Makon da ya gabata a ranar Jumma'a, godiya ga HabitRPG.com, mutane masu ban mamaki game da r / NoFap, da kuma ƙarfafa kyakkyawar abokina, Na buga miji ranar 90.
Ni 30 ina tsammanin sakewa na kawai ya ɗauki kwanaki 60, amma kwanakin 90 har yanzu babban ci gaba ne akan hanyar zuwa rashin iyaka.
Wannan gagarumar nasarar ta haifar da tattaunawa ta gaskiya tsakanina da ƙaunatacciyar matata ta shekaru 7. Ta san cewa ina amfani da batsa lokaci-lokaci. Na gaya mata game da shi ~ shekaru 3 da aure. Ba ta da wata babbar matsala game da ita kuma tana tunanin bai shafe ni da yawa ba (wataƙila saboda ba ta da matsala iri ɗaya).
Ban taba gaya mata irin nauyin tsananin amfani da batsa ba. Ban fada mata ba game da kokarin da nake yi na shawo kan jarabar, kuma tana matukar taimaka min. Makon da ya gabata, lokacin da na fara miƙa murnar cika kwana 90, mun ƙara magana game da shi sosai. Ita ce ta fara nuna tsalle a cikin libido. Ta ce ta fi farin ciki kuma ba ta taɓa sanin yadda hakan yake shafarmu ba.
Koyaya, ta ɗan yi takaici b / c yanzu libido ɗina ya fi nata girma sosai. Ta ce da ni, “Ina ma dai ya kasance gyara ne a gare ni kamar yadda ya kasance a gare ku. (Ba wai abin da kuka yi ya kasance mai sauƙi ba. Ya kasance kai tsaye.) ”Abin mamaki, mamaki. Mata sun fi rikitarwa sai maza. (Wannan magana ce gabaɗaya. Don Allah kar a gicciye ni tare da masu ƙididdigar lissafi.)
Don haka maza, na fara wannan tafiya don inganta alaƙa da matata. Ya yi aiki mafi kyau fiye da yadda nake tsammani. Matsayin sadarwa da gaskiya tsakaninmu ya fi yadda muke. Babu ji kamar shi. Amma har yanzu da sauran jan aiki.
Duk wani wanda ya sadu da dissimilar libidos tare da SO bayan bugun batsa / fap?
LINK - Kwanakin 90 da tattaunawa tare da matata game da libido.
by bulonball_60 94 days
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