Heʻike kūpono i nā mea heluhelu i ka poʻe kelepona: keʻano o nā kāne, nā hopena hoʻoponopono, a me nā hopena no nā mea hoʻoponopono (2000)

ʻO Schneider, ʻo Jennifer P.

Hoʻopilikia i ka moekolohe a me ke koi ʻana: ka puke pai no ka lapaʻau ʻana a me ka pale ʻana 7, no. 4 (2000): 249-278.

Hōʻuluʻulu Manaʻo

I ka hoʻopaʻaʻana hoa i ka mea i paʻi mua ʻia e pili ana i ka hopena o ka addiction cybersex i ka ʻohana, ua hana hou kahi noiʻi hou a ʻōlelo ʻia e ka 45 kāne a me ka wahine 10, ʻo 18-64 (ʻo ia hoʻi ʻo 38.7) ka mea i hōʻike iā lākou iho he mau mea ma ka helu cybersex ua loaʻa i nā hopena maikaʻi loa mai kā lākou hana ʻana ma ka pūnaewele. Ma kahi kokoke i nā pane a pau (92% o nā kāne a me 90% o nā wahine) ʻike maopopo iā lākou he mea hoʻohālikelike i ka wā a i ʻole ma mua.

ʻOi aku ka nui o nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine i hōʻike i ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi e like me ka hana i makemake ʻia. E like me nā hana ma mua e pili ana i nā ʻokoʻa o ka wahine ma ka moekolohe, makemake nui nā wahine i ka makemake ʻana i ka wahine i loko o ke ʻano o kahi pilina a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi o nā pilina leka uila a i ʻole ke komo ʻana i nā kiʻi. Eia nō naʻe, i kēia manawa liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, nui kekahi mau wāhine i ʻike maka like ʻia e nā mea kiʻi kiʻi kino. Ua loaʻa i nā wahine ʻelua me ka mōʻaukala mua ʻole o ka makemake i ke aloha sadomasochistic i kēia ʻano hana ʻano ma ka pūnaewele a hele maila e makemake iā ia. ʻOiai kahi like like o ka kāne (27%) a me nā wahine (30%) i hana i ka wahine maoli wahine me kekahi kanaka, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne (80% vs 33.3%) i ʻōlelo ʻia kā lākou hana pilikino pūnaewele i hana i kā lākou maoli -hālāwai hui.

Ua wehewehe kekahi o nā mea pane i ka holo wikiwiki o ka pilikia moekolohe i ka wā ma mua, ʻaʻole naʻe i hōʻike kekahi i ka moekolohe i ka moekolohe. ʻO nā hopena maikaʻi loa e pili ana i ke kaumaha a me nā pilikia olakino, ka haʻalele ʻana i ka nohona, ke hoʻomāhuahua ʻana i kā lākou pilina ma ka kāne a me ka hoa kāne, hana ʻino i ka male a i ʻole ka pilina mua, ʻike ʻia ʻana o nā keiki i ka pūnaewele a i ʻole ka masturbation, hoʻolimalima i nā hana a hōʻemi paha i ka hana hana, nā hopena kālā. , a i kekahi mau hewa, nā hopena kānāwai.

ʻOiai he mea kōkua nui kekahi poʻe lapaʻau i ʻike ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, i like ʻole ka like ʻole o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ke ʻano a me ka nui o nā hana moe i ka pūnaewele a hōʻike ʻia (1) ka mea i hōʻino ʻia i ke ʻano o ka hana cybersex a ʻaʻole i ʻae ia no ka hoʻohui ikaika i kēlā, (2) ʻaʻole i hoʻolilo i kahi mea nui o ka hoʻōki ʻole a me ka hōʻino ponoʻī, a (ʻaʻole 3) i manaʻo i ka hopena o ka hoʻopili ʻana i ka cybersex i ka kāne a me ka hoa hana.