Nā Manaʻo: Ke ʻike nei nā kāne ma Iapana i ka ulu nui ʻana i ka moekolohe me nā hoa ola maoli. ʻO nā ʻatikala i hala iho nei ʻaʻole i hinted i ke kumu maoli, akā ʻoi aku ka hana a kēia mea ma mua o ka hint.
Nā ROGER PULVERS, Lāpule,ʻApelila 29, 2012
Kūikawā i ka Hui Pelekaneʻo Japan
"Inā hoʻomau ka piʻi ʻana o ka hōʻole o ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka moekolohe i kēia manawa, ʻo ke kūlana o ka haʻahaʻa momona o Iapana a me ka ʻelemakule wikiwiki e ulu nui. … E lilo ka hoʻokele waiwai Kepanī i kona ikaika ma mua o kēia manawa. Inā kū kēia, e pau paha kēia lāhui i ka make. "
ʻO Kunio Kitamura kēia wānana pīhoihoi i loko o kahi puke i paʻi ʻia i ka makahiki i hala e Media Factory. ʻO Kauka Kitamura, kahi ʻōpū a me ka wahine nāna e holo i kāna keʻena hoʻolālā ʻohana ponoʻī ma Tokyo, ʻo ia ka mea kākau o nā puke he ʻumi a ʻoi paha e pili ana i ka hana hou a me ke olakino. I kēia manawa, me "Sekkusugirai na Wakamonotachi" ("Young People Averse to Sex"), ua hōʻike ʻo ia e huli ana ka poʻe ʻōpio Kepani i ka moekolohe a he hopena koʻikoʻi kēia no ka lāhui.
E iho pono i lalo i nā helu helu.
I kēlā me kēia makahikiʻelua, ua mālamaʻia kekahi noiʻi, ma lalo o nā mana o ka 'Oihana Ola, Labor and Welfare, ma luna o ka pilina kāne a me ka wahine ma Iapana. Eia kekahi mau hopena e pili ana i ka hoihoi i ka wahine e pili ana i nā pane mai kekahi poʻe 1,500 i nānāʻia i kēlā me kēia makahiki i hōʻikeʻia.
Nā makahiki 16-19 o nā kāne i ka makahiki 2008 nāna "ʻaʻole hoihoi i ka moekolohe a hōʻole paha iā ia": 17.5 pakeneka (hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 36.1 pakeneka ma 2010). Nā makahiki 20-24 o nā kāne ma 2008 i "nele i ka hoihoi a me ka hōʻole i ka moekolohe": 11.8 pakeneka (hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 21.5 pakeneka ma 2010).
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, no nā makahiki o nā kāne a pau koe nā 30-34 mau makahiki, ua piʻi nui ke ala i nā makahikiʻelua mai ka 2008.
Uaʻikeʻia keʻano maʻamau i nā wāhine.
I ka makahiki 2008, 46.9 pākēneka o nā wahine 16-19 mau makahiki i ʻōlelo he "ʻaʻohe hoihoi" a i ʻole "aversion to sex contact" (hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 58.5 pakeneka ma 2010). Ma waena o nā wahine 20-24 mau makahiki i ka makahiki 2008, 25 pākēneka i ʻōlelo he "ʻaʻohe hoihoi" a i ʻole "he aversion to sex contact" (hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 35 pākēneka i ka makahiki 2010).
Uaʻikeʻia ka piʻiʻana o MarkNN i ka 2008 a me ka 2010 ma nā hui āpau a hiki i ka 49, ua nīnauʻia nā wahine wahine kahiko loa.
I nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe,ʻo ka meaʻoi aku iʻekolu o ka poʻe'ōpio i makemakeʻole i ka moekolohe.
E hele anaʻo Kitamura e nānā pono i ke kumu o kēia. Aia pū kāna puke i nā pūʻulu ma nā nīnau ninaninau me nā poʻe'ōpio i hele mai i kāna kauka.
Ua ʻōlelo kekahi kanaka ʻōpio aia iā ia kahi kalaiwa ʻana akā ʻo ka moekolohe ʻana me kekahi mea "ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pīhoihoi." Wahi a kekahi poʻe makemake lākou i nā kaikamahine e like me nā mea anime a i ʻole nā pēpē virtual ma mua o ka mea maoli - i kapa ʻia he wahine wahine ʻelua dimensional. "Ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolei iā ʻoe," i ʻōlelo ai kahi mea nīnauele.
I kēia manawa,'ōlelo maiʻo Kitamura e hele mai kekahi mau'ōpio i kona halepaʻa i ka hoʻopiʻiʻana i ka hanaʻeleʻele. ʻO kekahi poʻe e wehewehe ana i ka nānāʻana i ka nui o ka moekolohe ma nā pūnaewele Pūnaewele ua waiho iā lākou me kahiʻawaʻawa maikaʻi i loko o ko lākou waha no ka pilina kāne kanaka. He nui ka poʻe eʻae aku i ka pākiki pinepineʻana, no laila e hoʻomāʻona i nā mea e pono ai i ka wahine.
ʻ tellslelo ʻo Kitamura i nā kāne ʻōpio ʻaʻole maikaʻi ke olakino; a, eia kekahi, "ʻaʻole loa e alakaʻi ka masturbation iā ia iho i ka hōʻole i ka moekolohe ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe."
Akā,'ōleloʻo ia i ka Mōnaewele, me ke kākauʻana, me ka nui o kāna mauʻikeʻole a me nā ponokala kiʻi, a me ka nui o ke kamaʻilioʻana ma ka pūnaewele ma mua o ka pilina kanaka maoli, "He hopena maikaʻi ʻole ka hopena o ka nohona Pūnaewele i kēia lā i nā ʻōpio i kēia pili."
Kuhikuhi ʻo ia i nā mea i ka kaiāulu Kepani e hoʻonui nei i kēia ʻano. Eia kekahi mau kumu no ka loaʻa ʻole o ka moekolohe a nā kāne kāne kāne a Kitamura i hāʻawi ai.
"ʻAʻole wau e moekolohe no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke male i ka hopena" - ma muli o ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi hana maikaʻi.
"Kūpono ke kālā i ka moekolohe" - ke kūʻai ʻana i nā mea pale, ke loaʻa nei kou lumi ponoʻī a kaʻa paha, a pēlā aku.
"He wahine kuʻu luna a ua hoʻokau ʻole kēia iaʻu."
"Nui aʻe nā mea leʻaleʻa e hana."
"Ua luhi wau ma hope o ka hana a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kāhea i kahi makemake no ka moekolohe."
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka "sexless" i hoʻokumu ʻia ma 1994 e ka Japan Society of Sexual Science, kahi ʻoihana ʻoihana e pili ana i nā ʻano āpau o ka hana hou ʻana o ke kanaka, e ʻōlelo nei he ʻano kēia e loaʻa ana inā "ʻaʻohe pili kolohe a kekahi" no hoʻokahi mahina a ʻoi paha. ” ʻO ka pilina pilikino iā ia iho me nā mea like ʻole, e like me "ka honi ʻana, ka moekolohe ʻana, ka hānai ʻana a me ka hiamoe pū ʻana."
Ua hōʻike nā haʻawina i ka pilina ma waena o nā hola lōʻihi a me ka moe kolohe i nā poʻe hana 49 aʻoi aʻe paha o nā hora o ka pule e hōʻike ana i ka hāʻuleʻana ma ka moekolohe.
No ka hoʻowahāwahā moekolohe ma waena o nā wahine, eia kekahi o nā kumu i hāʻawi ʻia e nā mea maʻi wahine a Kitamura i ʻōlelo ai ma "Young People Averse to Sex."
"Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau i ke aloha maoli," i ʻōlelo ai kahi wahine ʻōpio, "a ʻo ia ke kumu i hana ʻole ai wau i ka moekolohe." ʻLelo kekahi iā ia ke ʻeha ʻo ia i ka wā e moe kolohe ana a pēlā e hōʻalo ai. "Palapala a kipi nā kāne, no laila, maopopo wau iā lākou," i ʻōlelo ai kekahi. Ua kuhikuhi ʻo ia i kekahi o ko lākou ʻano haumia a kipi hoʻi, e like me "kahi lauoho i heleleʻi a noho ma luna o kona poʻohiwi, a me ka mucus maka i ke kihi o kona mau maka, a me nā koholele e ulu ʻole a like ke ʻano me ke ʻano o ke kukui. polū ... a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kū i ka wā e holoi mau ana lākou i ka hou, a laila hele lākou a waiho i ka hainaka haumia i loko o kā lākou ʻeke. ”
ʻOi paha, he mea hoʻohālikeʻelua paha ka hoa kūpono loa no kēia kaikamahine.
Akā ʻo nā wahine ʻōpio ʻē aʻe, e like me nā kāne ʻōpio, koi i kā lākou leʻaleʻa makemake iā lākou ma mua o nā moe kolohe - ʻoiai e ʻōlelo ana kekahi ʻaʻole lawa ko lākou hilinaʻi i kā lākou iho hiʻohiʻona e hele a hui i nā lālā o ka wahine ʻē aʻe.
Ua ʻae ʻo Kitamura ʻo ka neʻe ʻana mai ka hana moekolohe he mea kū ʻole ʻia i ka poʻe ʻōpio ma Iapana. "ʻO nā papa ākea o ke kaiāulu Kepanī i nā makahiki āpau e ʻike paha i kahi mea like," kākau ʻo ia.
Hele ʻo ia i loko o ka kikoʻī kikoʻī e pili ana i kāna ʻike moekolohe ponoʻī a me ka hiki ʻana mai o nā makahiki, a hāʻawi i nā manaʻo e pili ana pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka moekolohe ʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hoʻopili kēia i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻike moekolohe ʻoi aku ka ʻike i ka pono o ka poʻe ʻōpio o kēia lā, a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka mākau kamaʻilio o ka poʻe ʻōpio. "Ma hope o nā mea āpau," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "ʻo ka moekolohe ka mea kamaʻilio ma waena o nā poʻe."
Eia nō naʻe, me kēia kikoʻī a me kēia ʻikepili, hele mai wau mai ka heluhelu ʻana i kā Kitamura puke me ka manaʻo maopopo ʻole no ke aha i kūpilikiʻi nui ai kahi maʻi kūpilikiʻi i ka ʻōpio o Iapana.
Hoʻopili ʻia nā ʻōpio o ka honua āpau i nā pale, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o nā helu helu o nā lāhui no ka hoʻowahāwahā kolohe ʻaʻole kahi kokoke loa e like me ko Iāpana. Hoʻohui ʻia, hana nui ka poʻe Kepani i ka wā ma mua e like me ka paʻakikī, inā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ma mua o kā lākou hana i kēia manawa; a he kakaikahi o lākou i loaʻa nā kaʻa a i ʻole nā keʻena ponoʻī o lākou iho. Akā ua mālama lākou i mau ʻohana nui ʻoiai, inā pololei ka mea a Kitamura e ʻōlelo nei, e leʻaleʻa nei i ka moekolohe pinepine.
Ma waho o ke kūlana o ke kanaka a kīnā ʻole paha e hōʻemi ai i kā lākou moekolohe ʻana, ʻo ka pilikia, i koʻu manaʻo, ʻo ia kekahi mea hoʻoikaika.
Aia ke kumu maoli i ka nele i ke ola e kau i ke kaiāulu Kepanī i kēia lā. ʻO nā ʻano hana e hōʻike ana i ka hanauna o nā pēpē pēpē nāna i hoʻopuka i ka kūleʻa o Iapana ma hope o ke kaua - e ala aʻe a hele aku, he ʻuhane hakakā, kahi manaʻo o ka manaʻolana i ka wā e hiki mai ana no kā lākou poʻe keiki - aia nō i loko o kēia manawa.
Manaʻo wau ʻo ka hōʻole i ka moekolohe ma waena o ka poʻe ʻōpio Kepani i kēia mau lā, a me ka helu hānau haʻahaʻa kahi hopena o ia, hiki ke hoʻohuli ʻia inā hiki i nā poʻe Kepanī o nā makahiki āpau ke hoʻoulu hou i ka manaolana no lākou iho a me kā lākou keiki, hānau a hānau ʻole ʻia.
Lawe paha iʻelua wale no ka laweʻana, akā, laweʻia ka lāhui holoʻokoʻa eʻike i kona ala e hiki ai i ka hānau hou.
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