Hanyoyi masu tsawo tsakanin yin amfani da batsa, muhimmancin aure, da kuma jima'i a lokacin da aka fara girma (2017)

Leonhardt, Nathan D., da Brian J. Willoughby. "Hanyoyi masu tsayi tsakanin amfani da hotunan batsa, mahimmancin aure, da halatta yin jima'i yayin samartaka." Aure da Nazarin Iyali kawai-yarda (2017).

Nathan D. Leonhardt & Brian J. Willoughby

Aure da Nazarin Iyali, 14 Aug 2017

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ABDRACT

Akwai iyakacin bincike game da tasirin batsa akan tasirin dangantaka da balagagge na adult, ba tare da binciken da yayi nazari game da yadda batsa ke amfani da shi ba yana nuna cewa matasan imani game da aure. Binciken ya ƙunshi sakamakon ɓangaren na 568 masu tasowa da kuma sakamakon ƙarshen sakamakon mahalarta 142 wanda aka bi daga samfurin farko. Tattaunawa na rushewa da aka gano cewa hotunan da ake amfani da su a batsa sun kasance suna da alaka da muhimmiyar mahimmanci da aka sanya a kan yin jima'i kafin yin aure da kuma yawan halayyar jima'i. Mahimman bincike na yaudara sun nuna cewa hotunan batsa suna amfani da tsaka-tsakin ƙananan aure kuma mafi yawan halayyar jima'i. Wadannan sakamakon sun nuna cewa ana amfani da hotunan batsa ba kawai ga rubutun jima'i na jima'i ba, amma kuma yana iya rinjayar rubutun dangantaka mafi girma.

DISCUSSION

Kodayake ƙungiyoyi masu zaman kansu sun bayyana wani muhimmiyar haɗaka tsakanin batsa da amfani da dukkanin abubuwan da ke tattare da batsa, bayan sun hada da maɓallin sarrafawa, yin amfani da batsa kawai ya danganta da ka'idodi na jima'i da halayyar jima'i. Shekaru, jinsi, kabilanci, addini, da kuma iyayen iyayensu sune dukkanin iko akan yadda ake amfani da batsa tare da bambancin masu dogara.

Addini shine wani iko da ya bayyana yana da tasiri mai karfi tsakanin watsa labaru da kuma yin amfani da batutuwa. Wannan yana nuna kyakkyawar tasiri tsakanin amfani da batsa da kuma auren auren da masu tasowa na addini suka fi dacewa su guje wa batsa da kuma darajar aure.

Duk da haka, ko da ma da iko, ƙungiyoyi sun kasance a tsakanin amfani da batsa da kuma takamaiman rubutun jima'i, ciki har da rubutun jima'i game da aure ta hanyar dabaru musamman a cikin yanayin mahaifa, kamar yadda aka nuna ta wurin muhimmancin lalata ma'auni.

Wannan sabon binciken yana nuna cewa tsofaffi wadanda ke kallon hotunan batsa yawancin lokaci sukan yarda da halayen jima'i da ilimin jima'i sune mafi girman fifiko ga shiriyar aure fiye da wadanda basu kalli batsa. Saboda masu amfani da batsa suna da muhimmancin gaske game da halayyar jima'i da haɓaka, waɗannan tsammanin zasu iya haifar da tsofaffi don neman abokan auren auren da ba a taba yin aure ba, wanda zai iya sauƙaƙƙasa ƙananan matasan da suka sami damar fuskantar wasu daga cikin sakamakon da aka samu na aure

Kamar yadda bayanan giciye, mataki na farko na ƙaddamarwa ya nuna wani dangantaka mai mahimmanci tsakanin batsalolin amfani da duk masu juyayi, ko da a lokacin da ke kula da ra'ayi na lokaci 1. Duk da haka, bayan daɗa ƙarin iko zuwa ra'ayin 1 na zamani, yin amfani da batsa kawai yana da nasaba da haɓakawa a tsakanin ma'aurata na aure da kuma jima'i.

Bugu da ƙari, kamar yadda aka tsammanin saboda bincike na baya (Braithwaite et al., 2015), yin amfani da batsa ya danganta da halayyar jima'i. Wannan yana ƙara shaidar hujja game da rubutun ka'idar, yana goyon bayan ra'ayin cewa yin amfani da batsa yana da tasiri kan labarun jima'i, ba kawai wata dangantaka ba.

Saboda mafi yawan halaye masu halaye na jima'i suna da alaƙa da halayen jima'i na yau da kullun (Braithwaite et al., 2015), gami da mafi yawan adadin masu yin jima'i (Willoughby et al., 2014), yin amfani da batsa yana iya rage damar samun kyakkyawan sakamako na aure ta hanyar Tasirinta a kan halaye masu lalata na jima'i (Busby et al., 2010; Busby, Willoughby, & Carroll, 2013; Sassler et al., 2012).

Wannan batsa ta amfani da shi a wani lokaci bai kasa fahimtar canje-canje a cikin salsi na aure ba lokacin da aka yi amfani da masu amfani da rikice-rikice, amma ya yi la'akari da canji a cikin tsakiyar aure shine ƙaddara mai ban sha'awa. Wannan yana nuna cewa yayinda batsa ke amfani dashi lokacin balagagge ba zai canza ra'ayin duniya ba game da muhimmancin aure, an hade shi da haɓakar zumunta da aka ba da shi ga aikin auren aure na gaba. Hanyoyin batsa ya bayyana

suna da tasiri sosai kan ra'ayoyin samari masu tasowa game da aure dangane da wasu fannoni na rayuwa, sabanin tasirin tasirin ra'ayoyinsu game da mahimmancin cibiyoyin. Waɗanda suke amfani da batsa suna bayyana don riƙe imani cewa aure yana da mahimmanci; duk da haka, sun bayyana sun fara kallon aure kamar basuda mahimmanci a kwatanta da sauran abubuwan fifiko na rayuwa. Wannan ya tabbatar da binciken da ya gabata wanda ya ba da shawarar cewa matsakaiciyar zamantakewar aure da jin daɗin zamantakewar aure suna wakiltar gine-gine biyu daban-daban waɗanda za su iya canzawa zuwa wurare daban-daban yayin girma (Willoughby, Medaris, James, & Bartholomew, 2015).

Duk da iyakancewa, binciken ya nuna cewa ana amfani da batsa, ra'ayin auren, da halayyar jima'i da halayyar jima'i, tare da yanayin tsawon lokaci na bayanan da ke nuna cewa hotunan batsa yana da tasiri a kan tasirin aure a cikin lokaci. Wannan yana da tasiri game da masu ilimin da ke shirya masu tsufa don aure, yin la'akari da batsa na ruhaniya na iya sanar da rubutun jima'i. Ƙarin sani game da yadda batutuwa ke ba da fatawa game da aure, musamman jima'i a cikin aure, zai iya taimaka wa malamai su ba da cikakkiyar bayanai tare da bukatun tsofaffi na auren auren su, musamman ma dangantakar jima'i a cikin aure.

Yawanci, hotunan batsa yana da tasiri a kan hanyar da mutane ke tunani game da jima'i da kuma zumunta mafi yawanci, wanda zai iya ɗaukar nauyin al'adu na al'adu (Schumm, 2015). Ka'idar ka'idodin jima'i, da ka'idodin jima'i na aure sun samar da bayanan da suka dace da halayen da ake buƙata don inganta fahimtar tasirin batsa game da tasirin aure da kuma rubutun dangantaka. Wannan zai iya taimakawa wajen nazarin bincike da yanke shawara na gaba game da tsarin batsa.