(los ntawm Linda Hatch PhD) Nws yog qhov siab ntawm AIDS phaum mob, ib puag ncig 30 xyoo dhau los. Dr. Patrick Carnes, nrhiav pom leej txiv ntawm kev sib daj sib deev txoj kev xav, yog mus nrog cov neeg zej zog sib tham. Nws tau raug caw tuaj koom los ntawm ib tug pojniam African American sexologist uas pom tau tias cov neeg zej zog yuav tsum tau hnov nws cov lus. Nyob rau ntawm lub sijhawm no Dr. Carnes tau thauj mus rau hauv ib qho ntawm peb yam zoo ib yam li ntawd yog tias nws tabtom tawm tsam nws yuav tsis paub uas limo nws nyob hauv.
Tus neeg thuam thiab kev thab plaub pib ntxov thiab tsis nres. Carnes 'tus ntxhais Dr. Stefanie Carnes, tam sim no tus thawj tswj hwm ntawm lub koom haum International for Trauma thiab Kev Txawj Ntse, nco tau tias thaum nws yog ib tug tub hluas nws txiv tau txais kev hem thawj.
Txawm tias ib txhia hauv lub zej zog AA muaj kev npau taws thaum Dr. Carnes tau pib ib txoj haujlwm 12-kauj ruam rov qab rau kev sib daj sib deev. Yog li ntawd, lub tswv yim uas tau tawm tsam kev sib cav li cas? Nyob rau hauv nws 1983 phau ntawv tawm ntawm lub Ntxoov ntxoo, [1] Carnes txhais pw ua niam txiv yees li "ib tug pathological kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug mus ob peb vas-Process kev." Nees nkaum xyoo tom qab nyob rau hauv Txojkev tus duab ntxoov ntxoo [2] nws hais tias:
"Niaj hnub no peb to taub tias kev quav tshuaj yog ib yam kab mob - muaj kab mob loj heev. Tsis tas li, teeb meem xws li yeeb tshuaj, khoom noj khoom haus, kev twv txiaj thiab kev sib daj sib deev muaj feem xyuam nrog thiab cuam tshuam txog kev ua haujlwm zoo li lub cev. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, peb paub tias tib neeg tuaj yeem tau txais kev pab thiab qhov kev paub zoo muaj nyob. Kev tiv thaiv kev sib daj sib deev yog qhov kev tiv thaiv zaum kawg yuav tsum to taub. "
Yuav ua li cas kev sib daj sib deev tau pov tseg hauv tsheb npav...