Age 23 – I have drive in life; I want to socialise

YBOP

I have a message for you guys. This is coming from a 23 years old guy who practiced nofap for years and finally succeeded in stopping pornography usage & masturbation. I haven’t ejaculated for more than 150 days. I am confident enough to say that I’m now free from this harmful habit.

My advice to you guys in order to succeed in nofap is to first of all forgive yourself and the people who wronged you in the past.
When you forgive you break away from the pain and the resentment. When you hate yourself and when hate others you will feel like it’s okay to engage in harmful habits such as excessive masturbation and excessive porn use.
If you are lonely & you never had a girlfriend, please do not become an incel. You want to be remembered … as a fine man instead.
If you are looking to improve your life, you can do a million different things to improve your life : you could join the gym, join the martial arts class, learn new skills, boot up the video game console in order to de-stress etc. (You can also get your dopamine from these)

YOU GUYS MUST break away from the shackles of pornography.

I believe that pornography is a weapon that was invented to weaken men.
I don’t know who created it, but i do know that these people have nefarious intention against men.
Every time i watch porn and masturbate i feel drained like a zombie. No motivation for ANYTHING. I feel shy, insecure etc.
When i quit porn and masturbation : i feel like a million buck —> i want to achieve things, i have drive in life, I want to socialise etc.

You guys MUST get revenge against these EVIL and SICK people by achieving success in your life. The porn industry is also involved in other shady business such as HUMAN trafficking.

DO NOT GIVE UP. ALL progress no matter how little is still good enough.

I wish you guys good luck and I’m sending you some bromance love,

(sorry for my poor English)

 

Source: To My International Friends & To Everyone Looking To Get Some Courage

By: 27_CHRIS_REDFIELD_27