Nā hopena o ke kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi ma ka pili a nā kāne male male (2019)

ʻO G Anne Vanderlaan * lāua ʻo Ellie Cinamon Jullian

ʻO Kālana ʻo Saybrook, USA

Hōʻike ʻ Journallelo Moʻolelo Kūʻai Addiction a me Psychology, Volume 2; doi: 10.33552 / oajap.2019.02.000530

Hōʻuluʻulu Manaʻo

ʻO ka pahuhopu o kēia noiʻi e nānā i nā hopena o ke kiʻi o ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi i ke kikowaena o kēlā me kēia hopena a me ka hopena hopena i ka pilina kāne makua. He mea nui ia e hoʻomaopopo i loko o ka puke i noiʻi ʻia, he liʻiliʻi nā mea i loaʻa i ke kumuhana o ka mana o ka pili ʻana i nā mea kolohe kiʻi kino i ka pilina pilikino me nā kāne, a i ʻole nā ​​hopena i nā pilina. ʻO ke kumuhana o nā kiʻi kiʻi a me ke kolohe i ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi i nā mea kapu.

Aia kekahi pilikia kūpono e pili pono ana ka nānā ʻana i ka porn a me ka mea i hoʻohui ʻia i ke ʻano he hanana hoʻomana ʻole [1] me ka ʻole o ka pilikia, he ala wale nō ke ola. ʻO kēlā pilikia ka inoa, hoʻohui i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole ke koi kolohe i ka manaʻo i ke ʻano he ʻano hana ʻole ia. ʻO kēia ʻano hana hoʻohui i ka nānā ʻana i ka porn a ʻo ka masturbating i ka ʻōlelo slang o Faping. ʻO Faping kahi ʻōlelo no nā kāne wale nō. ʻO ka hua i hoʻohana ʻia no nā wahine e hana like ʻole ʻo Schlick. ʻO kēia ʻano hana o ka moeʻuhane, he hana pilikino, ʻaʻole maʻa mau nā kānaka ʻē aʻe a me nā hoahana. Ke nānā nei ke nānā aku i ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi i ka hapa nui o kēia ʻano hana. Hiki i nā puʻuwai ke maʻalahi i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi mea pili i nā ponokala. Ua ʻike kekahi poʻe aʻo loea ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn e pili ana i ka pili palaualelo me ka hauʻoli ʻoluʻolu i kahi pilina [2].

I loko o nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua lilo ka Pūnaewele i ka ʻoluʻolu o nā kiʻi ʻikepili male, a me ka maʻalahi o ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a me ka nānā ʻana i nā hana hoʻomau i ka hapa nui o ko mākou kaiāulu. Hōʻike ʻo Mulac, Jansma a me Linz [3] i ke kāne a me nā wahine e hoʻohana ana i nā kiʻi kiʻi wahine e ʻike pinepine i ka haʻalele ʻana ma mua o nā kāne a me nā wahine i hoʻoulu ʻia e nā mea ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻohana i ka ponokala no ka hōʻala pilikino. ʻO nā hopena koʻikoʻi o ka hoʻohana huki ʻana a i ka wā e pili ana i nā pilina i hoʻopili ʻia me ka pilina i ka hoʻohiwahiwa, hoʻonāukiuki ma ka nele o ka paʻa i ka pilina. [3] I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kanaka i nā kiʻi i nā ponokala, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e māʻona me kāna mau hoa hana pilikino i ke ʻano a me ke ʻano o ka hele ʻana. ʻO nā kāne e hoʻokomo nei i nā kiʻi porn kiʻi i hana i ka hoʻonāukiuki āna i hōʻike ai i ka kiʻi i ke kiʻi, a ʻaʻole hoʻi i hopohopo e pili ana i kāna mau hoa hana i makemake a i ʻole ka pilina. Aia paha he kumu e manaʻoʻiʻo ai ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ponokala e hōʻemi i ka pilina ma mua [4]. Hōʻike ka hōʻike noiʻi i nā hopena o nā kiʻi i ke kiʻi ma luna i ka pili i nā pilina e hoʻemi ana i nā pae o ka moekolohe [5].

Introduction

ʻAʻole hou ka porn; he wahi ia i kēlā me kēia civila a puni ka honua. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa nui loa i loko o kēia kiʻi i kēia lā ʻo ia ke ʻike no ka nānā ʻana i nā wahi āpau. Ma ka palekana o ka home ponoʻī, hiki i kekahi ke hoʻokō i kekahi ʻano makemake ʻole me ka ʻole i komo pū kekahi. Ma nā kiʻi liʻiliʻi i ke kelepona a i ʻole ka kamepiula ke hiki i kekahi ke hilahila i loko o kahi honua honua o kekahi mau moemoeā, a me ka bestiality (me ka moʻo ʻana me nā holoholona o kēlā me kēia ʻano), ka luhi, ka wahine me nā keiki, a me ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i kekahi wahine e kekahi mau kāne. Hoʻokomo ʻia nā hana Cybersexual i nā kiʻi Softcore, nā wikiō hōʻuluʻulu, nā kiʻi Hardcore, nā wikiō Hardcore, Chats sex, Sex via Webcam Live, a i ʻole sex sex [6].

Hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni e hana ana i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni kiʻi kiʻi i Hollywood fashion, hoʻopiha me ka pilina ʻole. ʻO nā mea hana me nā kino i hoʻololi ʻia no nā hiʻohiʻona ʻapoʻawa ʻoi aku, e like me nā wahine me nā umauma nui, a me nā kāne me nā penises nui, hana no ke kāmera, nā hana hoʻohālikelike i hiki ʻole i ka mea maʻamau ke hoʻohālike, a i ʻole maoli hiki ke kope. ʻO ka pinepine ʻo ka wahine me kahi kāne e hōʻike ʻia ana he nāwaliwali a paʻakikī hoʻi. ʻAʻohe pilina pilikino i hoʻolālā ʻia, a i ʻole kahi pilina aloha i manaʻo ʻia, pili wale i ka hana. I ka manawa 2016 wale nō, nānā nā kānaka iā 4,599,000,000 mau hola o ka ponokala ma luna o kekahi o nā pūnaewele punahele nui loa ma ka pūnaewele [7].

Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hopena i pili i ka paio ma waena o nā hoa hana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pili me nā nīnū pili. Ua hōʻike ʻia ʻo ka Mediation e pili ana i ka pornograpi ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ʻikepili ka pili ʻana i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka hoʻouluulu ʻana o ke kāne, haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa wahine wahine a me ka liʻiliʻi o ka kamaʻilio ʻana me nā hoa ʻelua. Hōʻike nā hopena i ka pili ʻana o nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pae ma ka lua o ka hopena no ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole. Hiki i nā ʻikepili wahine ke hoʻololi i nā kaʻina piliʻenehana pili i ka manawa e hoʻohilahila ai i ka pilina a me ka mau ʻana [8].

Ke noho nei nā kāne ma kahi hoʻopunipuni e ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi a me ka masturbating i nā mea ma kā lākou mau papa maka no nā hola he nui i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻohe pono lākou e ʻimi i ka hoa aloha a hāʻawi ʻole iā lākou iho i kekahi ʻano. ʻO Sun, Bridges, Johnson, a me Ezzell [9] i wehewehe, ua hoʻohui pū ka ʻāpana kūʻai kālepa i kēia kumumanaʻo kūʻē a me ka hōʻino wahine. Hoʻokuʻu ʻia e kā lākou mau hoaaloha a i ʻole a nānā ʻole ʻia ka hōʻoia ʻana i ke kāne e ʻike i nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe no kā lākou moekolohe. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaha iā lākou iho ʻaʻole pono e kamaʻilio me kā lākou hoa. ʻO kā lākou hoa male e lilo i ponokala. "Nānā nā kāne i nā wahine i kahi ʻano hoʻowahāwahā pinepine ʻia ma hope o ke nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi porn. ʻO nā hana hoʻohālikelike i ka wahine a me nā pilikia e pili ana i ka moe kolohe ʻole a me ka moekolohe a ke hoʻohālikelike ʻana iā lākou ”[3]. Pono ka hoʻoikaikaʻana o ka moekolohe e loaʻa i kā lākou hoʻokuʻu. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻāʻo a kope i ka mea a lākou e ʻike akā ua hoʻāhu ʻia lākou e kā lākou hoa wahine. ʻOiai inā he pōmaikaʻi lākou i ka ʻae ʻana mai nā hoʻokolohua mai kā lākou mau wahine wahine, ʻo nā hana moekolohe a lākou e makemake ai e hoʻokō ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne maʻamau. ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hoʻāla iā lākou iho a manaʻo e hoʻihoʻi i ka manaʻo o ke ʻano hana i loko o ka honua porn. Hoʻohana ʻo Yucel a me Gassanov [10] i ka Interpersonal Exchange Model of Sexual Satisfaction e hōʻike ana e moe kolohe ana i ka moeʻuhane i nā mea hōʻeuʻeu a me nā kūliʻi i loaʻa i loko o kahi pilina. Ua hōʻike i ke ʻano o ka nui o ka hauʻoli i ke ʻano o ka hilinaʻi ʻana ma ka leʻaleʻa. Ua wehewehe ka mea kākau, "e haʻahaʻa loa ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine i ka wā e hoʻohana ai nā hoa hana i nā kiʻi ma muli o ka pae maoli o ka uku kūlohelohe i ka male i hoʻohālikelike ʻia i nā pae kūlohelohe i manaʻo ʻia ma o nā kiʻi porno" (p. 137). Hoʻokumu kēia i ka pono no nā hana moekolohe mai nā hoa hana ke hoʻokaʻawale i ka moekolohe ma muli o kēlā mau kiʻi i nānā ʻia.

Hiki i nā ponokala kiʻi ke hoʻopōʻino i ka male a hiki ke alakaʻi i nā kāne e nānā ana i kā lākou ipo me ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻole ʻana i ka moekolohe no ka mea ʻo nā mea hana kiʻi ponokala kiʻi i koho kikoʻī ʻia no ko lākou ʻano moekolohe. Hoʻokolokolo nā kāne i nā hoa ma ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana iā lākou i nā mea āna i ʻike ai ma nā pūnaewele ponokala kiʻi, a hāʻawi paha kā lākou hana moekolohe i ke kāne i ka manaʻo i hiki ʻole i kāna hoa ke hana e like me ka mea e pono ai. Maddox, et al. [2] wehewehe, he kiʻi maikaʻi loa nā ponokala kiʻi o kēia hoʻokolokolo ma ka wehewehe ʻana i nā pilikia like ʻole e hiki ai i nā kiʻi pono ʻole ke hōʻeha i ka male. I ka pilina o ka male ke hauʻoli ʻole ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka pilina ke ʻeha. Hoʻopili kekahi i kekahi a ma kahi pilina maikaʻi makemake nā poʻe he nui e hoʻokō i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia. I ka male ʻana kahi e kū ʻole ai kēlā mau mea i manaʻo ʻia, ʻeha paha ka pilina. I loko o ka pilina he nui nā wahine e huhū inā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kūlike i nā mea hana keaka. Ua wehewehe ʻo Stewart & Szymanski [11], ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana ma kēia wahi e loaʻa ana kahi kumu hope me ka hauʻoli ʻole o ka noho male ʻana e hōʻike ana e hoʻonui paha i ka hoʻohana ʻana o nā ponokala kiʻi a laila e hōʻemi ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi pono ʻole. Ua hāʻawi lākou i nā hōʻike ponoʻī i kēlā mau kāne i hoʻohana i nā ponokala kiʻi a noʻonoʻo inā ua haʻi ka mea pane i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i nā ponokala kiʻi no ka mea ua ʻike lākou ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne he nui e pili pono i kā lākou hoʻohana ponokala kiʻi. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike inā hoʻohana kēia mau kāne i nā kiʻi pono ʻole a i ʻole me kā lākou wahine no ka mea ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā pilikia o kēlā mau kāne e hoʻohana pū nei i nā kiʻi pono ʻole ma mua o ka poʻe e hoʻohana nei i nā kiʻi pono ʻole me kā lākou wahine ʻole.

ʻO nā pilina a me nā hauʻoli ʻaʻole mau i nā hopena maikaʻi loa. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia nā poʻe a pau e ʻike i nā ponokala a ʻike ʻole ʻia ka nui o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porno i kēia mau pilikia. ʻAe ʻia ka ʻike kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi kikowaena ma nā wahi ākea a me nā hale waihona puke he nui. Pehea nā mākaʻikaʻi o kekahi i kahi kōkua a lākou e pono ai. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ariely a me Loewenstein [12], i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn a i ʻole ke hana me nā mea kū hoʻokahi ʻaʻole i kūpono ʻē aʻe o ka noʻonoʻo, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo i ke kūlana maʻamau. Lapa paha nā kulekele a APA paha a hōʻike i ka lehulehu i nā pōʻino e pili ana i ka hoʻohui ʻana i ka porn i ka hauʻoli ʻole a me ka hoʻokau ʻana i nā pilikia i kahi pilina, ʻoiai he pilikia i ka pilina pili. Manaʻo lākou i ka mea ʻino i ke kanaka ke makemake i ka pilina maikaʻi, pono lākou e ʻimi i kēlā poʻe e hele pū me kā lākou kiʻi i nā kiʻi i nā mea hoʻohālikelike ʻia ma mua o ka hūnā ʻia. ʻO Ariely lāua ʻo Loewenstein [12]. E kūkākūkā ka ʻaoʻao aʻe i ka pilina ma waena o ka hoʻoili porn a me kona mana i ka lolo o kēlā.

Pehea ka hoʻomau ʻia o ka Brain?

E kūkākūkā kēia ʻāpana i nā noiʻi like ʻole i mālama ʻia ma ka hoʻowalewale ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi ma ka lolo e hoʻohana nei i ka noiʻi i hala. Ua ʻike ʻo Kühn & Gallinat [13] i ka nānā ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi i lilo i mea hōʻalo, a pili ia i ka hina hina o ke kāne, kahi mea paʻakikī e hiki ke mālama i nā pilina me nā hoa kolohe.

Mai ka hele ʻana o nā kiʻi kiʻi ma ka Pūnaewele, ke ʻae, ka hiki, a me ka nānā ʻole i ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā mea hoʻonaninani kiʻi ʻana i nui a ua loaʻa i nā miliona o nā mea hoʻohana. Hoʻokumu ʻia i ka manaʻo e like me ke ʻano o nā kiʻi porn e like me ke ʻano me ka hoʻonaninani, nā ʻano ʻimi hou, a me ka ʻano hana, a ua hoʻololi mākou i nā hoʻololi ʻana o ka pūnaewele striatal mua i nā mea hoʻohana pinepine [13].

Ua hōʻike pū kekahi mau mea noiʻi i nā kumu o kēia ke kaomi i ke kiʻi i ka porn e like: ʻO ka hui maikaʻi ʻole o ka lawe kiʻi ʻana i ka porn me ka nui striatum (caudate) ʻimi, ka waiho striatum (putamen) i ka wā o ka cue ka hopena, a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa kūpono o ka caudate kūpono e ʻike ai. Hiki i ka hema hema dorsolateral cortex e hoʻohuli i ka loli i ka palau neural ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka ʻōnaehana uku, a me kahi haʻahaʻa o lalo i lalo o nā wahi cortical prefrontal. ʻO ke ʻano, he mea hiki ke hana i ka hana i nā kiʻi kikowaena i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mea e [13].

Wahi a Brand, et al. [6] Ke kākoʻo nei nā hualoa i ka hana no ka striatum ventral ma ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka uku a me ka hōʻoluʻolu e pili ana i nā mea i makemake ʻia i ke kiʻi kiʻi ʻia. Ua kūpono ka lāʻau striatal ʻano like me nā mea makemake pilikino a wehewehe i ka ʻano like ʻole o ka hōʻailona koʻikoʻi. Pēlā, hiki i nā hana hana no ka uku hoʻowalewale i ka striatum ventral ke hoʻopuka i ka wehewehe neural no ke kumu o ka poʻe me kekahi mau makemake a me nā moekolohe maikaʻiʻole e pili ana no ka nalowale ʻana o kā lākou mākaʻikaʻi ma ka hoʻopau ʻia ʻana o ka make kiʻi pūnaewele.

ʻO ka noiʻi hou loa me ka hana magnetic resonance imaging (FMRI) e hōʻike ana i kēia pilikia o ke kiʻi ʻana i ke kala e pili ana i ka pili ʻana i nā piliona a me nā mea inu wai [14].

Nui nā wahi ma ka Pūnaewele kahi e hiki ai i kekahi ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia e like me ke kūʻai ʻana i nā mea ma nā pūnaewele auhau, ke pāʻani, ka hana a me ka pili ʻana. ʻO ka mea iā ia ka pae kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka Pūnaewele no ka hoʻohui ʻana i kēia manawa he mea pāʻani. A ua aʻo ʻia a noiʻi ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe i hiki i ke kahakaha [15].

ʻO ka ʻāpana aʻe e pili ana i ka hopena e hiki ai i ke kolohe ke nānā aku i kēlā me kēia kanaka. Hoʻokomo ʻia i loko o kēia kūkākūkā ke kumuhana o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ka ʻona noʻonoʻo cognitive

Pehea e hiki ai i nā kāne ke nānā i nā mea e nānā ai lākou ma ke kiʻi?

Kūkulu ka hapa nui o nā poʻe i ko lākou a i ʻole nā ​​ʻike mai nā ʻike, ko mākou kumu hope, ko mākou mau manaʻo, pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ka honua a me ko mākou ʻike kūlohelohe kūloko. ʻO George Kelly (1905- 1967) kekahi o nā psychologists Cognitive mua loa. Wahi a ke Kono Kokua Kūlohelohe a Kelly, ua unuhi ka poʻe āpau i ka honua ʻē aʻe a hoʻohana i kēia mau kukuna e wānana ai pehea lākou e hoʻopilikia ai iā mākou i kēlā me kēia kanaka (Allpsych, 2018). Hoʻohana kēia ʻepekema i ke kiʻi porno i hoʻohana ʻia. Hiki i ka ponokala keʻike i ka nānā ʻana o kekahi i kā lākou pilina pili ai i mea e hoʻopilikia ai i ko lākou ʻike. E hele mai paha kekahi mau hilahila me ka hoʻohana pū ʻana me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn, i hiki ai iā ia ke paʻakikī i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā pilina. Ke nānā nei i nā mea hana i kēia mau wikiō hiki ke hopena i ka hopena o ka ʻike ʻana o nā kāne i ko lākou ʻano peʻa a ma ko lākou mau kino ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi pūnaewele pūnaewele [16]. ʻO ke kiʻi kino ma ke nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi hoʻohālikelike e hiki i ke aʻo ʻana i nā kāne ʻaʻole nui lākou a lawa paha i loko o kahi pilina. Ua hōʻike ʻia ka pūʻali koa palekana for Armed Forces Health Surveillance e pili ana i kahi noiʻi 2014 o 367 pūʻali koa 21 a i 40 ua loaʻa ka erectile dysfunction ma 33.2 ka nui o nā kāne [17]. Ka mea a ka mea kākau e hōʻike ai i ka piʻi ʻana o ka piʻi ʻana o ka hana erectile me ka maʻalahi o ka ʻike i nā pōʻino pūnaewele. I ka nui, ua ʻike nā haʻawina he nui i waena o ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ke kiʻi me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka makemake moe kolohe, ka wahine moe kolohe, leʻaleʻa o ka wahine a me ka makemake o ka wahine a me nā pilikia kūlohelohe, e like me ke erectile dysfunction. Hoʻopilikia ka mea pili i nā ponokala me nā ala e uku ai ka lolo, e alakaʻi ana i kahi hana uku e hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia me nā cues i ʻike ʻia i nā kiʻi a me ka pale ʻana i ka pane ʻana o ka lolo i ka hana pilikino. Ma ke ala, hoʻonui ka piʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi i kēlā me kēia kanaka i ka hōʻola pilikino [17].

Inā loaʻa i nā ulu ʻino ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku paha ka hopena i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi. ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa i nā puʻupuʻu ikaika, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ʻino e nā mea lawehala. Ua wehewehe ʻo Serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer i kona hoʻohana ʻana i ka ponokona ʻana i ka luku ʻana i nā poʻe he ʻumikūmālua. ʻO Ted Bundy, he mea hopohopo hoʻomāhewa ʻia a me ka pepehi kanaka lehulehu, i ʻōlelo ʻia i loko o kahi kūkākūkā i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i hoʻokahi mau hola ma mua o kona pepehi ʻia ʻana, ua hoʻowalewale kēlā mau porn paʻakikī i kāna mau hana ʻino a me kāna hana i ka wā 1970. He nui nā mea lawehala a me nā mea pepehi hoʻomohala i ʻōlelo ʻia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kiʻi i nā ponokala, he mea hoʻoikaika nui ia i kā lākou hana sastardly. ʻO ka nīnau ʻaʻole kēlā e hele i kēlā me kēia kanaka e hele a hana i ka porn, a hana i ka mea a lākou e ʻike nei i ke kumu hoʻohālikelike i hana i nā kiʻi porno i kā lākou hana. ʻO ke kī i kēia mea ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn e hiki ai i kēia poʻe ke hana i kahi ala o ka hoʻonaninani a hana i ke ʻano o ke ola no lākou, ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā lākou [18-20].

Wahi a Elizabeth Smart [21] i ka haʻi ʻana i kona kaʻaha ʻana iā Brian Mitchell ma 2002, hoʻopaʻapaʻa pinepine ʻia kāna kamālani. ʻO kekahi manawa ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia e hoʻohana i nā kiʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni e hoʻohālikelike hou iā ia iho a lilo ʻo ia i ʻike i sehena ola. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia e lawe kāna kiʻi iā ia i nā kiʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni a hoʻohuhi hou i nā mea āna i ʻike ai.

Ua pāʻani paha ka paʻi kiʻi kiʻi i kekahi kiʻi i loko o kāna kiʻi ʻo Abd Abdoror?

Ke hōʻike nei ka poʻe kūʻai aku no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kiʻi kiʻi kikowaena ʻole e lohi i ka luhi ma muli o ke ʻano hoʻohui i loko o ka lolo. ʻO ka maʻalahi o ka hiki ke hele i nā kiʻi i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni e hōʻike ana me he mea lā he kaʻa i hiki ʻole ke hoʻomau ʻia, e hoʻomau ka ulu ʻana i ka hōʻino o ka launa pū ʻana o ke kanaka. Ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana i ke kumukūʻai pili e uku ʻia me ke komo ʻana i ka porn, e pili ana i ka mahalo ʻana i nā pilina ma [22]. ʻO ke kiʻi nui loa he kiʻi kiʻekiʻe loa, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ka hauʻoli. Loaʻa ʻia nā kiʻi kiʻi kikowaena, ʻaʻole kamaʻilio me ke kaʻa ʻole, ʻaʻohe o ke poʻo poʻo, a ʻaʻole loa ʻeha. ʻAʻole ia e hana i ka kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi a noi ʻole i kekahi e loaʻa ka foreplay a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hilinaʻi i ka pili kokoke i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. Loaʻa nā kiʻi porno i kahi kanaka e kali nei me kekahi mea i manaʻo ʻia a makemake ʻole. He hauʻoli, a ʻaʻole pono e hoʻokaʻawale i kekahi i nā manaʻo. A hiki i kahi ke hele i nā manawa he nui i ka lā me ka ʻole e kūʻai i nā pua. ʻO nā kāne e hoʻohana ana i nā kiʻi no ka nānā ʻana i nā mea ʻoliʻoli, a laila ʻaʻole ʻike ka mākaukau ke hana nei lākou i nā ala ma ko lākou mau lolo e pili ana i ka hōʻiliʻili, a no laila e hālāwai nei i ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine. Pono lākou e nānā i nā kiʻi hou aʻe i loli hou a loli me nā hopena hou aʻe a lūlū ʻia paha i loko o kahi huli wahi e loli hou ana a hiki i kēlā kiʻekiʻe wahine. Ua hele mai nā kiʻi a me nā kiʻi ʻekikele pili no ka mea pili maoli ka pilina. Ma muli o kēia mea i kūʻai-no-kēia manawa o ka hōʻoluʻolu koke, ua lilo ke kiʻi i nā mea hoʻohiki me ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana e like me ka hoʻoluhi. He hoʻoluhi wahine ka mea kūʻai ʻia a kūʻai ʻia no ka hoʻohana pono ʻana. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēlā mau kānaka i hoʻowahāwahā i hoʻohana ʻia a hōʻino ʻia e kēia mau kiʻi, ʻaʻole ʻike lākou i ka nui o kā lākou hoʻohui, a ʻo lākou wale nō lākou. No laila, hoʻomau ka piʻi ʻana a piʻi nui aʻe i ka piʻi ʻana o ka noi no nā kiʻi piʻikahi. ʻO kā mākouʻoihana nui. Aia kekahi manaʻo maopopo loa i ka noiʻi ʻana aku i ka mālama ʻana i ka poʻe e pili wale ana i kēia kahe a ʻike i ke ʻano o ka hōʻola ʻana o ke kiʻi i nā pilina, a ʻoi aku ka hopena, a he hana koʻikoʻi i ka hana ʻino i ka lolo [23-28].

hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo

ʻO ke kumuhana o nā lā hana kiʻi huki e pili ana i ka pili ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻikepili. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka ʻimi e pili ana i ka ʻaoʻao hoʻomana o kona hoʻohana. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo o ka nele ia. Aia kekahi manaʻo hou aʻe no ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā kiʻi ma muli o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea maʻa mau ʻia ma ka pūnaewele [28-34].

ʻO ke aloha

'A'ohe.

Ka pilikia o ka lokomaika'i

ʻAʻole hakakā me ka hoihoi

E hoʻomaopopo '

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