"Makemake wau e lilo ka 90 pākēneka o nā keikikāne ʻōpio ma UK a me ʻAmelika i kekahi ma ka pae ʻoi loa i ke ola i nā ponokala pūnaewele, e like me ka 30 pākēneka o nā kaikamahine ʻōpio. ʻO Ditto no nā kāne a me nā wahine makua. "
Ke lilo nei mākou i lāhui o nā mea hoʻopili ʻenehana kikohoʻe? ʻOiaʻiʻo e ʻōlelo nā kiʻi no lākou iho. Wehe ka mea hoʻohana iPhone maʻamau i kā lākou hāmeʻa 80 mau manawa i kēlā me kēia lā, e like me nā kiʻi i hoʻokuʻu ʻia e Apple i kēia makahiki. Ua hōʻike nā kānaka noiʻi mai ke Kulanui ʻo Nottingham Trent ma 2015 i ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka poʻe ʻōpio ma kahi o ka hapakolu o kā lākou mau hola ala e hoʻohana ana i nā mīkini uila. Akā ke nānā wale nei mākou i kēia manawa i nā psychopathologies hiki ke pili me kēia hoʻohana ʻenehana nui.
Ke hana pinepine au me nā mākua a me nā'ōpio i holo i loko o ke ola-e hōʻoki i nā pilikia o ke kino, a me kaʻu hana mua a me ka loiloiʻana i ka noiʻi, e hōʻike ana iaʻu i kēia manawa o ka hōʻailona pahū i ka lua wale nō i ke koʻikoʻi o ka hōʻailona. nā lāʻau lapaʻau paʻakikī e like me ka crack-cocaine. Aia kēia ma keʻano o nā hopena o ke ola kaiapili, kino a me nā manawahana no nā poʻe e pili ana, a no ka lehulehu holoʻokoʻa. A likeʻole me nā lāʻauʻawaʻawa paʻakikī, he nui loa nā'ōpiopio iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Loaʻa i nā'ōpio mau makahiki'ōpio i kēia pōʻino 21 century, pinepine i ka mālamaʻoleʻana o nā mākua i nā mea e hana nei ma lalo o ko lākou mau hale pono'ī.
ʻIke mākou i ka hewa i keʻano e hoʻohana pono ai i kēiaʻenehana, me kaʻaeʻana e hoʻokūpaʻa i ko mākou mau manaʻo a me ko mākou ola ma mua o ka hoʻohanaʻana ia mea he mea hana manawa. ʻAʻole ia e kōkua i kēlā, i hoʻokumuʻia e nā pāʻani pāʻaniʻole, tv, kelepona, a me nā hui pāʻoihana kaiapili e kūʻai i ke kōkua o nā kālaihana e alakaʻi iā lākou, e mālama i nā mea hoʻohana i kā lākou mau pale. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokolokoloʻia kēlā mauʻoihana a me nāʻoihana e like me nā lāʻau lapaʻau, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mau meaʻeleʻele maʻamau, akā,ʻo ka hopena o ka maʻi maʻi maʻamau he mea hōʻole loa. Uaʻike kēlā poʻeʻoihana kolohe i nā keiki'ōpio i lilo i mea hōʻalo i ko lākou wā'ōpiopio, aia paha i loko o kā lākou mau mea āpau i nā makahiki he mau makahiki.
A he mea hōʻeuʻeu kēlā i ka manawa e hoʻolimalima ai kāu keiki aiʻole mea'ōpiopio paha i kekahi mau hola ma ia mau polokalamu i kēlā me kēia lā, i kēia manawa ua lilo i mea maʻamau. Uaʻike wau i nā mākua i noho mau nā keiki kula nui i ka pō a pau e pāʻani ana i nā pāʻani wikiō ma mua o ka hiamoe. Hōʻikeʻokoʻa nā'ōpiopio i nā hōʻailona o ka mīpikipiki ke hoʻoweliweli kekahi mākua e lawe i kahi kelepona mai o lākou i ka wā moe aiʻole i ka manawaʻai. ʻO ka pānui Dolmio. i kēia manawa ma ka pūnaewele a ma ke kelepona pāʻoihana,ʻo ka caricatures he mana kūpono -ʻo ka nui o nāʻohana e hele nei i ka manawa o kaʻohana no ka mea e pāʻani ana nā keiki i nā pāʻani video a eʻimi i ka pūnaewele i ka wā e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai lākou i nā meaʻai. iho.
No laila he aha nā hopena, ma waho aʻe o nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka lani a me nā bila kīnāʻoleʻia? Hoʻokahi mea,ʻo nā keiki a me nā poʻe'ōpio i hoʻokomo i ka honua mamua, e lilo i mea hōʻoiaʻiʻo ke pili i ke ola maoli. Uaʻike wau i nā'ōpiopio'ōpiopio eʻike nei i ka pepehi i nā zombies i loko o ka pāʻani, akāʻaʻoleʻike i keʻano o ka heluheluʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona a wehewehe paha i nā leo o ka leo. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou keʻike i ka wā e huhū ai kekahi kanaka a manaʻo paha e hoʻokumu i kahi hoaaloha, akāʻike lākou i ka hoʻounaʻana i kahi kiʻi Instagram a iʻole e like me kahiʻaoʻao Facebook.
I ka pōkole, nā mākau a ke keiki a me ka ʻōpio no ka hana ʻana i ka hapa nui o ke ola maoli ma lalo o ka hoʻomohala ʻana, a i ʻole atrophy nui loa. Ke ulu nei lākou i ke kino a me ka psychologically hemahema ʻōpio, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kūleʻa me nā luʻi o ke ola maoli, ka mea e loli loa i kā lākou pilina, nā hana, a me ke olakino kino. ʻO ko lākou mau hōʻailona e ʻike ʻia ka huhū a me ka huhū, a i ʻole ke haʻalele ʻana a me ke kaumaha, no ka mea, aia lākou i hope loa ma hope o ka pilina kanaka a me nā mākau hoʻonā pilikia e hoʻoliʻiliʻi me ke ola maoli. ʻO ka pinepine o ka ʻehaʻeha o ko lākou ineptness ke kumu e hoʻi i kēlā me kēia mea i loko o kahi fantisties o kā lākou manaʻo ponoʻī, a i ʻole i loko o kekahi o nā honua uila, a e hoʻohui i kēia kolohe, hele pinepine lākou i nā lāʻau waha, inā paha. kuhikuhi i nā anti-depressants i kauoha ʻia mai kā lākou GP, a i ʻole ka supermarket 'pain killers' e kū mai ka booze, i nā meaʻai wikiwiki, i ka ibuprofen.
ʻO ka pōʻino, ma ke ʻano he holoholona kanaka, maʻalahi mākou a pau e hoʻohana a hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma o nā ʻano hanaʻino loa - nā ʻano maʻamau o ka hoʻohana ʻana i hoʻolālā ʻia a kūʻai ʻia ʻia e nā ʻoihana maikaʻi ʻole i mea e hoʻopiʻi pono ai kā lākou huahana i nā mea pani ʻona i kā mākou hohonu hohonu. nā pono holoholona e noho: no ka pili pili kaiaulu a me ka hui pūʻulu, (kīwī, kelepona & facebook); no ka manaʻo o ka dynamism a me ka ikaika, (pāʻani pāʻani kamepiula); no ka ʻike hou (google a me nā nūhou); a no nā manawa moekolohe (nā kiʻi ponokala pūnaewele. E nānā i ka pūnaewele i kapa ʻia ʻo 'YourBrainOnPorn.com', ʻo ia ka hana nui loa a ke Kumu Kula ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ʻo Gary Wilson. pīhoihoi a neʻe hoʻi wau. Makemake wau e lilo ka 90 pākēneka o nā keikikāne ʻōpio ma UK a me ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i kekahi mahele kiʻekiʻe loa e hōʻemi ana i ke ola i nā ponokala pūnaewele, e like me ka 30 pākēneka o nā kaikamahine ʻōpio. Ditto no nā mākua nā kāne a me nā wahine.
ʻO mākou ke 'noho mākaukau' no ka 'blitzkrieg digital' i hoʻomaka me TV i nā makahiki 1950 a ua ulu a laha, e like me ka maʻi lele, a ke makaʻu nei i kēia manawa e hōʻino i ko mākou kaiāulu i kahi mea e hōʻino ai ' uahi paka uahi he mea ʻole ia e ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hoʻopilikia ka hoʻoweliweli kikohoʻe i nā pilikia psychological a me ka pilina kanaka e luku ai i ke ola, ʻaʻole wale ka hana ʻole ʻana o ke kino, atrophy a me ka momona o kahi nohona noho.
ʻO kēia ke kumu e paipai aku ai i nā mākua e hōʻoia i ka hiki ʻole i nā keiki ʻōpio ke komo i nā kelepona paʻalima a i ʻole nā papa i nā manawa maʻamau a i ʻole. Pono e hāʻawi i nā keiki makua i nā curfews koʻikoʻi a he mea nui e nānā i kā lākou hana ma ka pūnaewele. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, hui pū nā mākua e koi i kā lākou mau kula e hoʻonoho mua i ka 'ʻike i nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o nā honua uila e ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i ka hana a me ka hoʻoikaika kino ʻana me ke ola maoli', i ʻike ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka hiki ke hoʻowahāwahā a hoʻoweliweli a me nā hana ākea. Hiki i nā pāʻani kani leo nui ʻole ke komo i ka huhū a me ke kahe ʻana o ke koko ma kahi pae maʻi, hāʻawi ʻia i ka lolo ʻōpio i mākaukau e aʻo i nā hana a me nā loina. Kau ʻia i luna o nā mākua e pale aku i kā lākou keiki a hiki i ke kānāwai hoʻomalu olakino ke loaʻa i ka lima ma luna o kēia hanana laulaha ʻole ʻo ia ka ʻino nui loa o ke kenekulia 21.
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