Is NoFap magic?

Is nofap magic or what you do instead of fap’n that causes the magic ?

There have been times when i have been on a streak and insane attraction, picking up someone with utter ease. I used to believe on day 7 the magic happened where i was attracting people to me – i put this to the test many times.

Firstly I must say that when I first started my goal was to just keeping trying with woman until the “one” came a long. In reality it did not take me long to realise the problem had moved from porn to reality. I was still over stimulated, constantly chatting to the wrong woman. Nothing had changed. Zero ability to control my moods. I am so grateful i never crossed over any lines or caused anyone to cheat. It was like my last dance at getting numbers and the rush of the number game in public. Maybe it took me some time realise what changing actually meant.. took me some time to realise i can change.

What actually occurred though?

Well i was not wasting time fap’n, not stimulating myself like mad… if i sat alone in my room would i have more confidence or is it also the fact that i was getting other things done that makes me feel useful. The way i see it now is that its a combo, as you add new habits in you always get more confidence, what you do with that confidence is interesting though.

Lets just look at today as an example. I woke up 5am.. in the past i would most likely pmo to try get some more zzz. BUT i got up, did some chores, made my bed, replied to work emails, messages here, replied to some messages from friends and soon will move to exercising. I only need to on the road today at 7am.. the feeling of not rushing is so calming, so magical, wish everyone could feel what i feel right now – wait a sec why is this just not a normal feeling ? cos i can not tell you how often i was running late or rushing cos of pmo – ffs i was never late but i always had to react to my 2nd alarm far too often. Over a decade ago when i was hooked on cams wow far too many times i was on till the last minute i had to leave for work… last minute ffs lol.

Without all that stress i feel magical.

I feel magical that i don’t see woman as object. I feel magical that i walk away when i see something erotic in public. I feel magical when take the far lane in the pool at the gym when a woman is swimming in near lane. I feel magic power when i choose to sit no where near a woman in a short skirt. I feel insane magic if i move when i a woman in revealing clothes sits near me.

Now some things might be normal, some things might be extreme but they are not.

Now to your question again for me confidence grows massively when i try be better in life, when i am not constantly needy, when i am ok alone – this is confidence from within, a kinda magic that i know i can not use to get laid – if you do the cycle repeats ( chasing dates, chasing new, chasing highs ) .. i would rather use that energy to be calm in work, approach my chores with love and try be healthy.

I could go on about how acting today how future you wants to be gives you loads of confidence.

Confidence is something you need to accept and you tell i draw confidence from what i CHOOSE and not what i do like a robot. There is no confidence in approaching a half naked woman at a club – real confidence is knowing you don’t want to be in a club. Then again you see these were all addictions i had, and have beat, so maybe my confidence comes from that.

Any ways time to exercise before i hit the road for the day.

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