11 / 04 / 2018, Jesse Mulligan. E loulou i ka pūnaewele minuteʻo 3.5 (transcript ma lalo)
OPINION: ʻ saylelo nā psychologists maanei aia mākou i waenakonu o kahi pilikia porn.
Ma kahi o ka makahiki i hala, uaʻikeʻia ka loaʻaʻana o ka 100 o ka mau keiki i nānāʻia i ka porn, aʻo ka'ōlelo 85 ua nānā lākou iā ia i kēlā me kēia lā a iʻole ia wiki.
Ma ka US,ʻeono mau ka'āina e hōʻike ana i nā kiʻi pikokala i kahi pilikia o ke olakino. ʻOiai The New York Times Ke kono neiʻo ia i nā luna hoʻomalu e pāpā.
Akā ʻoiai maʻalahi e haʻi aku i ke aupuni e hana ana lākou i kekahi mea, ʻo kēia kekahi o kēlā mau pilikia kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia kāu mea e helu ai.
Makemake wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kiʻi ponoʻole.
- Ke hoʻonui nei ka porn ma Instagram
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Koe, he ʻano hilahila ʻole ke ʻano, keu hoʻi ma ke kīwī ke nānā ana paha nā keiki, no laila ua ʻimi wau i kahi hopena.
No nā minuke ʻelua aʻe ma kahi o ka huaʻōlelo 'porn', e ʻōlelo wau i ka huaʻōlelo 'corn'. E haʻi wale i kāu poʻe keiki e kamaʻilio ana mākou e pili ana i ka kānana.
I koʻu wā ʻōpio, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ke kulina. Malia paha e lawe mai kekahi keiki i ka palaoa a kona makuakāne i ke kula a hala ʻoe iā ia, akā ua ʻano ʻono nō. ʻO kekahi o lākou e mau ana i kā lākou mau ʻāpana.
I kēia manawa eʻike pahaʻoe, aia ka palaoa i nā wahi a pau. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e kūʻai mai i kahi lawaiʻa, akā wehe waleʻoe i kāu pona laka aiʻole kelepona a aia ma laila e hele ai.
Ma ke ʻano he kāne he hoʻowalewale ia a maʻalahi - e like me ka lālau ʻana i ka pia anuanu mai ka pahu hau. Akā ʻo kēia maʻalahi kaʻu makemake e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia pō.
ʻO ka manawa aʻe e hoʻomaka ʻoe e kikokiko i ka "cornhub" i loko o kāu pahu kuhikuhi, e lawe i kahi manawa a hoʻomanaʻo i kēia.
Ke hoʻolimalima neiʻoe me kaʻoluʻolu i kou pono pono'ī e loaʻa ka moekolohe maʻamau me kekahi kanaka maʻamau.
Eia ka mea kālaiʻike psychologist ʻo Dr Mark Thorpe, ka mea e pili ana i kēia mea i nā manawa āpau, i ʻōlelo ʻia.
"Aia mākou i waenakonu o kahi pilikia. Nui ka nui o nā pilikia moekolohe me nā kāne ʻōpio ma lalo o 25 - a hōʻike ʻia e like me ka hana erectile; hoʻolōʻihi i ka ejaculation; hoʻoliʻiliʻi libido me nā hoa ola maoli, ʻaʻole ka pale; a me ka hōʻalo i nā pilina maoli. "
Pololei kēlā, i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e hele ai i ka pūnaewele e haʻalele, ke hana nei ʻoe i kāu ʻāpana koleko pono e like me kēia.
ʻO ka nui o ke kulina āu e ʻai ai, ʻo ka ʻoi loa o ka kānana e pono ai ʻoe.
Eia hou ʻo Dr Thorpe: "Hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka lolo a me ka porn pūnaewele iā ia, no laila aia ka maʻa maʻamau e heʻe i nā mea ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī.
"He ʻano like ia me ka mea āu i ʻōlelo ai me nā lāʻau, pono ʻoe i nā hits ʻoi aku ka nui e pono ai ka nui o nā ʻano no laila e hele nui ana i loko o ka ʻatikala, paʻakikī, hoʻopaʻi.
He mau kānaka maoli kēia i kēia mau wikiō.
ʻO ke kaikamahine a kekahi, ko ke kaikuahine o kekahi. Hana kekahi o lākou i kahi hana maikaʻi ke nānā aku e like me kēia kā lākou ʻoihana koho mua, akā mai mai keiki ʻoe iā ʻoe iho.
Ma ka liʻiliʻi e ʻae ma ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka palaoa ke kōkua maikaʻi nei mākou i kahi ʻoihana nui e hana i nā wahine a me nā kaikamahine i nā mea a lākou e makemake ʻole ai e hana, i mea e maikaʻi ai nā kāne e like me mākou no kekahi mau kekona.
E lawe i kahi kuleana o ka mea e hana nei i nā keiki o New Zealand.
Kuhi ʻia he 88 ka pākēneka o nā ponokala pūnaewele e hoʻomāinoino. Ke kākoʻo nei mākou i kēia ʻoihana ke kākoʻo nei mākou i kā mākou hana hou loa o ka moekolohe, kahi e aʻo ai nā keikikāne ʻo ka paʻi ʻana, ka ʻakaʻeha ʻana a me ka hōʻeha ʻana i kā lākou ipo wahine kahi ʻano pilina, a ulu aʻe nā kaikamahine e noʻonoʻo e hana lākou e like me nā wahine i loko o nā wikiō no ka mea ʻo ia wale nō ka moekolohe a lākou i ʻike ai.
Inā hoʻolohe ka lohe ʻana i kēia mea iā ʻoe e hana ana i kahi loli, hana pū wau me Dr Thorpe ma kahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e neʻe ai mai ka porn.
Aia ma ʻO ka ʻaoʻao Facebook o ka Papahana. Inā hopohopo ʻoe e hōʻike ana i kāu mōʻaukala, e huli wale i kāu polokalamu kele pūnaewele pilikino ma mua ... maopopo leʻa ua ʻike ʻoe pehea e holo ai.
A nānā, ʻaʻole wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i ka mea e hana ai ke pani ʻia nā pale. Akā ke noi aku nei iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e ʻai i nā ponokala kiʻi me ka maka ākea o kou mau maka.
Ke hele nei ka pūnaewele me mākou ma nā ala a mākou e ʻike ʻole ai, akā ʻo ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi ala ʻē aʻe e kiʻi ai iā ʻoe iho i kahi ʻano nui kahi mea nui e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i hopena maikaʻi iā ʻoe iho, i kou pilina a me kāu poʻe keiki.
He Jesseʻo Jesse Mulligan ma The Project
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