By Mike Huynh
5,517,000,000 teev ntawm liab qab tau noj hauv 2018 ib leeg ... ntawm ib qhov chaw.
Yog tias koj tsis tau muab lub pob khoom ua ntej koj tuaj yeem yuav tsum tau tam sim no. Kev quav kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov teeb meem loj ntawm cov neeg niaj hnub nim no. Qhov phem tshaj plaws, nws tuaj yeem ua kom koj txoj kev sib raug zoo, koj txoj hauj lwm thiab kev ntxhov siab nrog koj kev coj ncaj ncees.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev, yog tias koj ntseeg tias stats. Raws li 2017 tsab ntawv ceeb toom los ntawm Huffington Post, porn chaw tau txais ntau dua kev tsheb tshaj li Netflix, Amazon thiab Twitter ua ke txhua hli. Thiab cov sij hawm peb siv saib liab qab? Pornhub Analytics pegged ntawm 5,517,000,000 teev nyob rau hauv 2018 ib leeg rau cov qhua rau lawv qhov chaw. Hauv nws txhais tes nws nce.
Xyoo tas los peb tau muaj lub sijhawm los tshawb nrhiav porn yees nrog Channel 10 tus neeg saib xyuas kev sib raug zoo, Samantha Jayne. Lub sij hawm no peb tab tom noj ntau qhov kev xav ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws (cov paib, ua rau lub cev thiab qhov yuav tshwm sim) nrog kev pab ntawm cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws Lukas Vu leej twg paub txog kev saib duab liab qab thiab kev siv internet.
"Cov tub ntxhais hluas ntawm hnub no thiab tag kis cov txiv neej yuav tsum kawm tswj lawv tus kheej tswj lawv cov porn siv tau tias virtual porn reality tiag tiag yog ceev nrooj ntau yooj yim."
Vim li cas Porn yees yog ib qhov teeb meem uas tseeb
Rau qhov feem ntau, kev tiv thuas porn tau ua qhov khoom ntawm internet thiab tsis yog qhov qub txeeg qub teg. Vu hais tias qhov teebmeem hauv online pornography yog ib qho nyuaj vim kev siv tshuab.
"Nws dawb, nws yooj yim mus siv cuag thiab yog tag nrho kev xav ntawm 'tsis muaj leej twg paub koj tab tom siv nws'," nws piav txog. Qhov nov tsis muaj kev ywj pheej thiab txoj kev ywj pheej los tshawb nrog rab nias yog qhov laj thawj yog vim li cas thiaj li muaj coob tus txiv neej tau dhau los ntawm porn rau arousal.
"Porn nyob rau hauv 1990s thiab 2000s thaum ntxov muaj ntau pragmatically nyuaj tau - koj yuav tsum tau mus rau ib lub khw muag khoom lossis yuav ib lub DVD - thiab qhov no meant tias koj yuav tsum tswj koj cov nyom rau kev sib deev tshiab."
Hnub no nws pom tseeb tias cov cuab yeej tau hloov li cas hauv lub zej zog uas siv cov ntsiab lus thiab cov duab liab qab, tab sis Vu hais tias muaj ib qho kev nyuaj siab loj dua nyob hauv lub qab ntug.
"Kuv xav tias cov tub ntxhais hluas ntawm hnub no thiab tag kis cov txiv neej yuav tau kawm txog lawv tus kheej tswj lawv cov kev siv porn siv qhov tseeb kev ua si (VR) porn yog sai sai dua nkag."
Koj Yuav Ua Li Cas Koj Thiaj Tau Txais Kev Lom Los?
Vu piav tias 'kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj' txhais tau hais tias muaj ntau yam rau pej xeem thiab ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws. "Yuav kom paub tias muaj kev tiv thaiv yuav tsum muaj kev txheeb xyuas los ntawm cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws xws li psychologist lossis psychiatrist. Nws tseem muaj teeb meem vim tias nws yog ib qho tseem cheeb tsam ntawm txoj kev tshawb fawb. "
Txawm li ntawd los, cov no yog plaub ntawm feem ntau cov cim qhia tau tias koj yuav raug qog rau cov duab liab qab:
- Koj pheej pheej ua rau koj npaj siab tswj koj cov porn siv
- Koj tsis tu ncua siv ntau porn (lossis ntau dua porn) dua li npaj
- Koj siv porn ua ib qho kev tiv thaiv tsis zoo los yog muaj teeb meem
- Koj kev siv porn yog cuam tshuam rau koj lub neej txhua hnub xws li haujlwm, kawm,
kev phooj ywg thiab kev noj qab haus huv
Yog tias koj teb tias 'tau' rau qee qhov, nws yuav tsim nyog tham nrog ib tus kws kho mob hlwb.
Vim Li Cas Thiaj Tsis Tiv Thaiv Porn?
Nws 's kom yooj yooj yim li nias' nres 'thiab xa tawm koj npo tsis yog nws? Tsis heev.
"Porn yog ib qhov ua siab phem. Nws yog ib qho stimulus uas ua rau lub cev muaj zog tshaj qhov uas tib neeg tau npaj tawm mus ua. Qhov ntau hom kev sib deev, kev sib daj sib deev thiab nws txoj kev txuas mus rau peb qhov kev txwv primitive xav tau nrhiav peb cov nqi zog thiab txhawb kev siv, "piav qhia txog Vu.
Thiab tom qab ntawd muaj kev yoojyim. Cov hnub porn no yog dawb, tsis muaj qhov kawg thiab kev xav tau, uas txhais tau tias muaj ntau lub sijhawm los ploj rov qab mus rau qub cwj pwm txawm tias thaum sim mus nres. Qhov kawg vim yog qhov porn no nyiam kom haus. Nws tso cai rau cov neeg siv lawv cov kev xav hauv kev sib deev thiab lub tswv yim ntawm qhov muab ntawd yog vim li no feem ntau zoo nkauj heev.
Dab Tsi Yog Tias Koj Tawm Tsis Tuaj?
Zoo li tej teeb meem uas tseem tsis tau kho yog nws tuaj yeem zuj zus ntxiv. Cov neeg siv porn excessively yuav tsis neglecting lawv tus kheej kev sib raug zoo raws li lawv muaj supplementing txoj kev txuas rau ib tug kev sib deev. Qhov kev tsis saib xyuas no ua rau kev sib raug zoo los yog kev sib nrauj.
Ntawm txoj hauj lwm pem hauv ntej, Vu hais tias nws tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau koj qhov kev ua haujlwm yog tias koj siv sijhawm ntau thiab ntau xuab moos nyob hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab "zoo meej" - raug rho tawm haujlwm rau kev xiam hoob pob yog hnub no tiag tiag. Lwm sab yog qhov ntau ntawm kev siv liab qab muaj qee qhov tshwj xeeb. Rau qee cov neeg, lawv nyiam kev sib deev. Nws tsis yog qhov phem tshaj plaws, tiam sis nws ua tau phem. Vu hais tias koj tuaj yeem pom koj tus kheej tab tom nrhiav tawm porn uas tsis ua raws li koj qhov tseem ceeb lossis loj tuaj, uas yog qhov tsis zoo.
Feem ntau Cov Kev Txom Nyem Hauv Kev Xiam Hlwb Porn
Ib qho ntawm kev txhawj xeeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev quav kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog kev cais rau lub ntiaj teb tiag. Cov neeg mob yuav ntsib teeb meem nrog kev xav ntawm lub hlwb thiab lub cev nrog lawv lub neej hauv kev sib deev - ib tus mob feem ntau hu ua Pornography Induced Erectile Disability.
"Qee zaum kev sib deev tsis muaj teeb meem vim yog kev ntxhov siab thiab kev puas siab puas ntsoog sib piv nrog cov porn lawv tau noj. Rau lwm tus neeg vim yog qhov mob tsis tu ncua los ntawm kev ua kom tsis muaj zog masturbation techniques - colloquially known as 'death-grip syndrome'. "
Ib qho tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog thaum muaj kev sib deev liab nce siab rau qhov sib luag ntawm kev sib deev nrog kev sib thooj. "Qee cov neeg tau qias thiab ntxhov siab ntawm lawv tus kheej tom qab lawv xav txog yam lawv tau noj."
Yuav Qhia Li Cas Rau Koj Lub Hlwb kom Tsis Tuaj Xyuas Porn
Rov qab los ntawm kev tiv thaiv kev sib tw yog ib txwm ua tau raws li Vu. "Cov qauv ntawm lub hlwb hloov tau thiab koj tuaj yeem ua txhaum hnub nyoog tsis zoo thiab ua kom tshiab thiab tsis muaj kev noj qab haus huv," nws hais.
Cov neeg txhawj xeeb txog lawv cov cwj pwm porn yuav siv cov kauj ruam no los txo kom txhob noj.
- Saib xyuas koj kev siv - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws tshaj ob peb teev thiab koj pib saib nws tom haujlwm lossis thaum lub sijhawm so
- To taub koj cov kev siv thiab cov laj thawj yog vim li cas koj tsis siv nws
- Ntsuas seb koj yog tus nqi tsim nyog / tus nqi tswj tau
- Txhob txwm siv koj cov kev siv - teem ib lub sij hawm, teeb tsa kev ruaj ntseg pawg thiab txhais seb qhov liab
chij yog - Txais thiab kawm paub txog kev tawm tsam thaum koj sim txo qis - xav txog qhov yuav tshwm sim los yog siv kev ntxhov siab xws li kev ua si los sis lwm yam kev nyiam ua rau porn hloov