzo iholela ekuqiniseni isifiso lapho ivuselelwa. Yini i-libido yakho yangempela? Ifaka imibono yabantu abathola ukwaneliseka nokulinganisela ezimpilweni zabo zocansi.

Ingabe ukushaya isifiso sobuchopho esifundeni kungumqondo omuhle?

Lesi sihloko sixoxa ngokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezishintsha ubuchopho ukwandisa isifiso socansi.

Ukuziphatha akukhona lapho sicabanga khona

Ucwaningo olusha lwembula ukuthi izinqumo zokuziphatha azikwenziwe ngobuchopho bethu obuphakeme. Izinqumo ezinjalo zilinganiswa nomvuzo wethu wesikhathi esidlule, njengabanye izilwane. Izidakamizwa zidlala umonakalo kumjikelezo wokuvuza, ngaleyo ndlela zihlanekezela ikhampasi yethu yokuziphatha.

Okuhlangenwe nakho, hhayi ubuntwana noma izakhi zofuzo, ulungisa i-wiring yomuntu ngamunye

Okuthakazelisayo, isikhungo senjabulo kanye nokuziphatha okukuqondisayo kukhishwa kakhulu ngokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila kunokuba yizifo zethu zofuzo. Lezi zinselele zokucabanga kwangaphambili ukuthi umsebenzi we-dopamine ungabelwa njengefa ngokuqondile. -Paul Stokes, MD, PhD

Njengoba ukwazi ukubona kukhona okuningi kwezocansi nobuchopho kunokulutha nje kocansi.