ʻO nā manaʻoo'Ikekalakala (2018), Stephen A. Wilson, MD, MPH

Stephen A. Wilson, MD, MPH

Fam Med. 2018;50(3):238-240.

DOI: 10.22454 / FamMed.2018.365688

ʻOkoʻa nā kāne a me nā kāne. I ka hakakā ʻana no ka pono like a me ka hana ʻana, ua hilahila pinepine ʻia nā mea like a me ke like ʻole, a hiki ke alakaʻi i nā kūkākūkā a me ka ʻae ʻana o ka kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana.

ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka ʻike ʻana i nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi - e like me ka ʻōlelo a ka luna kānāwai kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻAha Hoʻokolokolo Kiʻi ʻO Potter Stewart i ka makahiki 1964, "… Ua ʻike au i ka wā e ʻike ai iā ia" 1,2 - akā hiki ke paʻakikī ke wehewehe. Mai nā huaʻōlelo Helene porne (hookamakama) a graphein (kākau) ʻike mua ʻia ka kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekane ma 1842.3,4 ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke aesthetic ma ke ʻano a hiki ke manaʻo ʻia e like me ka paʻi ʻana, ka leo, a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana i nā mea i ʻike ʻia a i ʻole ka hōʻike ʻana i nā kino pilikino a i ʻole ka hana e hoʻoulu ai i ka hauʻoli a i ke ʻano ikaika , ka moekolohe.

ʻO ka mea o loko o ka moku. Ke makemake mākou e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke kīʻaha, hoʻomaʻemaʻe mākou i loko. Inā makemake mākou e ʻike i nā ʻike o ke kīʻaha e nānā ana mākou i loko a nānā paha i ka mea e ninini ʻia i loko.

He aha ka mea i komo i ka noʻonoʻo i ka noʻonoʻo, nā ʻano, a me nā ʻano. No ke aha e uku ʻia ai nā ʻoihana kālā ma $ 5 miliona no kahi pāʻoihana 30 kekona lua ma ka 2018 Super Bowl? 5 ʻO ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻoihana ʻo 12 e hoʻoponopono ʻia me ka hewa e pili ana i ka olakino a me nā ʻano. ʻO ka ʻōpio ʻo 17-6 mau makahiki ka nui e ʻānai i nā ʻikepili i ke kiʻi ma mua o ka male ʻana o ka male ʻana ma mua o ka male ʻana .7

Ma 2013, 30% o nā hoʻoili pūnaewele a pau no ka porn, a ua loaʻa nā pūnaewele porn i nā malihini ʻē aʻe ma mua o Netflix, Amazon, a me Twitter ua hui pū ʻia.8 Ma 2015, ʻo PornHub, kahi pūnaewele porno, ua loaʻa ka 21.2 biliona kipa a hoʻoili i ka 75GB o nā data i kekona. , lawa e hoʻopiha ai ma kahi o 175 miliona 16GB iPhones.9 ʻO ia ka nui o nā waihona i ninini ʻia i loko o nā kīʻaha nui. Ma kahi o 70% -80% o nā mea ʻike kiʻi pūnaewele wahine he male.8,9 ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine e nānā ʻē i nā kiʻi like ʻole. ʻOi aku ka makemake o nā kāne like ʻole ma luna o nā kiʻi heterosexual mahele i waena o nā wahine (21.3% wahine a 1.8% o nā kāne) a ke nānā nei i nā mea ʻaʻole lākou (a i ʻole hana paha?) I ka hana maoli he mea maʻamau i waena o nā kāne (14% o nā wahine mai 70% o nā kāne) .10

Hoʻolauna, hoʻonāukiuki, a hōʻoia paha ia i nā kumumanaʻo e like me: wahine he mea moepono; mākaukau nā poʻe a pau a makemake i ka wahine; mahalo ʻia nā wahine no nā mea a lākou e hana ai a makemake paha paha e hana iā lākou i ka moekolohe; na wahine i ke kane; a he mau tropehe na wahine. ʻO ka hapanui o nā kiʻi porno e hōʻike ana i nā kāne e hōʻike ana i kā lākou mana kino a ma kahi o nā moeʻuhane ʻole ke aloha a i ʻole kāohi ʻia e like me ka hoʻomaikaʻi a makemake ʻia ʻole me ka manaʻo ʻole mai kā lākou hoa wahine.

I Ianuali 2018, ʻo Dr Lawrence G. Nassar i hoʻopaʻi ʻia ma 40-175 mau makahiki i loko o ka hale paʻahao no ka hoʻowahāwahā i nā kaikamahine ʻōpio ʻo 6 mau makahiki he mau makahiki āpau ma lalo o ka mākaʻi e hāʻawi ana i nā hoʻokolohua olakino a me nā maʻi lapaʻau.11 ʻOiai ua hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia i ka hala hewa ʻana i nā kaikamahine ʻehiku. uaʻoi aku ka nui o 160 i ka haʻi ʻana i kā lākou moʻolelo o ka horor.11 Ua hoʻohui kēia hoʻouna ʻana i nā makahiki 60 i loaʻa iā ia i ka makahiki 2017 no nā kiʻi porno keiki .11

No nā makahiki i hala aku nei, ua loaʻa ka hōʻahewa o nā kuhi hewa i hewa ʻia e nā kāne me nā wahine. ʻO ka hala ʻole ka hele ʻana i ke ʻano, mai nā ʻōlelo i ka pili ʻana i ka makemake ʻole e kolohe, he mea hou. ʻO nā kūkākūkā a me ka moʻolelo pilikino e kūkākūkā nei me nā mea maʻi i aʻo mai iā mākou. Pehea i kū ai kahi mea lōʻihi a kaulana hoʻi i kēia nūhou? ʻO nā hanana i hoʻopilikia i ka poʻe waiwai a ikaika hoʻi. ʻO ka mea i hoʻopiʻi mua ʻia he kanaka kaulana a me ka mea hana kiʻi Hollywood e kākoʻo ana i nā kumu "pololei" a me nā poʻe, a ʻōlelo i nā mea "pololei". ʻOiai ke ʻano nui a me ka hewa o ke ʻano o kāna hana hoʻowahāwahā, a me ka mea i waena o kāna mau poʻe pōpilikia, he nui a waiwai, manaʻo, keʻokeʻo nā wahine keʻokeʻo e pono ai a me ka ikaika e hāpai i kahi pane kūwaho maikaʻi loa a me ka backlash.12,13

ʻO nā helu moekolohe a me ka nānā ʻana o ka nānā ʻana i ke kiʻi ʻana me ka hala ʻole o ka moekolohe, hōʻino, a me ka hoʻouka ʻana, he mea hoʻomanaʻo ia: e like nō nā kāne a me nā wahine, akā like ʻole mākou ʻaʻole like. Akā, ʻelua mau mea ʻokoʻa, hiki ke ʻae ʻia, mālama, a ʻāpono ʻia. Loaʻa nā poʻe me ka ʻoi aku o kahi keiki i kēia lā: i kēlā me kēia mea ka nui o ka ikaika, nāwaliwali, nā pono, nā makana, nā ala e lawe ai i ke kaumaha a me ka hauʻoli; akā aloha ʻia a mahalo like ʻia.

ʻO nā mea maoli o kēia wā, ephemeral, sullied world e loaʻa nā hopena i ka lāʻau lapaʻau no ke olakino o kā mākou wahi hana a me nā mea maʻi. No ke olakino o kā mākou wahi, inā like ka maʻamau ka maʻamau, a kūpono hoʻi nā manawa kūpono e loaʻa ai, pehea pehea e loaʻa ai a loaʻa iā ia ke ʻano nui. ʻOhi pinepine nā poʻe i ka hahai ʻana i ke ala o ka pōmaikaʻi e like me ke ʻano e hahai ana i nā wāwae like a me ka hana. Hele hou aku kekahi; ʻo kekahi mau wāwae nui; ʻo kekahi i nā pā kaua nui; i hoʻomaka kekahi i kekahi ma lalo a ma lalo o ke ala.

Ua lawa i nā pilikia nā ala. ʻaʻole pono e hui hou ka kāne a me nā kāne. ʻOluʻolu, ʻoluʻolu, a hoʻolohe. Makemake nui 'oe e makemake ana i kou makuahine a me kāu kaikamahine i mālama' ia '? E ʻōlelo anei ʻoe a e hana paha i kēlā mau mea me kāu mau mākua a i ʻole he lolo paha? Inā hele mai kekahi hoa wahine i ka hopohopo a i ʻole he maikaʻi paha, e hoʻolohe me ke keʻakeʻa ʻole, ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana, a me ka hōʻino paha.

No ke olakino o kā mākou mau mea maʻi, me nā nīnau e pili ana i nā ponokala ma ka moʻaukala a i ʻole ka moekolohe pili i hiki ke hāʻawi i ka ʻikepili e hoʻohana ai i ka ʻikepili biopsychosocial. Pēlā e nīnau pinepine ai e nā kauka e pili ana i nā kiʻi kikowaena, ʻo ia hoʻi ma kahi o ka mālama ʻōpio, nā maʻi ʻoluʻolu, a me ka erectile dysfunction.

He ʻano mea pili i ka hopena o ke olakino? He ʻoi loa aku ka maʻi ma mua o ka taba, ka inu ʻawa, nā lāʻau lapaʻau, a me nā pahi ahi, nā mea a pau e loaʻa ai nā lula pili iā lākou i mea e hoʻolaha ai a mālama i ka olakino ākea a me ka palekana. ʻO ke ʻano hoʻohālike e koi ai i nā pūnaewele ponokala e ".xxx" e maʻalahi i nā mākua a i ʻole kekahi mea makemake e kūkulu i ka cyberbarriers. ʻO kekahi e hoʻonui e hoʻonui i nā kumuwaiwai no ka noiʻi ʻana i nā hopena o nā kiʻi i ka porn i ka ʻuhane a me ke ʻano a no ka (re) hoʻonaʻauao o ka poʻe nona ka kumu kumu e pili ana i ka wahine a me ka moekolohe.

Hoʻokomo paha ka ponokala i ke ʻano o ka poʻe ʻōpio e pili ana i ka moe kolohe, a pehea hoʻi e noʻonoʻo ai nā kāne a me ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i nā wahine.14 ʻO ka hapanui o ka poʻe e inu i ka wai me kaʻole o ka ʻawaʻawa. ʻAʻole loaʻa ka hapanui o ka poʻe i ka ulaula i ka maʻi kanesa, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o nā poʻe e loaʻa ana i ka maʻi paleka o ka māmā ua ulaula. Eia naʻe, i ka ʻoihana ʻana e mālama ai i ko mākou kaikaina, hana mākou i ka mea e pale aku ai a mālama i ka hopena o ka suboptimal, a me ka hoʻoholo ʻana iho i ka manaʻo o ka hana pono i loko o kēia mau wahi ʻē aʻe o ke ʻano e pili ana i ke olakino. Ma muli paha ʻaʻole kiʻi ke kiʻi i ka pūʻali o nā mea kolohe kolohe, ʻaʻole ia i hoʻopilikia i ka noʻonoʻo, ka mea e hoʻomalu ai i nā manaʻo, e kūleʻa ana i nā ʻae a nā hana. Pēlā no ka nui, ka helu o ka ninini ʻana, a i ʻole ka helu ʻana o ka hoʻopiha, nā kīʻaha o nā kīʻaha e hoʻonui i kā lākou mau manaʻo ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā mākou ke hana hou i lilo i kahu a ko mākou kaikunāne.

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