ʻAʻohe mea hoʻopuka: nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi paʻi kiʻi i nā keiki (1999)

ʻO Harv Rev. Rev Psychiatry. 1999 Nov-Dec;7(4):236-40.

Benedek EP, CF CF.

Hōʻuluʻulu Manaʻo

Kūpono paha nā ʻōpio āpau mai ka hōʻike ʻana i nā kiʻi pono kīwī kīwī, e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia ma luna. Ma nā pilikia no ka hōʻeha, eia nō naʻe nā keiki nāwaliwali loa i kā mākou kaiāulu – nā keiki i nā home makua hoʻokahi, nā keiki me nā haunaele a me ka naʻau, nā keiki i noʻonoʻo ʻole ʻia, nā keiki i hoʻomāinoino ʻia i ke kino a / a i ʻole ka moekolohe, a me nā keiki i hana maikaʻi ʻole ʻia. ʻohana. ʻO nā ʻōpio nona ke kīwī ma ke ʻano he kahu hānai a i ʻole makua hānai paha e hōʻike i nā mana hoʻokūkū i ka nānā ʻana i ke kīwī. Eia hou, ʻike ʻole nā ​​mākua i ia mau home i ka mea a kā lākou keiki e nānā nei a hiki ke hoʻoili i kā lākou waiwai ponoʻī e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe. ʻO nā hopena nui e hiki ai i nā kiʻi pono kīwī kīwī e pono e hopohopo iā mākou ma ke ʻano he kauka, mea aʻo, a me nā mākua e hoʻohālikelike a hoʻohālikelike i ka ʻōlelo i lohe ʻia a me nā hana i ʻike ʻia ma nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi ʻia. hoʻopilikia maikaʻi ʻole me ka ulu ʻana o ka wahine maʻamau i nā keiki; nā hopena e like me nā moeʻuhane a me nā ʻano hopohopo, hewa, huikau, a me / a hilahila paha; hoʻonāukiuki i ka moekolohe ma mua; ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ke ʻano kūpono ʻole, hoʻopunipuni, a me / a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano ʻino e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me nā pilina kāne a wahine makua paha. a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i nā waiwai ʻohana me ka hopena o ka hakakā ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka noiʻi e pono ai e pili ana i kēia kumuhana. Ma muli o nā pilikia pili pono a me nā kaʻina hana e pili ana i ka noiʻi ʻana e pili ana i nā keiki i hōʻike ʻia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, ʻaʻole hiki ke hana ʻia nā hoʻolālā noiʻi kūpono. Eia nō naʻe, lana ko mākou manaʻo e hoʻonāukiuki kēia ʻatikala i kahi kūkā hou a me ka hana. E hoʻolālā i nā kulekele lehulehu e pale ai i nā keiki mai nā mea hiki ke hōʻino ʻia i ka manawa like e pili ana i nā kuleana o ka Hoʻololi Mua o ka pāpāho, pono ia ʻano kūkākūkā lehulehu a me nā noiʻi kūpono.

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