Ke hele a puni nei ʻo Porn i ke kaulana - akā ʻike maoli mākou i nā hopena e hiki ke loaʻa i kā mākou mau pilina? ʻO nā kāne hoihoi e nānā nei i nā wikiō moemoeā moekolohe ma ka pūnaewele ke kumu o ka nui o ka hemo a me ka wāwahi.
Akā ua loaʻa pū kekahi noiʻi e pili ana i ka ponokala i ka ʻike kūlohelohe a hoʻolilo i ka poʻe i ka maka i ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā mea like ʻole i ka lumi moe.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Sam Carr, mea haʻi ʻōlelo i ka naʻauao mai ke Kulanui o Bateseba, he kuanaʻike wale nō ia.
He honua ākea ka honua o nā pūnaewele kiʻi pūnaewele, e ulu ana i kahi manawa hoʻonā. He $ 13 biliona-makahiki ka makahiki ma ka US.
ʻEiwa ʻewalu o nā keikikāne 10 i ʻAmelika ua hōʻike ʻia i mua o ka makahiki o 18, a ʻo nā kāne he 543 pākēneka i ʻoi aku he mea hoʻohana ma mua o ka wahine.
Ma 2017, ma luna o kahi hapaha o ka miliona miliona e hoʻohana i nā pūnaewele wikiō paʻa honua.
Me nā mea kūkala koʻikoʻi nui, ʻaʻole hiki ke hiki ke hoʻolilo i nā ʻōliakū pili e pili ana i ka maikaʻi a ʻike ʻole paha nā kiʻi o ka pūnaewele.
ʻIke loa, he mea o ka kuanaʻike. Ua hoʻopili nā loiloi i ka ʻai ʻana o nā ponokala kiʻi me nā hopena maikaʻi e like me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka ʻike moekolohe a me nā ʻano moekolohe ʻē aʻe.
Akā pehea pehea ia mea e pili ai i kā mākou pilina pili?
Ua haʻi ke kuhina nui ʻo Pelekane ʻo David Cameron i ka hopohopo e hiki ai ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi o ka pūnaewele i ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka pilina, a ʻo nā hōʻike ʻepekema ma kēia wahi i hāpai ʻia ai kāna manaʻo.
Ua hoʻokū paʻa nā pilina ma waena o ka hoʻopau ʻia o nā kiʻi kikowaena a me nā pilikia pili pili ʻana (ʻoiai ke ʻike pinepine nei nā data i ka heterosexual, monogamous relationship).
Ua pili ka make ʻana o nā kiʻi me ka hoʻomanawanui nui o ka mare ʻana, ka hoʻokaʻawale o ka hoʻokaʻawale, hoʻemi i ka manaʻo aloha a me ka makemake o ka moekolohe, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ka moe kolohe, a me ka moekolohe a hoʻomalu paha.
Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokaʻawale i ke ʻano ʻo ka pūnaewele kiʻi pūnaewele i ka pilikia paʻakikī.
Hiki ke kumu i ka hoʻopau ʻia ʻana o nā kiʻi kikowaena.
Akā inā inu ka pau ʻana i ka launa aloha a laila he mea nui ia e ʻike pehea.
Ua manaʻo ʻo Harvard Psychology Professor Deirdre Barrett i ka punaewele ponokala kiʻi kahi ʻano o ka mea i kapa ʻia e ka ʻepekema he 'stimern supernormal stimulus'.
ʻO ia, kahi mea hoʻonui maoli i nā ʻano o nā wahi kūlohelohe a mākou i ulu maoli ai i ulu ai i ke ʻano.
Hiki ke hū ʻia nā ʻano hana ʻano like ʻole o nā ʻano holoʻokoʻa i ka wā e hana ai nā mea noiʻi i nā loli heʻano maʻamau o nā ʻano hoʻonaninani maʻamau.
ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻoiai he ʻano kūlohelohe ka manu wahine e hānai i kāna mau hua liʻiliʻi, kikoʻī, e haʻalele ʻo ia iā lākou ke hāʻawi ʻia me ke koho o nā mea nui, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia o kāna mau hua.
ʻO ka lōʻihi o ka manawa, e nalowale ʻo ia i ka makemake i loko o nā hua maʻamau, ʻoiai ʻo ka mea i uhi ʻia ʻo ia e nā mea super.
Ma kahi like like (akā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī), hāʻawi aku ke kiʻina i ka pūnaewele i nā mea hoʻohana i kahi ʻike pilikino.
Ma kahi pae hoʻokahi, lilo lākou i ala nui e ka nānā ʻana i nā kino supernormal e loaʻa ana i ka sex supernormal.
Ma kahi pae ʻē aʻe, hoʻomaʻamaʻa lākou i ke koho ʻana i kēia mau ʻike, ʻike leʻaleʻa mai nā koho kūlike ʻole a hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa, hoʻoulu hou, ʻoki wale, a hoʻihoʻi hou i kēia mau moekolohe pili wahine ma ka makemake.
ʻO kahi hopohopo nui no ka moekolohe a me nā therapist pili a me nā mea noiʻi ʻo ia ka pane o ka poʻe maoli i ka moekolohe maoli hiki ke hoʻoliʻiliʻi e ka hōʻike nui ʻana i ka moekolohe.
Ma kāna TED Talk, The Great Porn Experiment, kūkā ʻo Gary Wilson i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa a me nā hōʻike e kākoʻo ana i ke kiʻi porn porn inducedile erfile.
Hoʻolālā ʻo ia i nā pilikia e like me ka pane leʻaleʻa numbed a me ka ʻiʻini nui no nā 'hit' o nā mea ponokala kiʻi i nā mea hoʻohana kaumaha.
ʻO ke ala e hiki ai i ke ola ʻohana ke loaʻa i kēia mau pilikia, hiki ke ikaika loa. ʻO ka pepa e kahi mea lapaʻau kiʻi, ʻo Paula Hall, e hōʻike ana i kēia hihia maʻamau.
He kāne ʻo 36 makahiki piha, male lāua i ʻelua mau keiki a he ʻekolu a ʻekolu.
Ua hōʻike mua ʻia ʻo ia me ka erectile disfunction akā ua hōʻike ʻia ka kikoʻī hōʻaʻau ʻaʻole ia e pilikia i ke kolo ʻana i nā kiʻi i nā kiʻi e pili ana i ke ʻano he nui a ʻekolu paha mau hola i kēlā manawa.
Uaʻike nuiʻo ia i kāna hana ponokala kiʻi e hele nei i ke ala o ka moekolohe ʻana me kāna wahine a ʻike ʻo ia ua lilo ʻo ia iā ia iho i kahi Catch 22.
Ke nānā nei ʻo ia i ka porn me ka paʻakikī o ke kiʻi ʻana iā ia me kāna wahine ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia iā ia me kāna wahine, akā no ka mea, ʻoi loa ka paʻakikī me kāna wahine ʻoiai ua nui loa ia.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia wale nō ka manawa i hiki ai iā ia ke kiʻi i kāna wahine a inā paha ua manaʻo ia e pili ana i nā kiʻi porn i haʻalele iā ia ke manaʻo hewa a mamao loa iā ia.
ʻO nā pane i hōʻemi ʻia i ka moekolohe maʻamau hiki ke hopena i nā manaʻo nui o ka hewa no nā mea hoʻohana ke pili ʻole ka moekolohe me kā lākou hoa e like me ka wahine supernormal.
Hiki i nā hoʻokolohua hoʻi i hoʻohana ʻia e nā mea hoʻohana e hana i ka supernormal o ka moekolohe, ma o ka ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole ka hoʻowalewale ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ua kākau ʻia nā noiʻi i kahi pohō hohonu hohonu i ka hilinaʻi a i hoʻopili ʻia, i pili i ka ʻoi ʻana o nā hoapili e ʻike pinepine i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi kolohe e like me ke ʻano he hoʻopunipuni a me ka hoʻokamani.
I ke aʻo ma luna aʻe nei, ua wehewehe kekahi wahine i ka hoʻohana ʻana o kāna kāne i nā ponokala kiʻi me he mea lā, he philandering virtual a ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua like ia me "miliona ona mau hihia".
ʻO ka mea hope loa, e like me ka anthropologist moʻomeheu, ʻo Mizuko Ito, i ʻōlelo ai: 'Ua hana mākou i kēia mau ʻenehana akā ʻaʻole maopopo leʻa pehea e ulu ai a hoʻohālikelike i kā mākou moʻomeheu.'
ʻO ka ʻano hoʻohālike e like me ka ʻike ʻana e like me ka ʻenehana, he mea nui e maopopo iā mākou a hoʻopaʻapaʻa i kona kuleana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana a me ka hoʻōho.
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