COMMENTS: Nazarin tsofaffi game da maza tare da abin da ake kira 'psychogenic' matsalolin jima'i (ED, DE, rashin iyawa ta hanyar abokan tarayya na ainihi). Duk da yake bayanan sun girmi 2003, tambayoyin sun nuna haƙuri da haɓaka dangane da amfani da “erotica”:
Mahalarta da kansu sun fara tambayar ko za a iya samun wata hanyar haɗi tsakanin taba al'aura da wahalar da suke ciki. Jim mamaki ko dogaro ga taba al'aura da erotica a cikin shekaru 2 na ƙin jinin haila wanda ya fara farkon matsalarsa ya ba da gudummawa ga sanadin hakan:
J:. . . cewa tsawon shekaru biyu ina fara al'ada yayin da bana cikin alaƙar yau da kullun, umm kuma wataƙila akwai hotuna da yawa akan talabijin, don haka ba lallai bane ku sayi mujallar - ko - kawai an samu.
Ƙarin Karin bayani:
Kodayake wahayi zai iya haɓaka daga kwarewar da suke da ita, yawancin mahalarta sunyi amfani da tsinkaye na gani ko rubuce-rubuce don haɓaka tunaninsu da haɓaka. Jim, wanda 'ba shi da kyau a hangen nesa a kwakwalwa', ya yi bayani game da yadda ya inganta ta hanyar lalata a yayin shaye-shaye:
J: Ina nufin sau da yawa akwai sau lokacin da Ina jan hankalin kaina akwai wani taimako; kallon shirye-shiryen talabijin, karanta mujallu, wani abu makamancin haka.
B: Wani lokacin farin cikin kasancewa tare da wasu mutane ya isa, amma kamar yadda shekarun suka wuce kuna buƙatar littafi, ko kuna ganin fim, ko kuna da ɗayan waɗannan mujallu mara kyau, don haka ku rufe idanun ku kuna rudu game da wadannan abubuwan.
Karin bayani:
Gillan (1977) ya lura da tasiriwar motsawar sha'awa don ƙirƙirar sha'awa. Amfani da batutuwa na wannan mahalarta sun takaita ne ga taba al'aura a cikin babban. Jim yana sane da wani yanayi mai girman jiki yayin tashin al'aura kamar yadda aka kwatanta shi da jima'i da abokin aikinsa.
A yayin yin jima'i tare da abokin tarayya, Jim ya kasa cimma matakan batsa na sha'awa don isa ya haifar da inzali, yayin yin al'aura cikin yin amfani da erotica yana ƙara yawan matakan motsin ƙwayar sha'awa kuma an sami cimma burushi. Fantasy da erotica sun kara yawan batsa na jima'i kuma anyi amfani dasu kyauta yayin al'aura amma an hana amfani dashi yayin jima'i da abokin tarayya.
Takarda ya ci gaba:
Yawancin mahalarta 'ba za su iya tunanin' tsintsar ciki ba tare da yin amfani da fantasy ko erotica ba, kuma mutane da yawa sun fahimci buƙatar haɓakawa don haɓaka rudu (Slosarz, 1992) a ƙoƙarin kula da matakan tashin hankali da hana 'ɓacin hankali'. Jack ya bayyana yadda ya ƙi nuna sha'awar kansa:
J: Daga baya cikin shekaru biyar na ƙarshe, shekara goma, Ni, Ni, Zan iya matsawa don in motsa ni sosai ta kowane irin tunanin da zan kirkiro kaina.
Dangane da erotica, ruduwar Jack ta zama mai salo; labarin da ya faru da mata wanda ke da wani 'nau'in jiki' musamman nau'in ƙarfafawa. Haƙiƙar gaskiyar yanayin Jack da abokan tarayya sun sha bamban sosai, kuma sun kasa daidaita matsayinsa da aka kirkira bisa tushen kallon batsa (Slosarz, 1992); abokin tarayya na kwarai bazai zama mai ɗanɗana hankali ba.
Paul yayi kwatankwacin cigaba da rudu da ci gabansa game da bukatarsa na ci gaba mai karfi 'mai karfi' na batsa zaku iya samar da amsa iri daya.:
P: Kun gaji, yana kama da wadancan fina-finai shudi; Lallai yakamata ku kara karfi da kayan aiki koyaushe, don farantawa kanku rai.
Ta canza abin da ke cikin, tunanin Paul ya riƙe tasirin tunaninsu; duk da taba al'aura sau da yawa a rana, ya yi bayani:
P: Ba za ku iya ci gaba da yin abu ɗaya ba, kun gaji da yanayin ɗayan yanayin don haka dole ku sami (canji) - wanda koyaushe ina kyautatawa. . . Na kasance a koyaushe ina zaune a cikin ƙasar mafarki.
Daga takaitattun sassan takarda:
Wannan mahimmancin nazarin abubuwan da mahalarta suka samu yayin al'aurarsu da jima'i sun nuna kasancewar azabar rashin aiki yayin jima'i tare da abokin tarayya, da kuma amsawar jima'i yayin al'aura. Ka'idoji biyu masu alaƙa da juna sun bayyana kuma an taƙaita su sex Yayin saduwa da abokin tarayya, mahalarta marasa aiki suna mai da hankali kan ilimin da bai dace ba; tsangwama na hankali ya janye hankali daga ikon mayar da hankali kan alamun batsa. Sanarwar hankali ba ta da kyau kuma an katse maimaitawar jima'i wanda ke haifar da lalata jima'i.
Idan babu yin jima'i da aiki, waɗannan mahalarta sun zama abin dogaro ne da taba al'aura. Amsar jima'i ta zama yanayin; Ka'idar ilmantarwa ba ta sanya takamaiman yanayi ba, yana nuna yanayin samun halayen ne kawai. Wannan binciken ya ba da haske game da mita da fasaha na taba al'aura, da kuma ikon mayar da hankali kan fahimtar ayyukan da suka dace (wanda ke tallafawa ta hanyar amfani da fantasy da erotica yayin taba al'aura), kamar waɗannan dalilai na yanayin.
Wannan binciken ya ba da fifikon dacewar cikakken tambayoyi cikin manyan bangarori biyu; hali da kuma fahimta. Farkon cikakkun bayanai game da takamaiman yanayin masturbatory mita, dabara da rakiyar erotica da kwalliya sun ba da fahimtar yadda amsawar jima'i mutum ya zama sharaɗi akan kankataccen tsarin ƙarfafawa; irin wannan yanayin yana bayyana ƙara matsala yayin jima'i da abokin tarayya. An yarda cewa a matsayin wani bangare na kirkirar su, masu koyar da sana'o'i sukan tambaya ko mutum yakamata ya yi wannan binciken: wannan binciken ya nuna cewa kuma tambayar daidai yadda yanayin tsararren mahallicin mutumin ya bunkasa bayanin da ya dace.
Wannan binciken 2003 yana kan YBOP Jerin bincike sama da 40 da ke haɗu da amfani da batsa / jarabar batsa ga matsalolin jima'i da ƙananan motsa jiki ga motsawar jima'i. Bayani: The Binciken na farko na 7 a jerin sun nuna lalacewa, yayin da mahalarta suka kawar da yin amfani da batsa da kuma warkar da dysfunctions na yau da kullum.
ABDRACT
(2003) 18: 4, 447-471,
DOI: 10.1080/1468199031000099442
Matsayi na taba al'aura a cikin lalatawar ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa na ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa (MPSD) sun yi watsi da masu bincike da masu ba da horo; Wannan binciken binciken ya gano abin da ya danganta ta hanyar tambayoyin mutum guda ɗaya tare da yawan asibitin ta hanyar amfani da ka'idojin tushen ƙasa azaman hanyar ƙima da hanyoyin nazarin. Kodayake fifiko ne ga aiki jima'i da abokin tarayya an bayyana shi ta hanyar mahalarta, bayananmu suna ba da shawarar hakan taba al'aura yana haɓaka sakamakon amsawar jima'i da kasancewa cikin yanayin ɗabi'a mai hankali, kuma ana samun ƙarfafan abubuwa ta hanyar hankali wanda yake nuna halaye daban-daban yayin yin jima'i da abokin tarawa. Ana bincika ma'anar fahimtar juna da halayyar abubuwan da suka shafi amsawar jima'i, da kuma tsarin gabatarwar. An ba da shawarwari don ƙarin binciken, da kuma shawarwarin da aka ba da don fadada haɓaka da tsarin kulawa don MPSD.
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