Da farko, Ina so in gode wa duk wanda ya taimaka mini tare da tafiya zuwa kwanakin 90. Ba tare da goyon baya da ƙarfafawa daga ku mutanen wannan kwamiti ba zan taɓa buga babban 9-0. Ari ga haka, Ina so in kara jaddadawa cewa ya dauke ni tsawon shekara daya na koma baya tare da komawa zuwa wannan burin. Don haka ga wadanda daga gare ku ke fafitikar, dole ne ku rataye a ciki.
Duk lokacin da ka ga wani ya buge 30, 60, 90… kawai ka tuna cewa mai yiwuwa ya ɗauki dogon lokaci kafin a buga. Kuma, tabbas, yana da daraja a ci gaba da ƙoƙari.
Ina so in bayyana taken wannan zaren don tsabta kuma in bayyana fassarar ta Super Powers. Ee, suna wanzu. Amma suna ƙarƙashin fassarar ku game da abin da ma'anar ku da abin da kuke so daga NoFap. Confidencearin amincewa? Musclearin tsoka? Mafi kyau kallo? Samun karin 'yan mata? Mai girma. Amma wataƙila yana da wani abu mai zurfi - wani abu a cikinku, jin ƙimar kanku da ƙarfin gwiwa PMO ya shaƙushe mafi yawan rayuwarku.
Sex - Burin farko na NoFap, a wurina, shine na sami kwanciyar hankali. Oh, zai warkar da PIED kuma zai sa mata su yi sanyi? Yi rijista! Wannan ya ci gaba har tsawon watanni, a ciki da kuma daga kwararar ruwa, amma ban taɓa samun “ƙarin jima'i” ba. Ina da kusan adadin jima'i da zan yi a wannan lokacin tare da ko ba tare da NoFap ba. Yayi, komai, babu babban aiki. Sannan wani abu mai ban mamaki ya faru yayin da na buga kusan kwanaki 50-60…
Love - Bayan kyakkyawar tafiya tare da NoFap, ya zama a fili cewa ni abin da nake so a rayuwata yanzunnan ina da shekaru 32 shine soyayya. Ba jima'i ba. Ba fucking. Ba bin matan da ba daidai ba don kwanciyar hankali. Ina son soyayya Ina so in sami wani da gaske zan haɗu da shi don mu rayu tare. A kusan tsakiyar hanya ta halin da nake ciki yanzu, da zarar kwakwalwar kwakwalwar batsa ta fara dusashe, sai ya zama a fili ni ba "dan wasa bane," ba wani bane daga fim din batsa ba kuma baya bukatar jima'i na yau da kullun. A takaice, ni ba wanda batsa ta gaya mani ya kamata in zama kamar mutum ba. Ni ne, ba abin da kafofin watsa labarai ke cewa ya kamata in zama ba. Wannan babban ruhi ne da ba da iko.
Na kusanci saduwa da “macen da nake fata,” saboda duk abin da ya dace, zuwa ranar 60. Na ji ina da babbar nasara tare da NoFap, kuma na yi. Wannan yarinyar tana da ban mamaki amma hakan baiyi tasiri ba. Amma a lokacin da muke tare, na yi jinkiri, na san ta, kuma da gaske ina jin kamar na kula da ita kuma ina girmama ta a matsayin mutum kafin mu yi jima'i. Ba ni da kaina na al'ada - Ina sha'awar gano ta, ba lalata ta ba. Wannan shine karo na farko dana fara yin jima'i da wani kuma bana bukatar Viagra a karo na farko cikin shekaru (banda yan mata ina cikin dangantaka da su). Yanzu, bai yi aiki ba saboda na sanya wasu iyakoki na kaina kuma na rabu da ita, duk da cewa ina son ta sosai, lokacin da ba ta girmama ni (duk sakon game da yarinyar nan yana nan, amma ba lallai ba ne in karanta - http://bit.ly/1QgAFZD). Wannan yana da wuyar yi kuma da ba zan iya yin nesa da ita ba tare da amincewa, girmama kai, da darajar da aka samu daga NoFap ba. Yayin da na shiga taƙaitaccen lokaci amma na yi baƙin ciki a kanta, wani babban motsi ya faru…
Son kai - Bayan rabuwarta da wannan yarinyar, sai na yanke shawarar cewa lokaci ya yi da za a shiga wani mahimmin mataki na No-Fap: koya son kaina don wanene ni kuma kada in dogara ga wasu (musamman mata) don tabbatarwa da farin ciki. Tun daga wannan lokacin a farkon wannan shekarar, na kasance ina mai da hankali 100% a kaina - yin aiki da yawa, yin yoga, ƙoƙari da sababbin abubuwa kamar aji aji da sulhu, gayyatar abokai da yawa, ganin ƙarin waƙoƙin raye-raye - yin abubuwan da nake so a da NoFap ya juya kwakwalwata cikin burodi mara kyau. Na kuma yi wa kaina alƙawarin daina yin ƙawancen kan layi gaba ɗaya na aƙalla shekara guda (a wurina, saduwa ta kan layi wata ƙofa ce ta yin laushi batsa kuma ya kasance jaraba a gare ni). Tun daga wannan lokacin, matsin lamba don “samun kwanciyar hankali” ko samun budurwa ya tafi gaba ɗaya. Zan koya son kaina don wanda nake a kowane lokaci komai tsawon lokaci kuma na riga na sami kwanciyar hankali da halin da nake ciki yanzu. Shin komai daidai ne? A'a Ina da kwanaki marasa kyau ne? Tabbas - Ni mutum ne. Amma a lokacin wannan tafiyar na sami canji na asali a cikin halayena da tsarin rayuwa.
Don haka, mai ladabi, ina son dukkanku ku rataye a can ku ci gaba da wannan tafiyar. Tunani da labaran da nake raba anan ba zasu taɓa fitowa daga zuciyata ba don NoFap. Ku ma kuna iya canzawa kuma ku fara samun sabon, zurfin motsin rai da leke cikin hankali yayin da kwakwalwar ku ta warke. Amma don Allah - kuyi dogon tunani game da abin da kuke so daga NoFap kuma menene ainihin Powarfin da kuke so ku bayyana wa duniya. Juyin halitta na daga son nutsuwa zuwa son neman soyayya har zuwa yanke hukunci game da ainihin abin da nake buƙata a yanzu shine son kai shine mafi kyawun Powerarfin da zan iya nema. Gano Maɗaukakan Super naka da ba kanka waɗancan kyaututtukan. Ku cancanci shi. Duk muna yi. Ku dage, 'yan uwana.
LINK - Rahoton Rana na 90: Daga Jima'i, zuwa Kauna, zuwa Kauna
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