"He aha ka mea e ʻumeʻume ai iā ʻoe i ke kino o ke kāne?" Ua nīnau mai nei kekahi iaʻu. Ua pane maoli wau ʻo ka mea sexiest e pili ana i ke kāne ka mea i loko o kona poʻo. Maoli ʻaʻohe au i lohe hou iā ia. (ʻAneʻane loa kēia he pōmaikaʻi kēia.)
Akā he mea kupaianaha ke ʻano o ko mākou hoʻohālikelike ʻana i ke ʻano o ke kāne he mea kino - he haʻuki, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō, me nā hoʻokūkū a me nā manaʻolana āpau i hōʻike ʻia - ke ʻoiaʻiʻo he ʻaneʻane noʻonoʻo loa ia. He mea hoihoi loa kēia i kēia manawa, no ka mea, ke ʻano morphing nei kā mākou mau hana pono wahine, hanauna, i kahi ala e hiki ai ke hoʻopaʻi iā Gaia i ke kanaka.
ʻAʻole wau he loea. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke nānā nei wau i ka manaʻo o kahi loea moekolohe ma ke ʻano he palupalu a ʻo ia iho kahi hōʻailona o ka hohonu o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i kā mākou pono ponoʻī.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka wahine a ʻōlelo i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka moekolohe, ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka "ʻoi aku, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi," ʻo ia ke kono i ka huhū a me ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa o ka trollosfera; e kapa ʻia ʻo wuss, wimp a wowser. No laila ʻaʻole wau e kau i kuʻu poʻo ma luna o kēia parapet kikoʻī inā ʻaʻole nui nā loea e ʻōlelo nei pū kekahi: Ke hoʻoliʻiliʻi nei ka porn pūnaewele i nā lolo o nā keiki mai ka moekolohe a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, mai ke aloha aku.
ʻO kahi ʻōpio e ʻimi nei i ke kōkua ʻoihana no ka erectile disfunction e hiki paha i kēia mau lā, i hāʻawi ʻia iā Viagra a ʻōlelo ʻia e masturbate me nā kiʻi kiʻi kino, e like me ka hala ʻana o kekahi mau minuke i loko o kahi keʻokeʻo a me ka pepa kolourised e hoʻōla hou i ka ʻai no ka peachy haʻahaʻa. Akā ʻo kēlā mau lāʻau lapaʻau e hopohopo nei, 180-degrees antiquated.
ʻO porn paha - porn pūnaewele - ka pilikia, ʻaʻole ʻo ka hopena. Hoʻokumu paha ia i mau makahiki he XNUMX i hala, i ka wā kamaliʻi, a ʻoi paha kahi hana ʻole o ka peni, akā ʻo ka lolo. Ke waiho nei i kahi keikikāne i mua o ka porn e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu heroin addled drug-addled.
Hoʻopilikia loa ʻia mākou e pili ana i nā keiki a me ka wahine. Ma ka ʻili, hiki i kahi makua ke paʻi kiʻi ʻole i kahi keiki me ka kānalua ʻole o pedophilia a inā ʻōlelo ʻia nā puke a nā keiki e pili ana i ka flirting a me ka ʻōlohelohe e kū ana ia i kahi laka a me nā mākua.
Eia nō naʻe ma ka honua maoli nā pahuhopu a me nā TV TV hoʻowalewale i ka wahine me ka manaʻo ʻole a me nā keiki he nui, ʻoiai he mau keikikāne, he hardcore porn porn maʻamau ma ka papa ʻekolu.
Hōʻike nā noiʻi e pili ana i ka 90 pākēneka o nā keiki ma waena o ʻewalu a me 16 mau makahiki i nānā porn ma ka pūnaewele, a ma kahi o ka hapalua e hana maʻamau. Hopohopo nā mākua a me nā kula e pili ana i nā lāʻau hoʻolauleʻa akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā keikikāne mai ka makahiki 12 a 17 mau makahiki ka hui mea kūʻai nui loa no kēia ʻoihana miliona miliona e hōʻike nei i ka porn - a i ʻole ka dopamine e hoʻokumu ʻia i loko o ka lolo - ʻo ia ke koho a ke keiki hou.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, pīhoihoi nā keiki āpau e pili ana i ka moekolohe. Hāʻawi ʻia kēlā. He aha ka mea hou o ka hui lethal o ke komo a me ka dissociation i hoʻokumu ʻia i ka pale. Mai ka makahiki i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai nā hanauna i hala e nānā i nā huaʻōlelo haumia i ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo - ke manaʻo nei no ka “bum” akā e noho no ka “lalo” a i ʻole ka “buttock” - a i ʻole ke nānā ʻana i nā ʻōpū o kekahi me kekahi, ua mākaukau nā keiki o kēia manawa e komo i kahi lako palena ʻole a me nā ʻano like ʻole. o kā Erica Jong i kapa ai ʻo "zipless f—".
Hoʻolālā pālua ʻia ka porn pūnaewele. Aia ka hopena pale mamao, a laila ka manaʻo ʻole - misogyny, hoʻomāinoino a me ka hana ʻino maoli - o ka ʻike.
ʻO kēia mau kumu - hoʻolako, ʻano, inoa inoa ʻole, haʻalele - hana i ka porn pūnaewele i kahi pāʻani hou loa; ka mea a ke kumu aʻo ʻo Gary Wilson i kāhea aku ai "ʻo kekahi o nā hoʻokolohua neʻe wikiwiki loa a ʻoi loa o nā hoʻokolohua honua i hana ʻole ʻia".
ʻO ka lolo ka kī. Hoʻohui ʻia ka lolo kāne e hoʻolōʻihi i ka hua, e ʻike nei i ka ʻiʻo wahine hou e like me ka manawa kūpono. No laila, wahi a Wilson, ʻaʻole ia he ʻōlohelohe akā ʻo ka mea hou ka mea e ala ai ka lani. ʻO kēia ka Coolidge Effect, a kū ia i ka hapanui o nā laha a no nā kumu evolution evolution. Akā, e like me ka ʻiʻini kalepona, ke loaʻa nei nā hopena anti-evolutionary i kēia manawa.
Ma kahi o ka hipa kāne ma ke kula, a i ʻole ke kāne ma ka Clapham omnibus, e loaʻa ai kona makemake no ka mea hou i kaupalena ʻia e ka manawa kūpono, ka luhi a i ʻole (hope hope) kūpono, hiki i ka pale ma mua o 10 mau makahiki ke loaʻa nā wahi hānai hou inā lōʻihi hiki iā ia ke hoʻomau i ke kaomi ʻana. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Wilson i kekahi kanaka ʻōpio e nīnau ana, "ʻo mākou anei ka hanauna mua e hana pono i ka lima hema?"
In ʻO ka Demise of Guys, ʻO Philip Zimbardo lāua ʻo Nikita Duncan e hoʻomaopopo i ka nui o nā kūlana i lāʻau mau ʻia ai nā keikikāne a me nā kāne uʻi - ADHD, OCD, hopohopo kaiāulu, hopohopo hana, kaumaha - mimic arousal addiction. Inā kāu keiki ma Ritalin, e nānā i kāna ʻano pūnaewele.
Hoʻopiha ke kikowaena hauʻoli o ka lolo me ka dopamine. I ka lā aʻe e makemake hou ana ia, a me nā mea hou aʻe. I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ʻekolu mau mea i kū. Hoʻokahi, habituation pono i nā koina mau loa no ka leʻaleʻa like; ʻoi aku, weirder, nastier. ʻElua, pili ikaika ka leʻaleʻa ʻaʻole me ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ka hoʻokalakupua a me ka noho aloha ʻana akā me ka noho kaʻawale, ʻeleʻele, voyeurism, nā pale a me ka haʻalele ʻana i ka naʻau. ʻEkolu, ʻano hou nā ala neural e like me.
He mea hōʻalo i kapa ʻia ʻo “ka lolo porn”. Hana ʻia nā kāne ʻōpio i ka morose ʻaʻole ma ka holo pono ʻole o erectile akā ma ka hemahema o ka makemake: hiki ʻole ke makemake i nā kaikamahine maoli, nā minoʻaka maoli, ka hoʻopā maoli. Hana maʻamau i kēia ma waena o kahi hanauna a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻololi i nā lauana kaiaulu, ke hoʻokō nei ʻoe i ka kaohi kanaka koʻikoʻi.
Hoʻōla hou ka naʻau. He mau mahina a he mau makahiki o ka turki anu. ʻAʻole porn, manawa. E hoʻi wikiwiki nā ʻelemakule, no ka mea ua emi iho ko lākou hoʻolahaʻana i ka porn, a me ka wā o ka wā kamaliʻi. ʻO nā ʻōpio kāne ka ʻeha loa.
ʻAʻole wau i hoʻopilikia nui ʻia e ka porn. He mea ʻino a hūpō ka mea aʻu i ʻike ai, e ala ana (i kahi ʻano kō ke kō keu) akā icky. No laila ua mālama wau i ka hoʻomanawanui ʻana o kahi mākua.
Ua akāka i kēia manawa ʻaʻole e ʻoki iā ia. ʻAʻole hoʻi ʻo Viagra, ʻoiai ka pilikia ma luna o ke kāʻei. ʻEpekema - a no kekahi mau kumu ʻano ʻē a mākou i hana ai i ka wahine i ka panalāʻau o nā ʻepekema, ʻaʻole i nā haku mele - koi i kēlā, ʻoiai i ka lolo, pili kino ka wahine. nā impulses uila, nā puka lou a me nā neurotransmitters.
Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole. Akā i ka hopena nā mea nui o nā metaphysics ma mua o ko mākou koa e hana maoli me kā mākou keiki. Hoʻokele mākou iā lākou mai nā mea leʻaleʻa ʻē aʻe - nā momona trans-momona a me ka crack cocaine - akā me ka porn aia kahi keiki kāne e ʻūlū keiki kāne ai.
Eia naʻe, inā mau ka lolo porn, ʻaʻole keiki kāne nā keikikāne. E lilo lākou i mau ʻuhane, ʻaʻole e ʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me ke aloha.
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