Ke ʻeha nei ke kākau ʻana i kēia ʻāpana. No nā makahiki i hana wau i kahi mea ʻino loa iaʻu - ʻeha ke hoʻomaopopo i kēlā.
E pili ana i ka ʻai ʻana o nā ponokala kiʻi ma ka Pūnaewele.
I ka nānā mua ʻana, maikaʻi ʻole ke kani. ʻOi aku ka manaʻo o ka poʻe ʻelemākule i ka makaʻu - akā ua ulu nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.
ʻAʻole ia e pili hou ana i nā wahine ʻaʻahu liʻiliʻi i ka makasina Playboy.
E pili ana i ka hoʻokalakupua, nā piʻo, nā manaʻo kūlohelohe ʻole o ka nani, a me nā hana moekolohe kūpono ʻole - no ka manuahi, i ka neʻe ʻana i nā kiʻi a puni ka uaki.
E pili ana i ka poʻe ʻōpio i hōʻike i ka noʻonoʻo pono ʻole o ka anuu porn nui. ʻO ka poʻe ʻōpio, ke kaomi ʻana iā lākou iho i mua a mamao loa, hohonu i ka psychological a me nā pilikia o ke kino.
ʻAʻole pili kēia i nā hihia pākahi.
Eia kaʻu mau ʻike a me kaʻu ʻike ma luna iaʻu iho a me nā kāne ʻōpio ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka ʻai ʻana o ka porn me he pilikia kāne lā.
ʻO ka liʻiliʻi, ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo a nā helu helu ʻo PornHub. I kēlā me kēia makahiki, hoʻolaha paha ka paepae porn pili pono i nā helu helu hoihoi.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea hoʻohana ma 2017 he kāne¹ - ʻo ia nō koʻu ʻike. Ma kā mākou kula, ʻoi aku nā keikikāne i kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana i kā lākou ʻai ʻana. Ma ka lima ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole wau i lohe e pili ana i kahi kaikamahine e ʻai mau nei i ka porn.
Hoʻomaka ka hoʻomaka o ka pilikia - no ka mea ʻaʻole i kūkākūkā maikaʻi ʻia nā hopena o nā ponokala kiʻi i koʻu mau kula. ʻAʻole hoʻokahi manawa.
He kuhi hewa nui kēlā. Ma muli o koʻu ulu ʻana a piha i nā loiloi ʻole - a ma mua o koʻu ʻike ʻana, e ʻai ana wau i ka porn no ka manawa mua i koʻu wā ʻōpio. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana me kāu mau mākua - ʻoluʻolu loa; no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
Eia pehea ka mea i hoʻokani ai.
1. Nā kūlana pilikia
ʻAʻole ʻo Porn ka ʻoiaʻiʻo — ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole.
I koʻu wā ʻōpio, ʻaʻole au i ʻike i kēlā. Akā i kou wā makua, huikau ʻoe i ka nui o nā mea āu e ʻike ai me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Hoʻonani ʻia nā ao o ka ʻoihana ʻoihana porn a me nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni - loaʻa ʻelua ma nā paepae. Makemake ka porn ʻoihana e ʻike he mea ʻoiaʻiʻo. He aha ka mea kūpono a me ka mea ʻaʻole maʻalahi pinepine e ʻōlelo - no nā mea kūʻai aku me ka ʻike liʻiliʻi.
Hana kēia i kahi kiʻi wahaheʻe. ʻAʻole wale o ka nānā ʻana o nā wahine ʻōlohelohe & nā mea a lākou e hana ai iā lākou iho (ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole pili wale kēia i nā wahine, ʻoi aku ka pili o kēlā i kahi manawa). Hoʻokumu pū ia i kahi kiʻi wahaheʻe o ka hana a me nā pilikia maoli e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka condom i ka porn i kahi kiʻi hewa ʻole o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Nānā pinepine ʻia nā mea hana i ka porn no STD - ʻaʻole ka hihia no ka poʻe maʻamau. No ka moekolohe maʻamau i ke ola maoli, pono ka condom - ʻoiai inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā hana hana pale keiki ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu ʻike moekolohe mai ka porn wale nō e hewa. Mai koʻu wahi, ua lohe wau i nā mea pūʻiwa maikaʻi ʻole. Nā hāpai hāpai ʻole ʻia, nā ʻeha, a me nā paio ma waena o nā ipo.
2. Ka hoʻemi ʻana i ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho
Ke kūkākūkā mākou i nā ponokala kiʻi i ka lehulehu, pili pinepine ia i hoʻokahi mea: hōʻike kiʻi pilikia a nā wahine. Pololei mākou e kūkākūkā i kēia - ke kiʻi o nā wahine i ka porn ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole. ʻO ke ala e mālama ʻia ai kahi hapa misogynistic.
Akā aia kekahi mea poina iā mākou.
ʻO ke kiʻi o ke kāne he pilikia like.
ʻO nā mea hana keaka kāne kāne kahi kūlana kūpono ʻole hoʻi.
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, he genitalia nui lākou.
ʻO kēia kahi mea aʻu i ʻike lohi ai. No kekahi mau makahiki ua manaʻo wau ʻo kā lākou nui ka mea maʻamau. I koʻu wā ʻōpio & ʻaʻole piha, ua hoʻoweliweli iaʻu - pili ia i nā kāne āpau i nā ponokala kiʻi.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka penis ma nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka awelika - no laila ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne he penis liʻiliʻi - he makemakika maʻalahi. Akā ʻike anei nā kāne ke ana lākou iā lākou iho i kahi pā pono kūpono ʻole?
3. Ke ʻike nei i nā fetish ʻē
Loaʻa nā Fetishes. Kūlohelohe lākou - ʻaʻole koho ke kanaka i kā lākou makemake.
ʻO ia ke kumu e pono ai mākou e mahalo i nā fetishes ʻokoʻa - inā ʻaʻole lākou e hana ʻino i kekahi me ke kū ʻole i kā lākou makemake.
Akā kokoke, hiki i kēia mea ke paʻakikī. ʻAʻole makemake kēlā me kēia hoa wahine i ke ola maoli e hui pū me kāu mau makemake - he nui ka poʻe i ʻike he mea hoʻopailua a hoʻoweliweli paha. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka noho ʻana me kahi fetish no nā mea he nui.
Akā he aha ka pili o ka porn me nā fetish?
ʻAʻole wau makemake e koi i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ke ʻano o ka ulu ʻana o nā fetish. He kontroversial kēia palapala akā ʻaʻole naʻaupō loa. Nui ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hoʻomohala i nā fetish no ka mea he palupalu nā mea kūʻai porn - pono lākou i nā mea hou a ʻoi aku ka ikaika e hoʻāla ʻia.
Ke hoʻoluhi nei ʻo Porn. I nā kolamu e like r / pūmau ma Reddit, haʻi pinepine nā kāne e loaʻa iā lākou nā pilikia kūkulu me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka porn.
Hōʻike kekahi i nā ana ʻana i kēiaXNUMX - a ua loaʻa iaʻu ka ʻike like.
Akā inā ʻaʻole hana ka porn i nā fetish, hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu ponoʻī.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi kēlā kani i ka mua - akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia.
I koʻu ʻike, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i kahi fetish, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike he "mea e nalowale ana" mai kāu moekolohe ʻana. Akā ke ʻike koke ʻoe i kahi fetish, hana nui ia i kāu leʻaleʻa wahine.
No laila ʻaʻole pono ia e ʻimi e ʻimi i kāu mau fetishes - ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. Aia mau ka makaʻu o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi makemake e hui pū me nā aversions he nui.
4. ʻIkeʻikepili
ʻAe, hiki i nā ponokala kiʻi ke hoʻohewa. Akā ke hoʻomaopopo nei ʻaʻole maʻalahi kēlā. ʻAʻole ia he mea hōʻalo kino. ʻOi aku ia e pili ana i ka hilinaʻi psychological - akā kahi mea kūikawā.
Inā lilo ʻoe i ka puhika, maopopo mau iā ʻoe. ʻAʻohe meaʻai a inu ʻole paha nā ʻikaʻaka - ʻaʻohe koi kūlohelohe e hoʻopau iā lākou.
Me nā ponokala kiʻi, eia nō naʻe: Sex.
He mea maʻamau nā pono moekolohe. Ma ka liʻiliʻi i ke kēkelē olakino, ʻo ia nō ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia e nā mea hoʻomana porn.
Manaʻo lākou i kā lākou kuko porn e lilo i libido olakino. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻano huikau paha kēia - pono mākou e elaborate.
No lākou, pili mau ka ʻai ʻana i ka porn me ka masturbating a pololei a i ʻole ma hope paha. ʻAʻole hiki i nā kānaka i ka porn ke hana maʻamau me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni - ʻaʻole lākou e ala aʻe me ka ʻole o ia.
No laila ke ʻike lākou i ka makemake e masturbate, ʻo ia hoʻi ka nānā ʻana i hoʻokahi a i ʻole nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni porn. ʻAe, ʻo ka makemake no ka moekolohe ʻana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, maʻamau - ʻo ia wale nō me nā mea porn, pinepine pinepine ia a ʻaʻole maʻamau.
ʻO Porn ka inoa ʻo dopamine. Hana ka lolo i nā mea āpau e hiki ai ke hoʻokuʻu i ka dopamine - no laila ke hoʻomau nei nā mea addicts i kā lākou kelepona paʻalima, e wehe ana i kahi papa inoa inoa inoa ʻole, ʻike ʻia ka hopena.
ʻO ka manawa kūpono a hana maʻamau paha.
Akā ʻaʻole ia he dopamine wale nō e hoʻoulu i ka ʻai. ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka porn a me ka masturbating ʻaʻole ia kahi mea āu e hana ai i ka lehulehu. No kahi ʻōpio e noho mau nei me kona ʻohana, lawe ia i nā manawa kūpono.
ʻO kahi laʻana, i ka wā e hiamoe ai nā mea āpau a i ʻole nā mākua i waho o ka hale. Kūpono kēia mau hanana i mea maʻamau - a i kēlā me kēia manawa ke kū nei lākou, hoʻowalewale lākou iā ʻoe. Hele aku kou mau mākua me ka manaʻo ʻole i ke ahiahi? A laila he kūlana kūpono kēia e masturbate. Aia ʻoe i loko o ke ʻano? He mea ʻole ia - ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻonele i kēlā manawa kūpono.
ʻOi aku ka maʻa mau ka hōʻailona ʻoi loa no ka hōʻino nui.
He aha ka mea i kōkua mai iaʻu e hele i waho
He pilikia nui ka hoʻowalewale porn. Hiki i nā hopena ke ʻoluʻolu ʻole. Akā he nūhou maikaʻi - ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻoponopono hou ʻia ka hapa nui o nā pōʻino.
Hoʻolahalaha ka hana erectile ma waena o nā mea kūʻai porn; ma hope o kekahi mau lā a i ʻole mau pule hemo ʻole mai ka porn, ola hou ka ikaika. ʻO kēia ka mea i loaʻa iaʻu.
ʻAʻohe lāʻau lapaʻau e kūʻē i ka hoʻomana porn - ʻo ka turkey anuanu wale nō ka mea hana. Pono ia e ʻike i ka kapu ʻole o ka masturbation. Hiki iā ʻoe ke masturbate me ka ʻole o nā kiʻi pono ʻole.
ʻO nā lā mua o ka haʻalele ʻana ʻo ia ka paʻakikī loa. ʻAʻole holo ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa me ka ʻole o nā hiʻohiʻona porn - kaumaha loa nā pilikia kūkulu. Ma kēia kikoʻi, pono ʻoe e kau ma laila.
ʻIke wau i nā kāne ʻōpio he nui e kū ana i kā lākou kolohe. No laila, ʻo ka pilikia, ʻaʻohe o lākou makemake e loli. ʻO ka mea i hoʻoikaika nui iaʻu ka makaʻu. Inā hālāwai wau me kahi kaikamahine a ʻaʻole wau i ikaika i ka moekolohe, ʻoluʻolu loa wau.
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