Ka Tinder a me ka Dawn o ka "Dating Apocalypse", Vanity Fair (2015)

NĀ KUMU: ʻOiai ʻo kēia ʻatikala e pili ana iā Tinder, hōʻike kekahi mau ʻōlelo i ka likelika o ka mana o ka porn, e like me ka hana erectile i hoʻokomo ʻia i porn.

Loaʻa

Kūpilikiʻi ka ua, a hoʻoneʻe i loko o ka lumi hoʻolālā, kahi moe, kahi kīʻaina, a me nā kāpili kāhili i nā wahi a pau. Hiki ke kamaʻilio hou i ka wahine:

"He nui nā kānaka i nele i kēlāʻoihana," wahi a Courtney me kahi uē. "He aha keʻano likeʻole like? ʻAʻole wau eʻike. "

Hāʻaʻaka lākou a pau.

"Uaʻike wau i ka hāʻawiʻana i hoʻokahi iaʻu," wahi a Courtney.

"ʻAe, akāʻaʻoleʻike nā kānaka i ka mea e hana ai," i'ōlelo aiʻo Jessica.

"Iʻole [vibrator] hikiʻole iaʻu ke loaʻa hoʻokahi," wahi a Courtney. "ʻAʻohe mea i loaʻa" me kahi kanaka. "He pilikia nui loa ia."

"He pilikia ia," i hoʻopukaʻo Jessica.

Ke kūkākūkā nei lākou i keʻano kūponoʻole o kā lākou mau kuʻi e kāpae i ko lākou kūkulu. He mea lapaʻau maʻakāʻau maʻamau,ʻo ka hoʻonuiʻiaʻana o ka maʻi'ōpiopio i nā kāne'ōpiopio, i hoʻoiliʻia i nā mea a pau mai nā mea maʻamau i loko o nā mea i hanaʻia i kaʻole o ka pilina ma ka moe hookup.

"Ināʻaʻole hiki i kahi kanaka paʻakikī, "wahi a Rebeca," a he pono iaʻu e'ōlelo, he nui ka hana, hana wale lākou e like me ka hopena o kēia ao. "

"I kaʻehā o ke kakahiaka ua huhū kēia kanaka, a ua like wau, e Dude, e hele wale wau i ka hiamoe hiamoe -ʻaʻohe," wahi a Sarah, 21,ʻo ka mea me ka lauohoʻeleʻele loloa. "Ua luhi wau i ka hoʻopunipuni."

Ma muli o nā haʻawina he nui, hiki i nā wāhine ke loaʻa he mau kogasona i loko o ka pilina o ka pilina ma mua o nā hālāwai i kūʻoleʻia. Eʻoi aʻe ma mua oʻelua manawa, e like me kahi noi i hanaʻia e nā mea noiʻi ma Kinsey Institute a me ke Kulanuiʻo Binghamton.

"Keʻike nei au i ka lāʻau limo e hele mai ana i oʻu nei, e like meʻoe, e kuʻu Akua, "Wahi a Courtney, e kau ana i kona mau manamana lima ma ke kaha o ke kea, me he mea lā e pale i kahi vampire.

Uaʻakaʻaka lākou.

"He mea nui ia inā hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ka mana e hana aiʻole hiki mai i loko oʻelua kekona," wahi a Rebeca.

"Manaʻo wau he manaʻo koikoi nā kānaka e pili ana i keʻano o ke kāne ma o ka porn, "E'ōlelo anaʻo Jessica, e nānā ana mai kāna kelepona. "No ka mea, i kekahi manawa noʻonoʻo wau i ka moekolohe i ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia he manawa maikaʻi loa e like me ka paʻiʻana i kekahi." Ke kuʻi neiʻo ia i kona lima me ka huhū.

"ʻAe, ua like kona huhū," i'ōlelo aiʻo Danielle.

"E like me ka porn sex, "wahi a Jessica,"ʻo kēlā mau wahine -ʻaʻole ia he like, he meaʻoluʻolu, e like me ka hukiʻana o ko lākou lauoho aʻokiʻia paha. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e komo nei, akāʻo nā kānaka e noʻonoʻo wale ai "-bro voice-" 'E hoʻopau wau iā ia, "aʻo kekahi manawaʻaʻole nui. "

"ʻAe," wahi a Danielle. "E like me ka pō hope loa e moe ana au me kēia kanaka, a he kanakaʻano hoʻoloheʻole wau,ʻaʻole loa i hakakā-aʻo kēia keikikāne i hele mai i ka pō nei,ʻo ia ke hoʻonāukiuki mai iaʻu.. "

Ua noho mālie lākou.