Nā Manaʻo: Hoʻomaopopo mua ʻaʻole ka kāne e nīnau nei i ka nīnau, ʻaʻole hoʻi ka loea e pane ana iā ia e haʻi i ka porn pūnaewele. ʻO ka lua, e hoʻomaopopo he nui nā manaʻo (pili pū ʻia ma lalo) e manaʻoʻiʻo nei ʻo ka porn ka kumu. Ua hoʻokomo ʻia e kahi ipo kāne a hoʻokahi wahine ʻo ED a ua hoʻomau i ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻana i ka hana.
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokalakupua i ka wā o ka moekolohe, ʻo ka masturbation wale nō
He kanaka olakino wau akāʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻolimalima ma hope o nā minuke 20 o ka moe male, no laila e haʻalele wau. Ke make nei au?
- ʻO Pamela Stephenson Connolly
- ke Kahu, Rāpana 2 Fepuari 2014
- E lele i nā pane (137)
PĀHAI:
He kāne maikaʻi wau 32 makahiki, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokalakupua ma o ka moekolohe wahine. Hiki paha iaʻu ke hele ma laila ma hope, akā hāʻawi mau ma hope o 15-20 mau minuke, ʻoiai hiki iaʻu ke kiʻi i ka orgasm i ka wā e masturbating. ʻIke wau ʻaʻole pono ka moe kolohe i ka moekolohe, akā manaʻo wau ua nele wau.
ANA:
ʻO ka leʻaleʻa ponoʻī i kou wā ʻōpio he hana nui i ka moekolohe; kahi ala e aʻo ai pehea e hana ai kou kino. Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi manawa ʻo ke kaila masturbating o ke kanaka kahi mea maʻalahi ʻole e alahaka i ka moekolohe hoa. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā maʻa ke kāne i kahi kaila maʻamau o ka masturbation, ʻaʻohe pūpekele e hāʻawi i ka pae kūpono o ka hakakā. E noʻonoʻo i kāu kaila leʻaleʻa ponoʻī - pono paha ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kahi ʻano hahau ʻē aʻe a i ʻole kaomi e hiki ai ke hōʻoluʻolu i ka piko o ka wahine?
ʻO kekahi kumu e hoʻoneʻe ai i ka wā e pili ai i ka piliʻana paha, hikiʻole ke nānā aku. Ua maʻalahi kekahi poʻe, a ua pilikia kēia mau mea me ka paneʻana i ka wahine. E noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻomakaʻana o nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo a mau manaʻo paha, a inā pēlā, e ho'āʻo i ka hilinaʻi wale i kaʻike a me ka hāʻawi a me ka loaʻa o ka leʻaleʻa.
ʻO ka makaʻu i ka hapai, ka maʻi a i ʻole ka nalowale o ke kaohi ke lilo i mea hōʻino i ka moekolohe ʻana. Akā ʻoiai ʻoe e leʻaleʻa i kou ola moekolohe, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu he "nalo ʻana" ʻoe. ʻO ka nui o kou hopohopo e pili ana i ia, ʻo ka liʻiliʻi paha ʻoe e hoʻopau i ke ala āu e makemake ai.
ʻO Pamela Stephenson Connolly kahi psychotherapist i loea i ka mālama ʻana i nā maʻi moekolohe. Inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai Pamela Stephenson Connolly e pili ana i ka moekolohe, e hoʻouna iā mākou i kahi wehewehe pōkole o kāu mau hopohopo[pale ʻia ka leka uila]”>[pale ʻia ka leka uila] (ʻoluʻolu, mai hoʻouna i nā mea hoʻopili).
KANAWAI KOMO KEKAHI:
ʻO nā mea kūpono ʻole ke hele nui nei ʻoe i ka porn. Inā ʻoe e Google "kou lolo ma ka porn" ʻike ʻoe i ka nui o nā kāne e hoʻohana nei i ka porn ʻoi loa ka pilikia i ka wahine maoli. E hoʻomaopopo, ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo i ka hoʻokolokolo ma ka pono o ka porn a wanking paha, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia pūnaewele. Nui a hewahewa ka ʻike ma laila e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻihoʻi i kāu mojo.
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa.
ʻO BlughGrant i ka māhele
Uaʻike wau i ka mea āu i manaʻo ai, aʻo ka hopena, uaʻikeʻia a hiki ke hoʻohana pono. Aloha nui!
cbr600 i nā māhele
He kūkā maikaʻi loa.
ʻO Dunnyboy i ka māhele
ʻO ka nui o nā poʻe (e nānā paha he mau kānaka), ua'ōlelo akuʻoe i kāu mea e hele nei e hōʻike i nā kāne he nui i hele mua i laila a lawe i ka'ōlelo aʻo ma luna o ka moku.
petgaijin i ka māhele
E kala mai iaʻu, ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa akā e holo pū kekahi ʻo 'Porn on the Brain' googling. ʻO ia ke poʻo inoa o kēlā Channel 4 documentary mai ka makahiki i hala.
bobbymac1956 i ka māhele
Inā nui ʻo ia e wanking ana a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e googling porn.
ʻO Dunnyboy i ka māhele
He hoihoi loa ia. Hāʻalo nā kāne i nā loulou i kēia ʻano pūnaewele i IMs a me nā leka uila, a loaʻa i nā manawa maʻamau nā "mahalo, ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa loa" mai kā lākou mau hoaaloha he mau pule ma hope mai, akā kūlohelohe ʻaʻole lākou i kau ma kā lākou ʻike Facebook. Aia kahi ʻatikala CiF ma luna.
petgaijin ia bobbymac1956
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole! Nui nā hōʻike i kēia manawa e hiki i ka pīpī ʻana i ka porn ke lilo i mea hōʻālike e like me heroin, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe a ʻo kekahi o nā huaʻōlelo e ʻimi nei no kēia manawa, 'kou lolo ma ka porn' ... maliʻa paha e kuhikuhi ana i 'kou lolo i nā lāʻau. 'a' porn ma ka lolo 'paha ma hope o kēlā palapala.
ʻO kēlā'ōlelo, he mau hōʻailona hōʻailona-hōʻoia a me nā mea he nui loa o nā hōʻike pilikino eʻae like loa meʻoe.
raerae25 i ka māhele
Ua haohao au i kēia.
ʻO kaʻu keikikāne iʻoi aʻe iʻelua makahiki, uaʻanoʻeleʻeleʻo ia i koʻu hālāwaiʻana me ia. Uaʻike wau ma kāna zenith e hoʻokuʻuʻo ia i ka'ilikala e pili ana i nā manawa 9 i kēlā lā i kēia lā.
Ma hope o ke kūkā kamaʻilio - a me ka makaʻu iaʻu e like me he ipo wahine lili - ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau iā ia e ʻūlū i loko. Ma hope o kekahi mau mahina ua hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i kūkulu no ke kuene. Eia nō naʻe huli ʻo ia i kekahi manawa i ka porn a hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i kekahi manawa, i kekahi mau manawa (ma kahi o 4 mau manawa i kā mākou pili) orgasm i ka wā o ka moekolohe. I ka orgasm pono ʻo ia e masturbate me kahi kiʻi ma kahi mamao.
Hōʻike kēia Ted Talk i kēia pilikia.
ʻIke maopopo ʻaʻole kēia ka pilikia o ka mea kākau, akā e noʻonoʻo nei i ka hana o ke kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka pilina ma waena o ka hoʻohana pūnaewele porn maʻamau a me nā hana erectile / moekolohe ʻike wau he mea ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole i haʻi ʻo Pamela iā ia ma ke ʻano he hiki.
Malia paha, no kouʻanoʻole i kāu'ōlelo, ua makaʻu nui loa nā poʻe e hele mai ma hope o Victorian inā e hōʻohewa lākou a nīnau paha i nā pilali.
elmondo2012 i ka māhele
ʻAe - Kou lolo ma ka porn: ʻaʻole hoʻomākaukau ʻo Evolution i kou lolo no ka porn pūnaewele i kēia lā.
kekauoha i ka māhele
Ke hoʻolei wale nei ʻoe i kēlā? Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ke ʻano o kāna ʻano pūnaewele?
raerae25 i ka honoa
ʻO ka mea kākau o ka'ōlelo i'ōleloʻia e hana wale nei i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi,ʻaʻole ka lawelaweʻana.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kāne (a me ka hapa nui haʻahaʻa o ka poʻe wāhine) e nānā pono i nā porn ma keʻano mau. Hoʻomaopopo nā kānakaʻepekema a me nā neuroscientists me kaʻike o nā hopena o kēia. ʻAʻole i ka moʻomeʻa, akā, hoʻokahi hopena likeʻole ka pilikia a me nā pilikia me ka moekolohe e pili ana i nā kumu.
No laila, me he mea lā e hāʻawiʻia ana i kēia huliau kahi e loaʻa ai i ka mea kākau moʻolelo MIGHT kēia pilikia.
He nui nā kāne aʻu i kamaʻilio aku ai i ka poʻe e hana ana, mai noʻonoʻo i ka porn ma ke ʻano he kumu kūpono a lākou e hakakā ai me ka moekolohe no ka mea i kēia mau lā, ʻoiai, ua lawe ʻia ma ke ʻano he 'hāʻawi' ʻia e nā kāne e nānā i ka porn aʻo ia nō kēlā. huaʻōlelo, 'maʻamau', no laila ʻaʻole pilikia a ʻinoʻino paha.
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