Kamfanin gyaran maza AX kwanan nan an gudanar da wani bincike don fallasa halayen maza da mata na Gen Z a Amurka da Ingila kuma sakamakon ya haifar da kyakkyawan haɗin gwiwa da amincewa da haɗin gwiwa tare da jerin abubuwan Netflix "Sex Education. "
Binciken - wanda aka yi wa lakabi da Rikicin Amincewar AX - ya bayyana cewa tsara da aka haifa a 1995 zuwa 2012 (bayar ko karba), an yi fama da mummunan rashin mojo idan ya zo ga jima'i da dangantaka. A zahiri, ya bayyana cewa kashi 47 cikin ɗari na samari a Amurka da kashi 49 a Burtaniya sun ƙi yin tambayar wani game da kwanan wata saboda ba su ji daɗin isa su harbe harbin na su ba. Yawancin mutanen Gen Z suma sunyi imanin cewa basu yin jima'i kamar na ƙarni na baya (wanda ba zai yuwu ba, idan ka tambayi millenni).
Gabaɗaya, binciken ya gano cewa mutane suna jin ba su da damar samun albarkatun da suka dace don nemo amsoshi game da soyayya, soyayya da jima'i. Ya zama cewa girma a cikin duniya tare da mutum-mutumi mai ƙarfin Google a yatsanku ba zai dace da samun duk tambayoyinku game da motsin rai da haɗin ɗan adam ba. Ba za a iya cewa mun yi mamaki a can ba.
Binciken AXE ya kuma gano cewa kashi 42 na samarin Amurka da kashi 44 na samarin Burtaniya da ke da shekaru 14-24 sun ce sun fi jin daɗin tattaunawa da murƙushe su a shafukan sada zumunta maimakon fuskantar ido da ido. Tabbas, yana iya zama mafi sauƙi don zamewa cikin DMs na wani, amma kusan rabin waɗanda suka amsa daga ƙarshe sun yarda cewa Intanit yana haifar da matsin lamba da yawa don “aikata” idan ya zo ga jima’i da saduwa. A kafofin watsa labarun, zaku iya ƙirƙirar fasalin kanku wanda yake da kyau kuma da alama ba shi da aibi, amma a cikin dogon lokaci, zai yi wuya ku rayu har zuwa wannan mutumin a rayuwa ta ainihi.
Da yake magana game da “yin” a Intanet, maza 1 cikin 3 da aka bincika sun ce sun koma kallon batsa don shawara game da jima’i. Wannan na iya zama wuri na musamman mai lahani don bincika amsoshi game da gamsuwa da jima'i na zahiri, kuma yana iya sauƙaƙe ƙarfin zuciya da na rai a cikin ɗakin kwana.
"Ya kamata samari su fahimci cewa batsa da suke gani a yanar gizo, tare da tsarin da ya dace a shafukan sada zumunta, ba gaskiya ba ne," in ji Dokta Jessie Cheung, masanin fata da kuma masaniyar lafiyar jima'i. “Ba ku kadai ba - kowa yana fama da wata damuwa ta yin jima'i. Wataƙila za ku buƙaci yaye kanku daga buƙatar kallon batsa don kaiwa ga inzali, amma yayin da kuke atisaye, za ku sami ƙarin ƙarfin gwiwa. ”
Cheung ya kuma yi gargadin cewa yawan nuna batsa zai iya bata kwakwalwa ga sha’awar jima’i, wanda hakan ka iya haifar da larurar mawuyacin hali ko ma “rashin isasshen jima’i” - kauce wa haduwar IRL don neman saki ta hanyar batsa maimakon.
"Yanayin jima'i na ainihi bazai kasance 'cikakke ba,' amma aƙalla abin gaskiya ne kuma za a iya samu, kuma ya kamata [ku] kasance masu taka rawa," in ji ta. "Sanya wayoyin, ku kasance a ciki kuma ku more jima'i a cikin duniyar gaske!"
Duk waɗannan ramuwar cutarwa na neman amsoshi a duk wuraren da ba daidai ba shine ainihin dalilin da yasa AX ya haɗu da "Ilimin Jima'i" don ƙirƙirar Ultimate Modern Dating Guide. Arfafawa daga littafin kirkirarren littafin nan mai suna “Kawo Maza,” manufar littafin wasan kwaikwayo na yau da kullun shine samar da tattaunawa ta buɗe, gaskiya da yawanci mai ban dariya game da waɗannan batutuwa marasa kyau na jima'i da ma'amala, da kuma sauke wasu amintattun ilimi akan wannan samari masu tasowa kamar yadda suka zo. na shekaru a cikin yau mai ban mamaki, yanayin yanayi mai haɗi.
Maimakon Jean Millburn ya rubuta shi, mahaifiyar mai ilimin jima'i da Gillian Anderson ta buga a kan "Ilimin Jima'i," wannan sabon jagorar zai kasance cike da labaran rayuwa na gaske daga samari na zahiri. Za ki iya duba babi na 1 na Ultimate Guide na Zamani a cikin labarin AXE na Instagram ya ba da haske don ganin wasu lokutan haɗuwa da haɗuwa, da kuma shawara mai zuwa da Jima'i Ed's Otis Millburn (wanda Asa Butterfield ya buga) ke bayarwa a cikin yunƙurin “rashin damuwa mara daɗi.”
Littafin wasan kwaikwayo na AX x "Ilimin Jima'i" zai rayu gabaɗaya Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat da AXE.com tare da sabbin surori da aka saki a duk shekara.
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