Mgbe afọ 30 nke PMO gasịrị - Anọgidere m na-ewu ụlọ n'oge mmekọahụ maka oge mbụ na ndụ m

Ụbọchị 82 bụ ọnụọgụ dị egwu ị biputere ya, mana enwetara m nnukwu ọkwa taa. Nzụlite ngwa ngwa. A gbara m alụkwaghịm wee lụọ enyi m nwanyị mbụ (na onye mbụ na-enwe mmekọahụ). Nke ahụ were ihe karịrị afọ iri na ihere na-eme m ikweta na PMO mere ka m nwee ihe fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ enweghị mmekọahụ.

Ịgba alụkwaghịm abụghị naanị n'ihi PMO ma enwere m ike ịgwa gị na mmekọrịta na-enweghị mmekọahụ bụ mmekọrịta ọjọọ, oge.

Mgbe ịgba alụkwaghịm ahụ kwụsịrị, enwere m ọtụtụ mgbanwe, gụnyere ịla n'iyi, gbanwee ọrụ m, ụgbọ ala, àgwà, ihe niile. Ma agbanweghị m PMO, ọ bụ ezie na onye ndụmọdụ alụmdi na nwunye gwara m n'ụzọ ziri ezi na m riri ahụ na-akpali agụụ mmekọahụ (ahụghị m ihe mere m ga-eji kwụsị - enweghị m GF na ọ bụ ihe na-akasi obi).

Ngwa ngwa n'ihu otu afọ mgbe ịgba alụkwaghịm m na-ezute ọmarịcha nwa agbọghọ na-ahụ n'anya ma ị nwere ike ịkọ akụkọ ahụ - enweghị m ike ibili ya. Ma dị ka n'oge alụmdi na nwunye m malitere iche echiche hey, m nnọọ agbajikwa na nwa agbọghọ a ga-ebi ndụ na eziokwu na m bụ ezigbo enyi nwoke ma e wezụga maka mmekọahụ.

Ọ kwadoro nke ukwuu wee sị na anyị 'ga-edozi' nsogbu m - nke ahụ mere ka m chee echiche banyere ihe okwu m bụ. Ma ebe ọ bụ na e nyere m ihe nlele nke nsogbu ahụ bụ ihe fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ otu afọ gara aga, amalitere m ịgụ banyere ya, chọta ebe a, YBOP, na saịtị ndị ọzọ. Otu ụbọchị mgbe m na-ezumike na kama ịpụ n'èzí, m ga-ele anya na-akpali agụụ mmekọahụ na laptọọpụ m ma nwee obi ụtọ n'onwe m, ọ kụrụ m - nke a bụ nsogbu ahụ. Achọrọ m ịkwụsị.

Ụbọchị ahụ bụ ụbọchị 82 gara aga ma enwere m mpako ịsị na m zuru oke na enweghị mmetụ onwe ya na enweghị orgasm. Adịghị m mpako ịsị na m na-alaghachi na porn kwa ụbọchị ole na ole ọ dị ka ọ dị - ọ na-abụkarị nkeji ole na ole nke bikini / soft core mana amaara m na ọ ka na-ezighi ezi. Nke a bụ agha m ka na-alụ.

Otú ọ dị, ọ dịkarịa ala maka m, ọ dị ka nofap bụ isi ihe ngwọta, n'ihi na nsogbu ahụ m nwere bụ enweghị uche n'ihi ọnwụ ọnwụ - ọ dịghị ihe ọ bụla m chere site na PIV ma ọ bụ BJ ma ọ bụ ihe ọ bụla ọzọ karịa aka m. Site n'iwepụ aka m kpamkpam, enwere m ike iji nwayọọ nwayọọ (ji nwayọọ nwayọọ, ma n'ezie) na-enwe mmetụta ọzọ.

Ihe dị ka ụbọchị 45 n'ime m nwere ike inwe mmetụta nke PIED na-apụ, mana ọ ka zubeghị oke. Agwara m GF m banyere nsogbu m mgbe ahụ, nke bụ ihe ọzọ maka arụmụka ebe a; opekata mpe n'ọnọdụ m, ọ bara ezigbo uru ịgwa ya ka o wee ghọta ihe ndị ọ ga-eme iji nyere m aka ime nke ọma.

Na iji nweta ìhè na njedebe nke ọwara - nke bụ olile anya na ọ bụ naanị ọkụ mbụ - n'ụtụtụ a enwere m ike idobe ya n'oge PIV ya mere na nke mbụ ya na ndụ m (na m nọ na njedebe 30s m. ) M nyere nwa agbọghọ ọgbụgbọ naanị site na nke ahụ. Enwekwara m mmetụta nke ukwuu (n'ụzọ doro anya ebe ọ bụ na m nwere ike ịbanye na-aga n'ihu) mana m ka nwere ụzọ m ga-esi gaa tupu emegharịa m kpamkpam.

Yabụ ee, nke a bụ ntakịrị ọkwa ntu ọnụ, mana ọ masịrị m ịgụ akwụkwọ ntule nke ndị ọzọ n'ihi na ihe ịga nke ọma ha nyere m olileanya maka ịga nke ọma m. M ka nwere ụzọ m ga-esi gaa, mana ọ bụrụ na m nwere ike chịkọta isi ihe nke njem m:

  • Ogologo oge PMO riri ahụ na-ahapụ alụmdi na nwunye ire ere n'ime n'ihi ya
  • N'ikpeazụ chere ihe riri m ahụ ihe dị ka ọnwa atọ gara aga ma bụrụ 100% dị mma na nofap (enweghị ihu ma ọ bụ masturbation) mana ọ bụghị nnukwu na porn (ebelata nke ukwuu, mana ọ bụghị pornfree)
  • Kekọrịtara nkọwa niile na enyi nwanyị ọhụrụ. Yabụ na m nọ na 'mfe' mode rewiring n'otu oge dị ka rebooting.
  • PIED belatara nke ukwuu (dochiri ya na nchekasị arụmọrụ) ihe dị ka ụbọchị 45 n'ime
  • Enwere ike mezue PIV ụbọchị 82 n'ime
  • Ihe karịrị ụbọchị 90 na-enweghị orgasm nke m, agaghị m agbawa - yabụ na ọ dịghị mkpa maka ụmụ nwoke niile.

tl;dr PMO riri ahụ nke na-enwebeghị ike imezu PIV nwere ike ime mgbe ụbọchị 82 gasịrị NOFAP. Reboot bụ n'ezie ezughi oke mana ọ na-aga n'ihu nke ukwuu yana uru àjà ndị a chụrụ

Jikọ - Ngosipụta ụbọchị 82 - enwere ọkụ na njedebe nke ọwara ahụ!

by enwetheranon1


 

Melite - Mgbe ihe fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ ọnwa anọ, amalitere m ịdị adị

Ememe ncheta ọnwa anọ m nofap bụ ụbọchị ole na ole gara aga. Ọ bụ kpọmkwem otu ọnwa ka m zutere enyi m nwanyị ugbu a, onye bụ ahịhịa na-agbaji kamel azụ m n'ikpeazụ mebie usoro PMO. Ọ dị ụtọ nke ukwuu na nghọta na achọrọ m ka ọ dị njọ mana enweghị m ike ịrụ ọrụ na nke mbụ na ndụ m, m kwuru na achọrọ m ịdị mma, ọ bụghị naanị maka ya, kama maka onwe m. M wee gụọ, gụọ, gụọ ma kpebie ịmalite mmemme ahụ.

<--break->” src=”https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/spacer.gif” title=”<--break-->“>It has not been without its bumps. I’ve been completely free of fap — no edging, no masturbation — but not pornfree. I’ve learned that its not because I am not satisfied looking at my girl, but its because of the novelty of seeing something new.</p><p>My main symptom was terrible PIED; while I was married for over a decade (to my first girlfriend and only sexual partner ever) I can’t say I ever successfully had PIV sex. I just assumed I was ‘broken’ at sex and that the PMO cycle was not the problem.</p><p>During the divorce I saw a counselor who told me I was addicted to porn, but I was going through a LOT of things and chose to ignore it, thinking whats the problem with PMO when you don’t have anyone. Looking back it was so stupid, but in my own defence, I was able to lose a LOT of weight and change my attitude towards women even before I quit PMO.</p><p>At around the 30 day mark of the program I told my girlfriend what I was going through. She was supportive and I stuck with ‘easy’ mode in the sense I still had sexual activity, just didn’t O, and still had PIED issues. At around the 90 day mark I for the first time in my life had PIV sex where I gave her an orgasm, and a few days later, I actually had an O inside a woman for the first time EVER. It was such a different experience that I didn’t even know it was happening till it was done.</p><p>Suffice to say I felt pretty good (even though like any one who is having first time sex, it was sooo quick). Then I think I fell into a flatline, or something happened. For the next two weeks I couldn’t get it up at all, and I was despondent. I felt like I did in my first relationship, that I was broken. But unlike last time, I felt horrible because I wanted to be better, because I know myself and my girlfriend deserve a normal sex life.</p><p>If one thing I’ve learned as a side effect of giving up PMO is that your emotions pour out of you like no one’s business. And this weekend after some progress in the right direction a few things happened that led me down a deep, dark path of self doubt. I can say honestly I never thought about relapsing, but I could not see the light at the end of the tunnel.</p><p>I also read the forums and we all know that in addition to the success stories we have stories of struggle, and there was a post yesterday that was something like “I just want to cry”. And I’m a typical guy, was told never to cry, and then you add on PMO which masks our emotions, I never cried. But I just cried about where I am, and cried in front of my girlfriend, just because the emotions were pouring out and I wasn’t bottling it up anymore and I wasn’t resorting to fap either.</p><p>As someone who PMOed for 30+ years and didn’t cry for 30+ years I can say that both things are definitely wrong. I can only wish someone I trusted had told me this. I can’t say that crying on its own felt better, but confronting my emotions, my insecurities, my fears, with someone I trusted was a big step of the process.</p><p>So after being reassured that my girlfriend and I would work on it as a team, and us talking over some things that normal couples do (such as being more expressive during sex over what we like, etc) we tried again the next couple of days. The next day, I was able to have PIV sex and have an O (so yes, the second time in my life inside a woman). Since I was aware of the sensation I was able to actually delay the O for a few minutes, but still not enough for my GF to O. The day after, I can say that it was a normal (still brief) sexual encounter .. I brought my GF to O and then I O afterwards.</p><p>In any regular life this is not something to write home about, because the sex was just ‘normal’. But after all this time, being normal is all I want. I now have regular issues – having to time my and my GF O, different sexual libidos, etc. And I’m not completely out of the woods. I am still so insecure about this and know that doubt will come into my mind again.</p><p>But I only know one thing — PMO is no longer an option. I just can’t do it anymore. One last aside. A couple of days ago my GF and I watched the movie Thanks for Sharing. That movie is about sex addiction but there’s a LOT in common with our problems (as porn and masturbation addiction are often also problems of sex addicts). My GF told me after watching it she felt a lot more understanding of the journey I was going through. Since she was sitting next to me she also said I was sweating a lot through the movie. I believe that was because it was uncomfortably accurate. So we had some more serious and frank discussions about the addiction and the recovery process.</p><p>I told her that while I’ve been tempted to fap I didn’t do it because I didn’t want to fail you guys online, fail the fellow soldiers in the nofap war, fail her, or fail myself. I think about all of those folks I’d let down if I fap and then I don’t. I told her the truth that I’ve had much more difficulty with porn and that I want to give it up for good too. And then she asked me, very sweetly, to give that up for her too. And you know, I’m glad she asked me. Some guys might take it poorly (like the Don Jon character did in that movie) but I know she did it because she loves me and now every time I’m tempted to click a link I don’t want to let her down.</p><p>tl;dr After four months with some severe ups and downs, many of them emotional, am able to have normal sex with all the normal issues that normal people have. The reboot isn’t complete but the journey is the ONLY option I have.</p><hr><p> </p><p><strong>UPDATE2  <a class=- can nwere ike ịlaghachi ọzọ (gbara alụkwaghịm n'ihi ụda)

Ya mere, enwere m nnukwu nsogbu na porn ná ndụ m niile. Ezigbo enyi m mere ka m mata ya na ụlọ akwụkwọ sekọndrị ma abụ m nwa geeky, nke na-echegbu onwe m ka m wee cheta itinye ọtụtụ awa na-anwa ibudata gifs na modem 1200 baud m wee zoo ya n'aka nna m. Ọ dị njọ na-akọwaghị ihe kpatara na Ọ Baghị arụ ọrụ. You ga - ewerekwa na ụmụaka gị nwere amamihe karịa gị - ọ bụrụ na ha chọrọ ime ihe ị na - akwadoghị, ha ga - eme ya).

Mmekọrịta mụ na porn buru ezigbo mmekọrịta mụ na ụmụ nwanyị nwere. Ọ metụtaghị etu m si mesoo ụmụ nwanyị, mana ọ mere otu m siri mesoo SEX. Isi okwu m masịrị inwe mmekọahụ na-enweghị ikpe ọ bụla na-achọ karịa nrịgo na ala nke ezigbo mmekọahụ.

Ya mere, ebe m na-enweghị obi abụọ banyere inwe 'mmekọahụ' tupu mụ alụọ di, m na-echeta otú o si jọgburu onwe ya na otú m si laghachi na porn ozugbo. Enweghị m mmekọahụ n'abalị agbamakwụkwọ, ma ruo afọ iri na anọ, m ga-atụ ụjọ na m ga-enwe mmekọahụ kwa izu na nwunye m (nke bụbu nwunye), na-eme ngọpụ iji zere ya, wee chọọ ịga n'ọnụ ụlọ nke ọzọ ma chọta ụfọdụ porn ka jaak gaa.

Ọ bụ ezie na nke a abụghị naanị nsogbu dị na mmekọrịta m, na ịlele ọ bụ nnukwu akụkụ ya - ikekwe 90%. Ma ọbụnadị enweghị mmekọahụ, ọ bụ enweghị mmekọrịta chiri anya. Ma n'oge ahụ o juru m anya mgbe nwunye m (ugbu a) rịọrọ maka ịgba alụkwaghịm, ugbu a, m ga-eche ihe kpatara ọkụ mmụọ ji chere ogologo oge ahụ, gịnị kpatara m ji kwere ya?

Ya mere, n'oge usoro ịgba alụkwaghịm ahụrụ m onye ndụmọdụ alụmdi na nwunye bụ onye nyochachara nke ọma nsogbu m na porn. Mana m ka leghaara ya anya, ọkachasị ebe m lụrụ nwanyị ọhụrụ na nke mbụ ya na afọ iri abụọ, na porn bụ ihe dị mma nke m mara na ndụ m niile.

Mgbe ahụ, ezutere m nwa agbọghọ zuru oke, anyị wee nwee mmekọahụ. Ma ọ bụ ya mere na-akụda mmụọ. Ọ gara nke ọma ọzọ. Ma n'oge a, Agaghị m eche naanị 'nke ahụ bụ ụzọ ọ dị'. Achọrọ m ịchọpụta ihe bụ ihe ọjọọ, n'ihi na echere m na nwunye m bụbu na 'inwe mmekọahụ adịghị mkpa ma ọ bụrụ na ị nwere ịhụnanya' ma ọ bụ ụdị aghụghọ dị otú ahụ. Amatala m ugbu a na ndụ mmekọahụ na-enye obi ụtọ na afọ ojuju bụ ihe achọrọ maka mmekọrịta dị ogologo oge.

Nke ahụ bụ mgbe m batara na nofap na pornfree forums na-agụ ụfọdụ akụkọ banyere ndị dị ka m. Ma ọ bụrụla ogologo ụzọ na nlọghachi dị n'etiti, mana m na-anwa ịhapụ porn na fap ihe fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ otu afọ. Nwanyị nwanyị a dị ugbu a maara banyere nsogbu m ma na-akwado.

Ebe ọ bụ na m na-anwa ịhapụ abụọ ahụ, enweela m mmekọahụ ka mma (ezughị okè n'ụzọ ọ bụla) ma nwee ike iso ya nwee mmekọahụ (ọ dịghị mgbe m mere nwunye m mbụ). Ma ogologo na mkpụmkpụ ya bụ na m na-eme ọzọ, na oge a, ndụ nwoke na nwanyị na-enwe mmekọahụ na-enweghị porn na fap dịka akụkụ nke atụmatụ ahụ.

Mmekọrịta mbụ nke ihe fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ afọ iri abụọ gbanwere site n'ime n'ihi ị insideụ ọgwụ ọjọọ PMO wee duga ịgba alụkwaghịm. Enwere m ike igbanwe ya ma wulite mmekọrịta ọhụrụ (** Ejiri m **) mgbe m nyesịrị PMO.

Ya mere maka ndị na-eche na ị nọ n'ọnọdụ dị ala, ọtụtụ n'ime anyị anọwo ebe ahụ. Ị nwere ike gbanwee ya, n'agbanyeghị ebe ị nọ.