Na fahimci yayin da na waiwaya baya ga wannan tafiyar ta shekaru 2 da mahimmancin ganin wasu rahotanni kuma na san zai iya samun nasara…. Shekaruna 29, marasa aure kuma masu gwagwarmaya don neman aiki… Kuma dukkansu suna faruwa, mataki mataki lokaci.
Na sha samun kwararan matakai masu wahala wadanda zasu je ko'ina daga kwanaki 30-60, amma kwanan nan… da kyau babu yanayin wahala ha! Na yi yaƙi da kowane sake dawowa ɗaya bayan ɗaya, koya daga kowane. Na zauna na yi tunanin abin da nake so in zama sannan na ɗauki matakai kowace rana don cimma hakan.
-Rashin maniyyi kamar yana da wani abu gare shi… Shin zaku tashi, a'a. Amma gaskiya makamashi na ainihi ne kuma waɗancan suna iya hango shi a kusa da kai.
-Na kasance tare da mata (bayan an dakatar da shekaru 4 +) tsawon watanni 6 da suka gabata… kuma eh yana jin daɗi. Na tuna wani lokaci mai tsawo da na kasance cikin tsananin damuwa da saduwa da ita a zahiri nace fuck it, I just wank to batsa… Da kyau, mata tabbas sunfi jin daɗi. Da gaske.
- Mata ma mutane ne kawai… wannan wani abu ne da na fahimta da NoFap, mata mutane ne. Mun ji sau da yawa amma duk da haka da gaske bamu san yadda rashin mutuntaka suke zama a bayan wannan allo ba. Mai da hankali a kanta da kuma wacce ita ce… kowannensu yana da labari kuma haɗuwa da dukkan ra'ayoyin ra'ayoyi na rayuwa yana da daɗin gaske.
-Na rike rayuwa tare da ƙarfin hali da kariya. Ban ƙara ɓoye ba ko kuma ta koka. Wannan ya kasance mai wuyar ganewa ni ne dalilin damuwar, don haka dakatar da gunaguni da kuma yin hakan kawai.
-Wannan wani bangare ne na kokarin da ya fi girma! Yayinda yake yanke wannan dabi'ar ta wasu da yawa sun bayyana… wasannin bidiyo, jinkirtawa da kuma mummunan tunani don ambata wasu kaɗan. Kawai rashin shafar kanku ba zai kawo muku farin ciki ba. Fara fara mai da hankali kan zama mafi kyawun mutum da kake ji a cikin kanka. Wannan shine mafi girman fahimta a gareni. Akwai hanyoyi da yawa don maza su zama masu ban mamaki, ku mai da hankali kan abin da kuke ji a ciki sannan ku aikata shi! Ba kowa bane zai yarda da mafarkin ka kuma hakan yayi daidai, wannan duniyar tana da halaye daban daban kuma zaka zama ɗaya daga cikinsu!
Guys (da gals), wannan ba daidai bane yadda wahalar wannan ta kasance. Haƙiƙa daina wannan al'ada / jaraba na canza rayuwa, kuma wannan yana zuwa ne daga wanda ya daina shan giya… Na ɗan sami duhu dare da rana, amma ta wannan gwagwarmaya na fito a matsayin mutum sau da yawa fiye da yadda na taɓa iyawa yi tunanin. Don Allah, ci gaba da yaƙi. Yi imani da kanku. Wannan ba ya karewa, kawai mun fi karfin rayukanmu na baya. Da wannan karfin ne zaka zama wani abu mara imani…
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