Nā mana'o: ʻO ka pepa kikoʻī, me nā maʻi lapaʻau ʻehā, i kākau ʻia e ka ʻepekema i ʻike ʻia i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole ma ka pūnaewele porn i loaʻa i kekahi o kāna mau maʻi maʻi. Hoʻopili ʻia kekahi wahi o ka intro a me ka loea maʻi #1 ma lalo nei. Ke hōʻike nei ka hihia i kahi kanaka 31 makahiki i piʻi nui i loko o ke kiʻi porn nui a hoʻomohala i ka makemake e pili ana i ka moekolohe. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā pepa loiloi mua e hōʻike ai i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ke kiʻi porn e alakaʻi ana i ka hoʻomanawanui, escalation, a me nā hana moekolohe.
Kalman, Thomas P
Weill-Cornell Medical College, New York City, NY, USA. [pale ʻia ka leka uila]
Hōʻuluʻulu Manaʻo
ʻO ka moekolohe, inā maopopo ke pili i ka hana o nā hana moekolohe, nā ʻōpio, a me nā ʻike, ʻoiai paha e like me nā ʻano kanaka maoli. Ua hoʻopili ʻia ka mōʻaukala i nā ʻano hana like ʻepekema, ka nānā ʻana i ka nānā ʻana i ka makahiki Pūnaewele i ka nui o ka pūnaewele. Aia i loko o nā limahana kūkākūkā koʻikoʻi i loaʻa i ka ʻimi noiʻi nui i ka hopena o ke nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi kikowaena ākea; akā, ʻo nā hopena kūʻokoʻa o ka male o nā kiʻi hānai hoʻohālikelike a me nā cyberspace e hoʻomaka wale nei e nānā ʻia. ^ E Ha yM. Ma kahi o ka loiloi ʻana i kekahi mau moʻolelo mōʻaukala a me nā helu e pili ana i ka porno a me nā moʻolelo psychiatric a me ka psychoanalytic ponoʻehā, ʻehā mau kikoʻe maʻi lapaʻau e hōʻike ʻia nei e hōʻike i nā ʻano o nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn porn e hōʻike ʻia nei e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā psychotherapists.
Heʻuʻuku o ka hoʻomaka
I nā makahiki 1980 a me ka makahiki 1990, ua mālama ʻia ka nui o nā noiʻi ʻana ma nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni lehulehu (nonInternet). ʻOiai kekahi mau kūlike ʻole i waena o nā kālaiʻike e pili ana i kā lākou pono a me nā hana, hāʻawi kēia mau noiʻi i nā hopena nui e pili ana i nā hopena o ka hōʻike ʻana i nā ponokala. ʻO ka lunamakaʻāinana o kēia ʻimi naʻau nā haʻawina kaulana e nā kānaka noiʻi ʻo Dolf Zillman lāua ʻo Jennings Bryant, nā mea i hoʻokolokolo ʻia e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā mea ponokala e hoʻohana ana i nā hoʻokolohua hoʻokolohua (Zillman & Bryant, 1982; Zillman & Bryant, 1988). I kā lākou hana, ua loaʻa iā lākou nā hui ma waena o nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi a me: (1) hoʻonui i ka callousness i nā wahine; (2) hoʻowahāwahā i ka pue wahine; (3) ʻike kuʻikuʻi e pili ana i ka moekolohe; (4) hoʻonui i ka makemake no ka ʻoi aku ka hewa a me nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni (hoʻonui a me nā mea hōʻalo); (5) hoʻohaʻahaʻa o ke koʻikoʻi o ka wahine nui; a, (6) hoʻemi i ka leʻaleʻa me ka hana moekolohe a ka hoa, ke aloha, a me ke ʻano o ke kino.
ʻO ka nānā loiloi holoʻokoʻa holoʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka hopena o nā ponokala maʻamau a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻia e pili ana iā Manning (2006) ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomaha ʻia maanei, akā penei kāna loiloi:
I ka hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo, hōʻike ka noiʻi e pili ana ka ʻai ʻana o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni [lehulehu] me nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka hana a kēlā me kēia. Nā noiʻi, me nā kālailai meta [Allen, DʻAllesio, & Brezgel, 1995; ʻO Oddone-Paolucci, Genius, & Violeto, 2000], hōʻike i ka ʻai ʻana o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e pili ana me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka makaʻu no ka (a) moekolohe moekolohe, (b) hana moekolohe, (c) ke loaʻa nei ka paʻakikī i nā pilina pili o kekahi, (d) ka ʻae ʻana i nā kaʻao lape, a (e) ka lawena a me ka huhū moekolohe. (ʻaoʻao 137)
Aia kekahi plethora o nā puke ʻepekema e pili ana i nā ʻaoʻao like ʻole o ka ponokala kiʻi ma nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole, e like me ka psychology, psychiatry, sociology, kamaʻilio, ʻike wahine, a me ka moekolohe kanaka. Eia nō naʻe, me ka nui o ke kuhi manaʻo, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia kahi ʻae a maopopo i loko o kēia haʻawina e pili ana i ka hui ʻana o ka ʻike ponokala a me ka cybertechnology a me ka hopena o kēlā me kēia olakino noʻonoʻo, ka pilina kanaka, a me ke olakino pilikino a me ka ʻoluʻolu. ʻIke loa, ʻo ka hoʻolako ʻana o ka ʻike moekolohe i ka moekolohe e pili ana i nā pono he nui no kēlā me kēia kanaka a me ke kaiāulu, e like me ka loaʻa o ka ʻike no ka hoʻolauna ʻana i ke olakino moekolohe (ie, ma ke kaohi ʻana, nā maʻi i lawe ʻia i ka moekolohe, ka hana maʻamau a me ka anatomy), kōkua pilikino a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo. , a me ka noiʻi ʻepekema. No nā mea he nui, hiki i ka Pūnaewele ke hoʻonui i ka olakino o ka ʻike moekolohe o kekahi, ka hiki, a me ke ola moemoeā. Ke hoʻonui nei, eia nō naʻe, ke hālāwai nei nā psychotherapist me nā hōʻike anecdotal o nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi ponokala pūnaewele. Hoʻohui ʻia, ua paʻi ʻia nā noiʻi he nui a me nā hōʻike ponoʻī o nā pilikia pilikia, ke hāʻawi nei i ke kākoʻo i nā hopohopo e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi ponokala pūnaewele ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa maʻemaʻe maikaʻi (Cooper, Putnam, Planchon & Boies, 1999; Meerkerk, Van de Eijnden, & Garretsen, 2006; Mitchell, Becker-Blease, & Finkelhor, 2005; Mitchell, Finkelhor, & Becker-Blease, 2007). ʻAʻole maopopo inā pili ka hopena o ka nānā ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi maʻamau i nā hopena o ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi ponokala pūnaewele, a i ʻole nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ka Pūnaewele i hana i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe e pili ana i nā ponokala kiʻi e pili pū ana. pili pū ka ʻike i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi.
E ʻikea ana ia i ka wā i lilo ai ka pilikia o ka Pūnaewele i kahi pilikia no kekahi kanaka, ʻoiai inā i ka manaʻo o kahi kanaka lapaʻau, hoʻohana a ponokala a hoʻohana paha i kekahi hana e pili ana i ka moeʻuhane. ʻO ka noiʻi hou ʻana e Meerkerk et al. (2006) hoʻoholo ʻo ka pāʻani a me ka erotica (e ka mea kākau kēia i manaʻo like like me nā kiʻi) (p. 98). ʻO kekahi loiloi hou e pili ana i nā hana olakino noʻonoʻo e Mitchell et al., (2005) i hoʻokumu i ka ʻumikūmākahi mau pūʻulu o nā mea e pili ana i ka pilikia e pili ana i ka pūnaewele, e komo pū ana i ka lehulehu overuse, pornographic, infidelity, sexual exploitation, gaming, a me nā pāʻani. I loko o kā lākou helu noiʻi o nā maʻi maʻi 929 makua, ka nui o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porno a i ʻole kekahi ʻano hana pilikino Hoʻohālikelike pūnaewele i ʻoi aku ma kahi o nā pilikia hoʻohana. Kākoʻo kā lākou ʻike i ka pili ma waena o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pūnaewele me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā hana no ka Pelekikena Pūnaewele (e kūkākūkā ma hope). ʻO ka mea hou loa, kahi ʻatikala ma The New York Times i kikoʻī i ka hōʻea ʻana o nā wahi hoʻoneʻe pūnaewele ʻimi manu ma South Korea i hoʻolālā ʻia e kōkua i nā poʻe pilikino e hoʻokele i kā lākou hoʻohana pūnaewele waho (Fackler, 2007).
ʻOiaiʻo ia, ʻo ka puke nūhou e pili ana i ka ʻike pūnaewele ma ka Pūnaewele ʻo ia ka liʻiliʻi o nā wehewehe pilikino i nā ʻike kumumanaʻo o ka poʻe e hoʻohana ai (nānā, heluhelu) i nā kiʻi maʻamau i kahi maʻamau, maʻamau, a i ʻole kekahi addictive. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i ke kūpaʻa ʻana i ka hoʻopiʻi maʻamau o nā noiʻi no ka ʻimi ʻana o ka ʻōnaehana noiʻi 'ma kahi wahi i hōʻike ʻia, ua hōʻike ʻia kahi pūʻulu e noiʻi ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi ma ka pūnaewele i ka hale hana.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā ʻike like ʻole o nā mea hoʻohana ma ka Pūnaewele Pūnaewele [ponokala], a me nā hiʻohiʻona ʻē aʻe o kēlā me kēia hihia kū hoʻokahi (e like me kahi e hele ai, no ke aha lākou e hele ai, a me ka manawa a lākou e lilo ai i ka wā e hele ai). mea nui kikoʻī. (Emphasis mine; Cooper, Safir & Rosenmann, 2006, p. 27).
Nā kumuhana Hana
Hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau hanana lapaʻau e pili ana i nā kāne heterosexual i ʻike ʻia i ka psychotherapy outpatient kūʻokoʻa. Hōʻike ka hihia i kēlā me ke kūlana o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pona pili pūnaewele i ka nui o ka pilikia i ke ola o kekahi kanaka. ʻO kēia mau anecdotes he ʻelele o nā mea i hōʻike ʻia i ka laha a me nā ʻano o nā pilikia e kamaʻilio ʻia e nā lāʻau lapaʻau. ʻOiai ka noʻonoʻo pono ʻana o ka noʻonoʻo pono ʻana i nā kikoʻī i hiki ke hōʻike ʻia, hāʻawi kēia mau hihia i nā ʻano o ka maʻi lapaʻau e pili ana i ka pono o nā ʻano lāʻau lapaʻau koʻikoʻi i ka puke. E wehewehe pono ana nā wehewehe i kekahi o nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi me ka pūnaewele Pūnaewele a hōʻike i kekahi mau pilikia e pili ana i ka huli ʻana o kēia kumuhana. (Kākau a ka mea kākau: ua loaʻa ka hopena i nā vignette e nā ʻoniʻoni ʻē aʻe i ʻike ʻia e ka mea i ʻike ʻia i loko o ka mea nāna i hoʻopuka. pākuhi ʻia kēlā me kēia kanaka, ka ʻike e pili ana i nā moʻolelo pilikino a me nā ʻohana ma ke mālama ʻana i nā ʻano like ʻole psychodynamic. Ua hana hou ʻia kekahi mau mea mōʻaukala.
hihia 1
ʻO 31 kāne mau makahiki ʻelemakule ma ka psychological psychotherapy no ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā pilikia hopohopo i hōʻike ʻia e pilikia ana ʻo ia e lilo i ka moe kolohe e kona hoa i kēia manawa. Ma hope o ka kūkā kamaʻilio nui e pili ana i ka wahine, a ko lākou pilina, hiki i nā hakakā pili ʻole a i ʻole ke hoʻololi ʻia i ka manaʻo o ka naʻau (me ka ʻole o ka hōʻea ʻana i ka wehewehe kūpono no kāna hoʻopiʻi), hāʻawi ʻo ia i nā kikoʻī nāna i hilinaʻi i kekahi moemoeā kūikawā e lilo i kahi ala. Kekahi mea nani, ua wehewehe ʻo ia i kahi "hiʻohiʻona" o kahi ʻōpū e pili ana i kekahi mau kāne a me nā wahine i loaʻa iā ia ma kahi pūnaewele i ʻike ʻia ʻo ia e loaʻa ana i kāna hana a lilo i mea punahele. Ma ke ʻano o nā hālāwai he nui, ua hoʻomohala ʻo ia i kona hoʻohana ʻana i ka Pūnaewele Pōhaku Pūnaewele, kahi hana i hana ai ʻo ia i ka manawa ma waena o 20s. ʻO nā kikoʻī i pili i ka hoʻohana ʻana a me nā hopena i ka manawa o ka manawa, he mau wehewehe wehewehe o ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka hilinaʻi i ka nānā ʻana a laila e hoʻomanaʻo hou ai i nā kiʻi a me nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o kahi "ʻae" i ka hopena o kekahi mau mea ma hope o ka manawa, manawa i ukali ʻia e ka ʻimi ʻana i nā mea hou kahi e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻokō i ka pae mua o ka makemake.
I ka loiloi ʻana i kona hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi o ka porn, ua ʻike loa ʻia ka pilikia o ka hopohopo me kāna hoa o kēia manawa me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ponokala, akā ʻo kāna "ahonui" i nā hopena hōʻeuʻeu o nā mea kūikawā i pili a i ʻole i pili pū ʻo ia me kahi hoa i ka manawa a i ʻole he hoʻohana wale ʻia i nā kiʻi no ka masturbation. ʻO kona hopohopo e pili ana i ka hana moekolohe i mea hilinaʻi i kona paulele ʻana i ka nānā ʻana i nā ponokona. Me ka ʻike ʻole i ke kīhaka lilo ʻana i pilikia, ua wehewehe ʻo ia i kāna ʻano makemake i ka hoaaloha i ka manaʻo he kūpono ʻole ʻo ia, ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka hopena ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku ʻelua mau makahiki a ʻoi aku paha ma mua o ʻehiku mau makahiki. no kekahi e like me ia e hoʻololi ai i nā pūnaewele.
Uaʻikeʻo ia i kēia manawa e hiki ke ho'ālaʻiaʻo ia i nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi āna i makemakeʻole ai i ka hoʻohanaʻana. Eia kekahi laʻana, uaʻikeʻo ia he mau makahikiʻelima i hala aʻe nei,ʻaʻole iki kona hoihoi i ka nānāʻana i nā kiʻi o ka pilina maʻamau akā uaʻikeʻiaʻo ia i kēia mau mea hoʻonani. ʻO ka mea āna i'ōlelo aiʻo "edgier",ʻo ia hoʻi kekahi mea i kapaʻia i kēia manawa e pili ana i kaʻaeʻana iā ia, akā naʻe,ʻaʻohe mea hoihoi o ia mau mea a ua pale aku. Me kekahi o kēia mau poʻe hou, uaʻikeʻo ia i kona hopohopo a me kaʻoluʻoluʻole e like me konaʻano e ho'ālaʻia ai.
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