ʻO David Ley ke kumu o ʻO ka Myth of Sex Addiction, ʻO Hawaiʻi Porn for Dicks a He wahine hewa ʻole: wahine i pili a me nā kāne e aloha iā lākou e pili ana i nā hauʻoli o cuckoldry. ^ E Ha yM. Ua kākau ʻo ia ʻo 30 a i ʻole a i ʻole e hoʻāhewa ʻia nā pou blog kipaku iā NoFap, porn pili, kolohe kāne kolohe, porn-i hoʻokomo ʻia i nā moe kolohe a me nā hopena o ka porn ma nā pilina. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo David Ley i ka manawa maʻamau ʻaʻole pono ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn a inā hoʻomohala kekahi i nā pilikia no ka mea he "pilikia ʻē aʻe" kā lākou. Huli pinepine nā hōʻike kīwī, nā makasina, nā pūnaewele iā Ley ma ke ʻano he “mana” ma luna o ka hoʻomana porn a me nā hopena o ka porn ma muli o ka noiʻi lāʻau lapaʻau - nāna e hāʻawi i ke kiʻi kūpono o ka mokuʻāina o Pūnaewele Hoʻomaka Pūnaewele - ʻaʻole maʻamau ka nānā pono ʻana i ka porn porn. ʻAʻole hoʻi lākou e like me ka makemake a Dr. Ley. No laila ʻo ia ke hana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma ka nūpepa ma muli o ka nele o ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i ka ʻona o ka hoʻohui ʻana a me ka paʻa ʻana o ka wahine, a ʻaʻole nō hoʻi i paʻi i kekahi noiʻi mua.
ʻO David Ley a me kona pili paʻa Nicole Kaukahi hana pinepine i ka hana, me ka like pū me ka "nā loea," ʻoiai he neʻe ponoʻī ʻenekee, nā mea i hoʻopuka nui ʻia e nā poʻe hoʻohana ʻia i nā mea hoʻohana porn (Voon, Kraus, Potenza, Brand, Laier, Hajela, Kuhn, Gallinat, Klucken, Seok , Sohn, Gola, Kor, etc.), e holoi ʻia. ʻAʻohe Ley a me Prause kekahi i pili pū me kekahi kulanui, ʻO kekahi poʻe nūpepa, i hoʻohuli ʻia paha e nā lawelawe media potent a Prause, makemake nui lākou ma mua o nā neuroscientists kiʻekiʻe ma Yale University, Cambridge University, University of Duisburg-Essen, a me ka Max Planck Institute. Hele kiʻi.
No nā makahiki ʻo Ley a me kāna hoapili ʻo Nicole Prause i kipi kipi a ma hope o nā hanana, me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea nūpepa, kaʻana like ʻana i nā manaʻo, ka leka ʻana i nā kino aupuni, a me ka hoʻohuli ʻana i ke kaʻina hana i loiloi ʻia e nā hoa ma nā ʻano kānalua (hāʻawi kēia mau ʻaoʻao i nā palapala he nui o nā ʻano hana i ʻōlelo ʻia: Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Page 4, Page 5.). Hoʻohaumia, hoʻomāinoino a hoʻokau pūnaewele pū kekahi me nā hui a me nā hui i aʻo e pili ana i nā hana ʻino a i ʻole hoʻolaha ʻia e noiʻi ana e hōʻike nei i nā mea ʻino a ka porn. ʻO ka maʻi, pili kēia i ka cyberstalking a me ka hōʻino ʻana i nā kāne ʻōpio i haʻi ākea e pili ana i ka hoʻi hou ʻana mai nā hana kolohe i hoʻokomo ʻia e ka porn. Nā palapala i kēia mau loulou: ʻO Gabe Deem #1, ʻO Gabe Deem #2, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #1, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #2, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #3, Noah Church, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #4, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #5, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #6, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #7, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #8, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes # 10, Alex Rhodes # 11, ʻO Gabe Deem & ʻO Alex Rhodes pū kekahi # 12, Alexander Rhodes # 13, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem # 4, ʻO Alexander Rhodes #15. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia ʻo Prause & Ley debunking porn-hoʻomohala ED me he mea ʻole e mea e ʻoi aʻe ka mea ʻino o lākou pro-porn agenda (Ke hana a ʻāʻulu / Ley kekahi 3 mau makahiki o ke kaua kūʻē i kēia pepa kula a me ka hui makua o ka Journal, MDPI).
ʻO ka mea i kēia manawa, ua hoʻonui ʻo Prause a me Ley i kā lākou hana kūlike a he mau hihia ʻole i ke kākoʻo ʻana i kahi kumuhana hana porn. No ka laʻana, I Ianuali 29, 2019, Hoʻomaopopo kahi kumu polokalamu pili inoa e kiʻi aku i kāu PersonalBRAINONPORN a me kāuBRAINONPORN.COM. I ʻApelila 2019, he hui ulia e Prause a me Ley pili ana ka hōʻailona kūʻokoʻa i ka hōʻailona of ʻO kāuBrainOnPorn.com ma ka hoʻokumuʻana i "RealYourBrainOnPorn.com.
E hoʻolaha i kā lākou pūnaewele pono ʻole, ua hoʻokumu "ka poʻe loea" i kā lākou loea i kahi account Twitter (https://twitter.com/BrainOnPorn), YouTube Kanal, Facebook palapala, a hoʻopuka i kahi nūʻike hoʻōla. ^ E Ha yM. Ma kekahi hana hou e hoʻopiʻi ai i ka lehulehu, hoʻopiʻi ka mea hoʻopuka nūhou mai ka hale home o Gary Wilson - Ashland, Oregon (ʻaʻohe o nā "loea" noho ma Oregon, e waiho iā Ashland). E hoʻokolokolo iā ʻoe iho inā ʻo nā "poʻe loea" hou aku ka makemake o ka ʻoihana porn a i ʻole ka ʻimi kū ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻepekema ma ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana kēia hōʻiliʻili o nā tweets RealYBOP. Kakauia ma Kauka Prause keʻano hoʻokolohua kūikawā, nāʻoluʻolu e hoʻonui i nā pōmaikaʻi o ka porn, e hoʻopilikia i ke kūlana o kaʻimi noiʻi, a ia nā hui a me nā hui i hana mua iā Prause.
Eia kekahi, hana ka "loea" i kahi moʻo Reddit (hoʻohana / sciencearousal) to spam porn recovery forums Hoʻopuka / ponoʻole a pākuʻi / NoFap me hoʻolaha promotional drivel, ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hana porn he mea ʻole ʻino a me ka hōʻino ʻana i kāu YourBrainOnPorn.com a me Gary Wilson. He mea nui ia e hoʻomaopopo iā Prause, he mea hoʻonaʻauao mua, i ka moʻolelo lōʻihi i kākauʻia ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā aliases he nui e hoʻopuka ma nā pūʻulu hoʻolaʻa porn. (YBOP kēia manawa) pili ʻo ia i ka hana kānāwai me Prause a me kāna mau hoa kākoʻo porn).
Nā paio hoʻopiʻi (COI) ʻaʻole ia he mea hou na David Ley. Uku nā loio iā ia i ke kālā maikaʻi i ka "debunk" sex & porn addiction; kūʻai aku ʻo ia i nā puke "debunking" moekolohe & porn; ʻohiʻohi ʻo ia i nā uku ʻōlelo no ka "debunking" moekolohe & hoʻomana porn. Kēia mau manawa āpau hoʻopilikia a hoowahawaha kanaka a me nā hui e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe o ka porn porn.
Akā, ua hala ʻo Ley ma kēia lā. O ia ka pilina ʻana me ka hana ʻoihana porn xHamster, nāna e kūʻai aku i kāna mau lawelawe e hoʻolaha i kā lākou pūnaewele (ie ie StripChat) a me ka hōʻoia ʻana i nā mea hoʻohana e pili ana i ka hoʻohui ʻana i ka porn a me ka hoʻohui wahine. E nānā pehea Ke hele nei ʻo Ley e haʻi i nā mea kūʻai aku ʻo xHamster he aha "ʻepekema noiʻi maoli e pili ana i nā porn, camming a me ka wahine":
E haʻi ʻo Ley i nā mea kūʻai aku ʻo xHamster i kēlā nā haʻawina āpau i paʻi ʻia ma nā kāne (e pili ana iā 70) pili hou aku i nā porn i ka liʻiliʻi o ka moekolohe a me ka pilina ʻoluʻolu? E haʻi aku ʻo Ley i nā mea a pau iā lākou Nā nīnau neurological 52 ma ka mea hoʻohana i nā mea hoʻohana lawaiʻa porn / addict e hōʻike i nā loli o ka lolo e ʻike ʻia i nā lāʻau lapaʻau? E hoʻomaopopo iā ia i kona poʻe e hopu ai he 50% o nā mea hoʻohana porn hōʻike e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā mea i ʻike mua ʻia i ka ʻimi ʻole ʻana a i ʻole hoʻopailua? Eia kekahi kanalua wau.
Ma keʻano kūikawā, ʻo David Ley a me ka mea i hoʻokumu hou ʻia Lōkahi (SHA) loaʻa pili pū me ka pūnaewele xHamster (StripChat). E ʻike "Hoʻopili ʻo Stripchat me kahi Hoʻohui Manaʻo Kelepona e hāpau i kāu puʻuwai porn-centric hopohopo. ” Kūʻai ʻo Stripchat i nā hōʻike a SHA, no laila uku pānaʻi ʻole ʻia ʻo Ley a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no kā lākou lawelawe ʻoluʻolu porn.
Hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope o ke kū mua ʻana o kēia pou, manaʻo ʻo Ley ʻaʻole pono ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana e ka "ʻoihana hui porn", eia naʻe kēia e hoʻokaʻawale nei i nā lauoho: Ke uku nei ʻo Stripchat i ka SHA ma kahi e uku ʻia ai ʻO ka papa o SHA Ley. Pili kēia i ke kauka apologist puhipaka e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole ia i uku pololei ʻia e Phillip Morris, akā ua uku ʻia e ʻO ka Institute Tobacco. ^ E Ha yM. Hoʻāʻo ʻo Nice, David. (Ua ʻōlelo aku ʻo Ley, ʻaʻole ʻo Stripchat ka mea wale no ka mea kūʻai aku o nā ʻōnaehana SHA a ʻo kahi hapa wale o ka loaʻa SHA hele mai ka Stripchat. Pela i ka mea?)
ʻAʻohe mea e kūʻai i ka wili hoʻokahi degere o ka hoʻokaʻawale a Ley, me nā mea nūpepa (ʻO ka sexcam therapy - Ma loko o ka pūnaewele cam e hāʻawi ana i ka psychosexual therapy i nā mea hoʻohana hopohopo):
“He hōʻike kino ʻole ia, koe wale no hoʻokahi puka aniani ʻole. Ma laila, e moe leʻaleʻa ana kahi kāne i kahi pālule hāmeʻa ākea i mua o kahi pale lā. Kaomi aku iā ia a komo ʻoe i kahi kamaʻilio me Dr David Ley, kahi mea hoʻoponopono psychosexual therapist hoʻolimalima ʻia e Stripchat e hāʻawi i nā papa hoʻolauleʻa pūʻulu manuahi no nā mea hoʻohana pūnaewele. "
Ma kā lākou ʻōlelo hoʻolaha hoʻolaha ʻia e hoʻohiki ʻia nei mākou he mau mākaʻikaʻi o ka poʻe loea SHA e hōʻoluʻolu nā mea hoʻohana i ka "hopohopo porn" a "hilahila" (Ley a me kekahi mau loʻi "SHA" he mau makahiki māmā mai ka lilo ʻana i poʻe loea lolo.
ʻO Alliance Alliance Health Alliance (SHA) papa luna hui pū me David Ley a me ʻelua RealYourBrainOnPorn.com "mau loea" (Justin Lehmiller lāuaʻo Chris Donaghue). He pūʻulu hui ʻo RealYBOP o bukoʻi pro-porn, i ho'ākāka pono ʻia "nā loea" i alakaʻi ʻia e Nicole Kaukahi. ^ E Ha yM. Ke hana nei kēia pūʻulu ka pāʻoihana kūʻokoʻa i kaʻaeʻana a me ka hoʻolālā kuhikuhi i ka YBOP kūpono. E hoʻohoho maʻalahi, e uku ʻia ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo e hana iā YBOP e hui pū me ka ʻoihana hana porn e hoʻolauleʻa i kāna mau ʻoihana, a ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo i nā mea hoʻohana i hoʻokumu ʻole i nā pūnaewele porn a me nā pūnaewele cam. (Nānā: Ua pili kahi o Nicole Prause, ka pilina o ka lehulehu i ka hana kino porn palapala ʻia i kēia ʻaoʻao.)
ka Hōʻike ka mana o ka manaʻo StripChat Twitter ke kumu maoli no ka uku ʻana iā SHA "mau loea": e hōʻoluʻolu i kā lākou hopohopo e pale ai i nā pio o nā mea kūʻai aku. E hoʻokō ka SHA i kēia ma o ka "kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā noiʻi hou e pili ana i ka moekolohe, ka camming a me ka addiction," ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ke aloha ʻo cherry i ka hana i hana ʻia e kā lākou "noiʻi". ʻAe Ley / SHA haʻi e pili ana he mau haneli mau haʻawina i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole?
In keia 'atikala, Kāpae ʻo Ley i kāna hoʻolaha kūʻokoʻa ʻana i ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ka ʻoihana porn:
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke launa pū nei nā limahana olakino olakino e pili ana i nā hoʻolālā wikiō e pili ana i kekahi mau iho hakahaka, inā paha no ka poʻe e makemake e hōʻike iā lākou iho e like me ka like ʻole. "Ke manaʻo nui nei wau i ka [kaukākiuki anti-porn] i kā ka hoʻōho ʻana, 'ʻAe, nānā, ʻike, e hana ana ʻo David Ley no ka hana porn,'" wahi a Ley, nona inoa pinepine ʻia me ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻia i nā kaiāulu anti-masturbation e like me NoFap.
Akā, inā ʻo kāna hana me Stripchat e maopopo no i ka mea hānai i nā mea makemake e kākau iā ia e like me ka biased a i loko o ka pona ʻo porn, no ka Ley, pono kēlā kālepa. "Inā makemake mākou e kōkua i [nā mea kūʻai aku i ka makaʻeu porn, pono mākou e hele iā lākou," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "A penei kā mākou e hana ai."
Inia? Ua hoʻomanaʻo mai ʻo Ley iā mākou nā kauka tapaa infamous, a e ka hoʻomanaʻoʻana ʻo ka Hoʻohui Manaʻo iā mākou i ka ʻIla Kūloko.
ʻOiai e uku ʻia ana e hoʻokūkū i nā wahi e kamaʻilio ai ʻo ka hana porn, he mau ʻokoʻa hou aʻe ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa o Ley.
Ukiuki o ka hoihoi #2: ʻO David Ley ʻo uku e hōʻole i ka porn a me ka male ʻana. I ka hopena ana keia Hoʻonaʻauao Hua'ōlelo I kēia mau lā moʻomanaʻo mo'omana'o Pūnaewele Hoʻolaha ʻo Ley i kāna mau lawelawe:
"Kūkākūkā: Ua hāʻawi ʻo David Ley i nā hōʻike ma nā hihia kānāwai e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo kolohe o ka wahine."
I ka 2019 pūnaewele pūnaewele ʻo David Ley i hāʻawi iā ia nā lawelawe "debunking" maikaʻi:
ʻO David J. Ley, Ph.D., kahi psychologist psychologist a me ka luna i hōʻoia ʻia ʻo AASECT o ka hoʻōla wahine, i hoʻokumu ʻia ma Albuquerque, NM. Ua hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka hōʻike mākaukau a me ka hōʻike forensic i kekahi mau hihia a puni ka United States. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo Kauka Ley ma ke ʻano he loea i ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻana i nā koi o ka hoʻāhewa wahine, a ua hōʻoia ʻia ma ke ʻano he hōʻike mākaukau ma kēia kumuhana. Ua hōʻike ʻo ia ma nā ʻaha mokuʻāina a pekelala.
Kāhea iā ia e kiʻi i kāna manawa uku a hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa e kūkākūkā ai i kāu hoihoi.
Ukiuki o ka hoihoi #3: Hoʻolilo ʻo Ley i nā kālā e kūʻai aku ai i nā puke ʻelua e hōʻole i ke aloha wahine a me ke kiʻi porn (“ʻO ka moʻolelo o ka moe kolohe, "2012 a me ka"ʻO Hawaiʻi Porn for Dicks,”2016). ʻO Pornhub (ka mea nona na porn kanaka ʻo MindGeek) ʻo ia kekahi o nā ʻelima hope hoʻi i hoʻopaʻa ʻia no ka puke ʻo 2016 no Ley.
Kuhi: PornHub ka lua o ka moʻolelo Twitter e retweet i ka tweet mua a RealYBOP hoʻolaha i kāna punaewele "ʻoihana" (pro-porn), e kuhikuhi ana i ka hana paʻa i waena o PornHub a me ka ʻO nā loea RealYBOP. ^ E Ha yM. Auwe!
Ukiuki o ka hoihoi #4: ʻO ka mea hope loa, lawe ʻo David Ley i nā kālā ma o ʻO nā kumuhana CEU, kahi i hoʻolaha ʻo ia i ka ʻatikala o nā addiction-deniers i hōʻike ʻia i loko o kāna mau puke ʻelua (ʻo ia hoʻi ka nānā mau ʻole (?) mālama i nā haʻawina he nui a me ka ʻike o ka mea hou. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana i ka moʻo e hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia ma ka palapala noiʻi a me ka mālama ola honua). Hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻo Ley no kāna mau ʻōlelo he nui e hōʻike ana i kona nānā ʻana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn. I kēia hōʻike 2019 hōʻike ʻia ʻo Ley e kākoʻo a hoʻolaha i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻōpio: Ke hoʻomohala ʻana i ka moekolohe maikaʻi a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka Pōmaʻikaʻa Pololei.
Kēlē kēia o ka ʻūka o ka iceberg. E hōʻae i kēia mau ʻaoʻao no nā hanana hou aʻe e pili ana iā David Ley:
- ʻO Nicole Prause's Unethical Harassment a me ka hōʻino a Gary Wilson & me kekahi
- ʻO Nicole Prause's Unethical Harassment a me ka hōʻino ʻia o Gary Wilson & Other (ʻaoʻao 2)
- ʻO Nicole Prause's Unethical Harassment a me ka hōʻino ʻia o Gary Wilson & Other (ʻAoʻao 3)
- ʻO ka hōʻike hoʻonaninani wahine a Nicole Prause a me ka hoʻohana kino ʻana i nā kaʻina hana.
- ʻO Nicole Prause & David Ley i ʻōlelo kūʻē aku ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻo Gary Wilson mai ke Kulanui o Oregon Hema
- E hana i nā hana e loaʻa i ka pepa Pelekane Pehavioral Sciences (Park et al., 2016) hoʻokuʻu houʻia
- ʻIkeʻia e ka nūpepa haumāna o ke Kulanui o Wisconsin (The Racquet) nā hōʻike pūkaʻina polia na Nicole Prause (Malaki, 2019)
- Ka hana hewa hana hewa i hoʻokauʻia e Porn Porn Addiction Deniers (www.realyourbrainonporn.com)
Hoʻohou i ka # 1: hoʻolaha ʻo StripChat i kahi hālāwai ʻē aʻe iā David Ley: Hoʻolaha ʻo Stripchat i ka ʻĀpana Hoʻomaʻomaʻo Online ma ka haʻi ʻia i "#NoNutNovember"
Kahakaha: ʻO ka mea i luna e kuhikuhi pono nei iā Nofap.com a me kāna mea hoʻokumu ʻo Alex Rhodes. ʻIke - ʻO Nicole Prause, ʻo David Ley & ko RealYBOP moʻolelo lōʻihi o ka hoʻonāukiuki & hōʻino ʻana iā Alexander Rhodes o NoFap.
Hoʻohui # 2 (Nowemapa, 2019): Ma ka hope loa, aia kekahi mau pāpāho pololei i ka hoʻopiʻi hoʻopunipuni wahaheʻe, mea hōʻino, hoʻoweliweli, mea lawehala kālepa, ʻo Nicole Prause: "ʻO Alex Rhodes o ka Pūnaewele Hoʻohui Kūpono Hana 'NoFap' Hāpai i nā Pro-Porn Sexologist no ka hōʻino" na Megan Fox o PJ Media a "Loaʻa nā kiʻi porn i loko o ka No Nut November", e Diana Davison o Ka Moolelo Maikaʻi. ^ E Ha yM. Ua hoʻopuka hoʻi ʻo Davison i kēia wikiō ma 6 mau minuke e pili ana i nā hana ʻano o Prause. "Hoʻohālikelike kekahi ko porn?".
Hoʻohou # 3: He ʻaoʻao "StripChat" ponoʻī ʻo Ley i kēia manawa: https://stripchat.com/blog/tag/sexual/
Ua lawa ka'ōlelo.
PĀKAI LOAʻI NA KULA
ʻO Stripchat i kēia manawa ke hāʻawi nei i kahi lāʻau lapaʻau manuahi
Ua lohe ʻoe iā Snapchat. Akā ua lohe anei ʻoe i ka Stripchat?
ʻO ka pūnaewele, ʻo ia hoʻi kahi hui ʻāwīwī ma o ka lens o kahi pahupaʻiwele pūnaewele, ua hana i kahi noiʻi kūloko i waena o kāna mau mea hoʻohana. He kanahākūmālua pakeneka o nā mea hoʻohana e hōʻike ana i ka "kekahi" hopohopo e pili ana i ka manawa a lākou i hoʻohana ai ma ka pūnaewele. He ʻumikūmākahi pākēneka o nā mea hoʻohana e ʻōlelo nei ua ʻike lākou i ka hopohopo "pinepine a mau".
Eia kekahi, hōʻike ka 29 pakeneka o nā mea hoʻohana i ka hopohopo e hopohopo nei lākou i kā lākou streaming ma ka hoʻopunipuni, aʻo 31 ka pakeneka o nā mea hoʻohana i hōʻike aku ʻo Stripchat i pilikia i ko lākou pilina.
Lawe ʻo Stripchat i kēia mau helu: "ʻO nā hopohopo a me ke kaumaha pili ʻana he pilikia koʻikoʻi," hoʻomaopopo lākou. "ʻO Camming ka mea e lilo ai i kumu e leʻaleʻa ai a me ka maluhia hoʻi i ka kaumaha o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā - ʻaʻole kekahi mea i hoʻohui ʻia. ʻO ia ke kumu e hana nei ʻo Stripchat i mea hoʻohiki e alakaʻi alakaʻi i ka noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo a me ka pono no kāna mau mea hoʻohana. "
No laila, Stripchat ua hoʻolaha aku i kona hui me ka Sexual Health Alliance "e lawe mai i nā psychologists 'epekema, nā mea noiʻi sex a me nā mea lapaʻau e pili ana i kāna pūnaewele cam camts e pane i nā nīnau e pili ana i ka maleʻana i ka moekolohe a me ka hana kolohe pūnaewele" a ʻAukake 1. E kūkākūkā pū nō hoʻi "nā hana i hiki ke kaulike ʻia kēia ma kou ola."
Penei kekahi mau nīnau e pili ana i kēia:
- "He hoʻopunipuni kā camming?"
- "Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻule i ke aloha me kahi kāmelo?"
- "He mea hoʻoili ke kiʻi porn?"
Hāʻawi ʻia iā Dr. David Ley, ka mea nāna i alakaʻi i ka hālāwai ʻo ʻAukake 1, [2019], ua kākau i kahi puke e ulana ʻia ʻO ka moʻolelo o ka moe kolohe, ʻike ʻia paha he pane nui ka pane i ka nīnau hope loa.
ka ʻoi aku ka ʻoihana o ka porn ma mua o ka NFL, NBA, a me MLB i hui pū. Hana pū kekahi ma mua o NBC, CBS, a me ABC i hui pū ai. Uaʻike ia ʻo ka hana o ke kumukūʻai porn i kahi ʻupena ma waena o $ 6 a me $ 97 biliona i kēlā me kēia makahiki. No laila ʻo Stripchat e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i kāna mau mea hoʻohana paha i ka porn e hoʻohui ai a hōʻeha paha i kā lākou pilina akā ʻaʻole ia e kapa ʻia e kekahi i kekahi ʻoihana ʻano maikaʻi.
Ua haʻi ʻo Max Bennett, ka Hope Pelekikena o ka Nupepa News ma Stripchat, he "manawa kūpono ʻo ʻAkake 1" i manawa e hiki ai iā lākou ke hele i kekahi mau ʻūlau a me nā ʻūlolo e puni ana i ka porn, a e kamaʻilio me ka loea e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana o ka ʻepekema. "
Akā he aha ka mea a ka ʻepekema i ʻōlelo maoli ai?
No nā mea hoʻomaka, ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ponokala mea e hōʻemi ai i ka mea hina i ka lolo. ka hōʻike a Max Planck Institute. ^ E Ha yM. E hana ana i nā kāne e oi aku ka pilikia mai erectile hana. I ikea pu ia e kumu i ka pilikia olakino i nā kāne a me nā wahine, ʻo ia ka hopohopo, ke kaumaha, a me nā pilikia kiʻi kino kino.
ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha i hōʻike ʻia e kekahi mea ʻekolu o nā mea hoʻohana o Stripchat i hōʻeha ʻo Stripchat i nā pilikia ma kā lākou pilina. ʻO ka poʻe e hoʻohana porn aloha i ko lākou hoa a ua maopopo loa i ka wahine. Ua hōʻike ʻia nō hoʻi ia wikiō hoʻonui i ka moekolohe ma ka 300 pakeneka.
No laila inā ʻike ka poʻe loea Stripchat aia ʻaʻole addictive ka porn a ʻaʻole hoʻopunipuni ka camming, he nui nā nīnau hou e pono ai nā mea e kapa ʻia e nā mea hoʻonaninani. Ua hōʻike ʻo Max Bennet e "ʻaʻole e leʻaleʻa ka honua waho" i nā mea e hoʻohana nei i nā kiʻi. Akene paha he kumu no kēia kaona.
Wahi a "ʻepekema," inā makemake maoli ʻo Stripchat i alakaʻi no ka noʻonoʻo a me ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo no kāna mau mea hoʻohana, e aʻo ʻia iā lākou e haʻalele loa i ka holoʻana.
ʻO kekahi ʻatikala hou aʻe:ʻO ka sexcam therapy - Ma loko o ka pūnaewele cam e hāʻawi ana i ka psychosexual therapy i nā mea hoʻohana hopohopo"
Nā huaʻōlelo: Aniani Jones
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ʻO ka pale home o ka pūnaewele sexcam a Stripchat ka nui o ka poni, neʻe i ka ʻiʻo. Hōʻike kēlā me kēia square i ka helehelena a me ke kino o kahi mea hana semi-olohelohe, ʻūlū a pahu i kā lākou honua wikiō liʻiliʻi.
School_ Aʻo, he lauoho lauoho"mea hoʻowalewale "me kahi Pulp Fiction-era Uma Thurman bob a me kahi cleavage heaving, ke hohonu nei i ka maiʻa. ʻIke ʻia ʻo MilkyFetishMegan he mau puʻupaʻa nui ʻole ʻole, poʻo ʻole, poʻo nipples e like me nā maka maka e kau pono ana i waho o ka pale. ʻO GingerSnaps, kahi kāne polyamorous (nā mea lanakila o ka KAʻIOHE makana no"Maikaʻi Kamaha, 2019"), ʻOluʻolu kekahi i kekahi a ʻekolu mau wahine ʻokoʻa. Kaomi aku wau i ka wikiō a me kā Queen's ʻO kekahi e aloha pāʻani ma ke kua. Ke hoʻolaha ola nei nā mea hana a pau mai kā lākou lumi moe, i kēlā me kēia kihi o ka honua.
He hōʻike kino ʻole ia, koe wale no hoʻokahi puka aniani ʻole. Ma laila, e moe leʻaleʻa ana kahi kāne i kahi pālule hāmeʻa ākea i mua o kahi pale lā. Kaomi aku iā ia a komo ʻoe i kahi kamaʻilio pū me Dr David Ley, kahi mea hoʻōla psychosexual i hoʻolimalima ʻia e Stripchat e hāʻawi i nā papa hoʻomaʻamaʻa pūʻulu manuahi no nā mea hoʻohana pūnaewele.
Aia ʻo ia ma aneʻi no ka mea hopohopo nā mea kūʻai aku ʻo Stripchat. Ua hoʻokō ʻia ka pūnaewele i kahi ana o 6,000 mea hoʻohana, ka hapa nui o nā kāne nā kāne 18 - 24. ^ E Ha yM. Ua loaʻa nō 11% kaumaha"nui ”e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana o lākou pūnaewele. Ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua haʻohū ka pūnaewele i ka ikaika o nā ʻōlelo noi a nā mea hoʻohana, i hoʻokumu ʻia mai:"ʻAʻole maikaʻi paha ka masturbation? ”, I:"Ke hoʻopunipuni nei wau i kaʻu hoa? " A hopohopo:"Ua ʻino wau no nā pilina maoli? " I kēia manawa, haʻalulu 40% i Ua hāʻule lākou i ke aloha me nā mea hana.
Me kahi pae o ka lunamanaʻo kaiāulu ʻike ʻole ʻia ma ka honua porn ua hoʻoholo lākou e hoʻoponopono i kēia mau pilikia ma ke poʻo. Ma hea ʻo Dr Ley e hele mai nei: i ka hoʻoponopono a me ka mea kākau o ʻO ka Myth Of Sex Punishment.
"Aia he ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka noʻonoʻo ʻole ʻana i kāu hoʻohana ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi me ka ʻole o ka kaohi a me ka ʻole o ka kaohi. ”
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ley, ʻo Stripchat, ma kaʻaoʻao o ka Sexual Health Alliance, ua hoʻokokoke aku iā ia no ka mea makemake lākou i kahi psychologist i kākoʻo ʻia"hilahila ʻole, hoʻokokoke olakino ”i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia i hiki ke ala aʻe me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka sexcam maʻamau. ʻO ka nīnau, hiki i kahi kau pōkole o ke aʻo ʻana ma ka pūnaewele ke kōkua maoli i kahi mea e manaʻo nei ua lilo lākou i porn a me nā kaikamahine cam?
I loko o hoʻokahi papa hakahaka o ka puka ʻana ua loaʻa ʻo ia i nā mea hoʻohana he haneli, a me nā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, i kou manawa i hui pū ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i nā nīnau iā Dr Ley. He mea hoʻohenehene kekahi kekahi (e like paha nā mea hoʻohana e like me Ley e like"he kauka wai maʻi wai)) akā naʻe ke pili nui ka hapanui. "Ke hoʻolimalima nei paha i nā hola ʻehā i ka lā ke nānā aku nei i nā pūnaewele ʻoi loa? ” nīnau i hoʻokahi mea hoʻohana. ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻo Dr Ley:"Inā ʻoe i hoʻolōʻihi i ʻelima mau hola i ka lā e nānā ana TV, e hopohopo paha ʻoe inā ua hoʻohui ʻia ʻoe TV? ”I nīnau ia.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke hāʻawi nei i kahi hoʻohālikelike kolohe iki, hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻo Dr Ley i kēlā"aia he ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka manaʻo ʻole ʻana i kāu hoʻohana ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi i waho o ka kaohi a me ka ʻole o ka kaohi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe i kaohi ʻia ma ka coaster, akā ʻo nā manawa āpau e kaohi pono ʻoe. "
Mai nā pane e like me kēia, he paʻakikī a ʻike paha ka"therapy ”aia ma laila e hāʻawi i ke kōkua koʻikoʻi a i ʻole e mālama i ka poʻe ma ka pūnaewele ma ke kau ʻana i kahi plaster waha ma luna o kekahi mau makaʻu maoli. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, e luhe ana i ka leo o kahi haneli haneli o ka leʻaleʻa ke kerr-ching liʻuliʻu o nā hana. Hoʻopili ʻia ke komo i nā mea hana ma o ka interface e hoʻopiʻi iā ʻoe e ka launa. ʻOi aku ka nui o ke kani o ke kālā ma aneʻi ma mua o nā pā kūʻai pipiʻi. Kūʻai nā mea hoʻohana i nā hōʻailona ma nā pūʻolo - ie 90 mau hōʻailona no $9.99, 2255 mau hōʻailona no $199.99 - a leo nui kēlā me kēia lilo"ping "onscreen e ʻae iā lākou e launa pū me kā lākou mea hana i koho ʻia. ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau, wahi a ka pūnaewele, no hoʻokahi punter e lilo $10,000 i ka malama ma sexcams. Mai kēlā kuanaʻike, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo nui i kā lākou kumu kūʻai ʻoihana e hoʻolimalima i kahi mea lapaʻau nāna e haʻi i nā mea hoʻohana e haʻalele.
ʻO ia, he mea kānalua ia, ʻo ia nō ka mea e pono ai kekahi. Ma kahi mamao loa mai kahi pilikia niche, ka mea hoʻoponopono ʻo Paula Hall o ka moekolohe a me nā kākā'ōlelo hoʻowalewale porn Ka Hale Kaʻakai Wahi a nā addicts sexcam i ka nui o nā mea kūʻai aku i hele mai iā ia e kōkua. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua lilo nā mea hoʻohana i ka moemoeā ʻoi aku ka pilina pilikino o kēia ma mua o nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi manuahi.
"Hoʻomaka ka poʻe i ʻoi aku ke manawa a me ke kālā ma mua o ka mea i manaʻo ai, "wahi a Hall. "Ke alualu nei lākou i ka like o ka pā o ka dopamine. Hoʻomaka lākou e ʻike ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolilo manawa me nā mea aloha, a i ʻole e haʻalele mua i ka lāʻau e hoʻonui i ka manawa ma kēia mau pūnaewele. Hiki paha iā lākou ke hoʻohana i ka hana. Hoʻopau pinepine ia me lākou e hoʻohana nei i ka kamepiula hana. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i kā lākou ʻoihana a ua ʻike wau i ka lilo ʻana o ka male ma luna o lākou. ” I kēia makahiki, 38ʻO Andrew Barnbrook iā Andrew Barnbrook lawenaʻa ʻo kāna mea lawelawe i ka ʻauhau ʻo £250k? i kauoha e hāʻawi kālā i kāna hoʻohui i ka camming me hoʻokahi wahine kikoʻī.
Maopopo ia hiki i nā laina ma waena o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka moemoeā ke lilo i blur. Hāʻawi kēlā me kēia hōʻike ʻo Stripchat i ka mea nānā i kahi ʻike ʻona i ka honua o kahi mea hana. no kēlā puka aniani o ka manawa, aia ʻoe i loko o kā lākou lumi, me he mea lā - e haʻi malū ʻoe - ua hoʻi ʻoe i ko lākou wahi ma hope o kahi lā. He pilikino pilimaka ia, akā he mana ko kēlā me kēia kikoʻī e huki hou iā ʻoe: ʻo ke kīʻaha hakahaka ma hope me ka huaʻōlelo hoʻouluulu ma luna ona, ka uluna ʻino a me ka duvet i hoʻonohonoho ʻia, ka inoa ʻo ka peʻa ma luna o kahi ʻūhā ʻākau. ʻO KirstieVegas, kahi ʻulaʻula lipped brunette camming mai Palani he pillowcase Kapena ʻAmelika. ʻO ia no kona aloha iā Kāpena ʻAmelika a no ka mea ʻo nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Marvel he makau maikaʻi ia e kamaʻilio ai nā kāne?
A makemake lākou i ke kamaʻilio. Nā nīnau a ka mea hoʻohana i nā mea hoʻokani me ka wikiwiki o ka mīkini-mīkini, mai nā noi pili kelepono maoli ʻia -"E ʻoluʻolu e haʻi iaʻu e masturbate "- e kamaʻilio kūkākūkā e pili ana i nā mōʻaukala a me nā mea hoihoi -"No hea mai ʻoe? ”,"Ke pāʻani nei ʻoe ʻO COD? "- i ko koi ʻaina -"ʻO ʻoe maoli ʻōpiopio paha? ”A"Hiki iā ʻoe ke squirt? ” (ʻo kēia hiʻohiʻona hiʻohiʻona i kēlā me kēia lumi kamaʻilio aʻu e komo ai).
"Ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka [sexcam] ma mua o ka pili aloha - ʻaʻohe hōʻole, ʻaʻohe pāʻani - e kamaʻilio ʻoe me kahi kaikamahine moekolohe a laila loaʻa ka moekolohe iā ʻoe. "
ʻO kā nā mea hoʻokalakupua o Stripchat ua hoʻomaka nei e hana i nā hana e pale ai i kā lākou mea huki e lilo i ka nānā. "Hōʻike wau i nā mea hoʻohana ʻaʻole wau hoihoi i ka pili aloha a hoʻokumu wau i nā palena, "wahi a Melrose Strip, 26, he kaikamahine kāmela o 3 mau makahiki. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻolaha i 1000 mea hoʻohana, ʻehā mau manawa i kēlā me kēia pule a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ke hele mau nei i kahi kaula paʻa ma waena o ka mālama ʻana i nā kāne a me ka pale ʻana i ka nānā maikaʻi ʻole.
Lāpule *, 27, ke hoʻohana nei i nā pūnaewele cam no ʻelua mau makahiki. ʻIke wau iā ia ma kahi wili sexcam confession o ke kolamu"NoFapp "- kahi pūnaewele hoʻohana anti-porn i ke aʻo ʻana o nā kāne i kēlā me kēia pehea e pani ai i ka masturbating i nā kiʻi paʻakikī. Ma ka NoFapp kekahi mau wahine a mau kaikamahine hoʻi i manaʻoʻa e mālama iā lākou i nā hoa mai ka palu ʻana mai i ka hoʻouka ʻana i ka wahine a ke ʻimi nei paha i ka manaʻo ʻana i kāna hāʻule. Ua hopohopo ʻo Darnell i kāna mau hoa hana a i ʻole ka ʻohana e ʻike pehea e hoʻonui ai ʻo ia i ke ahiahi.
'Lelo mai ʻo ia i kāna hana sexcam mai loko mai o Pornhub. "ʻO ia kaʻu lāʻau lapaʻau puka, ”i ʻōlelo ai ma o ka leka uila. Ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e pulakaumaka ma luna o kahi kaikamahine kāmela Lūkia āna i ʻike ai ma ka pūnaewele porn manuahi. Akā, i ka ulu ʻana o ka mea like 6 - 7 Loaʻa nā wikiō iā ia, ua hoʻomaka ʻo Darnell e ʻimi i nā mea hou aʻe a hina i kāna ʻikepili ma kahi pūnaewele sexcam i uku ʻia. ʻO kēia, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, ʻo kona manawa kūpono ia e kamaʻilio pū me ia no ka mea maoli.
"Ua manaʻo wau ua ʻoi aku koʻu maikaʻi ma mua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe e kamaʻilio ana iā ia, ”i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.Nyawang"E ʻōlelo wau i nā mea like:"Nani ka maikaʻi o kāu mau dimples ke ʻakaʻaka ʻoe. ” A i ʻole e nīnau wau iā ia e pili ana i kahi mele R'n'B i lohe wau iā ia e pāʻani ana ma kahi wikiō i hala. Ua pane maikaʻi ʻo ia. Ua manaʻo wau ua lanakila wau i ke kaikamahine wela i ke kula. ”
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Darnell, ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia kink ma mua o ka nānā ʻana i nā mea nānā porn i haku ʻia no kēlā me kēia kanaka. Ua lilo hou ʻo ia i ka nānā. E makemake ʻo ia iā Shazam i nā lehelehele a pau e hoʻokomo ai kāna kaikamahine kamaliʻi i kāna hōʻike wahine i hiki ke kamaʻilio pū me ia e pili ana iā lākou e pili koke ana i nā bila $40 - 50 he pule ma kāna hōʻikeʻike.
ʻO"Ua ʻoi aku ia ma mua o ke kahe ʻana, ”i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻAʻohe hōʻole, ʻaʻohe pāʻani. E kamaʻilio ʻoe i kahi kaikamahine moekolohe a laila loaʻa iā ʻoe ka wahine. E nānā ʻoe iā ia masturbate, ʻike pehea e haʻalele ai. Akā laila e huhū wau i ka wā i ʻōlelo ai nā mea hoʻohana ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kona kino, he pūkaʻa maikaʻi kāna. Ua huhū wau ua makemake lākou iā ia. ”
Ua puka aku ʻo Darnell i nā kaikamāhine cam ʻē aʻe a ua makemake ʻo ia e hoʻolōʻihi i kona hoʻohana. "Ke hoʻopau nei wau ma $400 hoʻokahi mahina a inu i ke kope ʻeleʻele e hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me lākou, e hauʻoli ai lākou a pau. Aloha au iā ia akā inaina iaʻu iho i ka manawa like. ”
Manaʻo wau e pili ana iā Darnell i koʻu nānā ʻana iā Dr Ley ma kāna puka aniani ʻo Stripchat. ʻLelo ʻo ia ʻaʻohe mea hōʻike i ka porn addictive, pono ʻoe e ejaculate 21 mau manawa i ka mahina no ka maikaʻi o kāu prostate a ʻo ia - inā ʻoe e hopohopo ke hoʻolōʻihi nei ʻoe me ka moekolohe pūnaewele - pono ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu mau hana āu e noʻonoʻo ai."olakino ”e hoʻomaʻalike ai a ʻimi paha, ma mua o ka hōʻemi ʻana i kāu ʻai porn. ʻAʻole ʻo mākou e pili i ka porn e pili pū ana i kahi porn, akā no ka hilahila o nā hui e kū nei iā mākou no ka nānā ʻana iā ia.
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