(by Linda Hatch PhD) Yawancin cutar AIDS, a kusa da 30 shekaru da suka wuce. Dokta Patrick Carnes, mahaifiyar mahaifiyar jarabar jima'i, za ta yi magana da mazaunin gay. An gayyatar da shi ta hanyar dan jarida mai kula da jima'i na Afirka wanda ya ji cewa al'ummar da ke da ladabi suna bukatar su ji saƙon sa. A wannan lokaci Dr. Carnes yana dauke da shi a cikin ɗaya daga cikin alamomi guda uku don haka idan an kai shi farmaki ba zai yiwu a san ko wane limo yake ba.
Abin ba'a da hargitsi ya fara da wuri kuma bai tsaya ba. Carnes 'yar Dr. Stefanie Carnes, yanzu shugaban Cibiyar Nazarin Harkokin Ciniki da Jaraba ta Duniya, ya tuna cewa lokacin da ta kasance matashi mahaifinsa ya sami barazanar mutuwa.
Har ma wasu a cikin al'ummar AA sun yi fushi lokacin da Dokta Carnes ya fara shirye-shiryen dawo da shirin 12 don yin jima'i. Don haka menene ra'ayin da ya kawo wannan tashin hankali? A cikin littafin 1983 daga cikin Shadows, [1] Carnes ya bayyana jaraba da jima'i a matsayin "dangantaka ta jiki tare da yanayin canza yanayin yanayi." Shekaru ashirin daga baya a gaban Shadow [2] ya ce:
"A yau mun fahimci cewa jaraba shine rashin lafiya - cuta mai tsanani. Bugu da ƙari, matsaloli irin su miyagun ƙwayoyi, abinci, caca da jaraba da jima'i suna da alaƙa da kuma dogara ga irin matakai na jiki. Mafi mahimmanci, mun san cewa mutane na iya samun taimako kuma cewa akwai kyakkyawar ganewa. Jarabar jima'i shine jaraba na karshe da za a fahimta. "
Yaya aka yi jaraba da jima'i ƙarƙashin motar...
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