Hoʻokani pinepine ka manaʻo hopohopo i kahi kuleana ma ka hoʻoponopono ʻana iā ED. Pehea e hiki ai i kekahi ke ʻike i ka pili o ka porn a me ka nui o ka hopohopo? Inā kū ikaika ʻoe i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka porn me ka porn ʻole a me ka moemoeā ʻole, a me ka wikiwiki a me ke kaomi maʻamau, a laila ʻo ka hopohopo paha ke kumu. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau no nā kāne ke loaʻa iā ED i kumu ʻia e ka hui pū ʻana o ka hopohopo a me ka desensitization porn-induced. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha, hiki i nā hihia maʻalahi o ka desensitization i hoʻokomo ʻia i ka porn ke hānai i nā pilikia hopohopo hana.
Pono kekahi mea kūponoʻole me ka wahine
No ka mea waiwai, ua like wau me ka ʻike ʻōpio. ʻO ka hōʻike mua ʻana i ka porn, akā ua ʻike wau i kaʻu ʻike mua i ka wahine maoli e awward a anticlimactic. ʻIke wau i ka "makaʻu kahua" a me ka hopohopo hana i kekahi mau manawa, ʻoiai ʻo wau me kahi mea aʻu i hoihoi loa ai. I koʻu wā ʻōpio ua nui koʻu mau manaʻo no ke ʻano o kaʻu hui mua ʻana, akā ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo e hana pinepine ka moekolohe i ka nui o ka hopohopo, ka pīhoihoi a me ka huikau, a ʻo ka hoʻokele ʻana i nā mīkini o ka moekolohe he hana paʻakikī. ma mua o kaʻu i manaʻo ai.
Ua paʻakikī wau e kū pololei i ka wā he nui nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai! ʻO ka nānā ʻana i nā porn a choreographed a i ʻole nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kiʻi maʻamau i hoʻokau ʻia iaʻu e noʻonoʻo ua hele maikaʻi loa ia. Pili paha kekahi o ia mea i ka hoʻohana mua ʻana o ka porn, akā manaʻo wau he nui ka poʻe i ʻike i kēia. Hiki ke ʻokoʻa ka maoli maoli o ka moekolohe mua i kēlā mau moemoeā mua, a i ʻole nā papa kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i hoʻokumu ʻia.
Hoʻomaopopo wau i kahi hoaaloha e haʻi ana iaʻu ua paʻakikī ʻo ia i kāna manawa mua. Ua noʻonoʻo ʻo ia iā ia iho me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka moekolohe style pornstar maikaʻi, akā e nānā ana i kēia hiʻohiʻona i kahi mamao. Ua loaʻa iā ia he mea ʻē ke ʻike i ka moekolohe me kekahi ma ka "kanaka mua", mai kāna kuanaʻike. ʻOiai ʻo ia ka pīhoihoi, ua komo koke ʻo ia i ka loli o nā mea; ua lilo ua kaikamahine lā i wahine nāna, a i hala ʻelua mau makahiki ma hope ua noho pū lāua! Hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia ka pīhoihoi.
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