Kyle was addicted from the age of eight, and would spend hours a day watching graphic content
A WOMAN has revealed how her husband hid his porn addiction for years after he became hooked at eight years old.
Madison Loftin, 27, had been married to Kyle, 32, for just over a month when she realised he was hooked.
Kyle revealed that he became exposed to porn from a young age and got hooked using it as a “crutch for any negative emotion or feeling”.
At his worst, Kyle would watch between three to four hours of adult content a day.
Despite meeting his wife Madison, Kyle still struggled to control his obsession – and it would impact the couple’s sex life.
When Madison discovered porn on his phone she was “angry” and even admits to bingeing on porn herself to “hurt him back”.
But it showed her how “addictive it can be” and helped her support her husband to help him recover – attending recovery programmes and therapy.
Last week, Strictly winner Ore Oduba shared how he became addicted to explicit online content aged eight and how it brought him to the brink of suicide.
Kyle, a journeyman plumber, from Salt Lake City, Utah, said: “I came across it at around eight.
“I was pretty quickly hooked, and it became my crutch for any negative emotion or feeling.
“It’s been very destructive, and the worst part was losing my wife’s trust.”
Kyle had struggled with his porn addiction since discovering adult content aged eight.
He said his addiction made him into someone he “didn’t know or respect” and “made me hurt those I love and care about”.
When he met Madison he was honest about his young exposure but didn’t reveal how it still impacted him.
The stay-at-home mum said: “I asked him when we were dating if he had struggled, and he did tell me that he was exposed when he was eight years old.
“But he said he had it under control at the time.”
Getting help with a porn addiction
If you think you, or someone you know, is battling a porn addiction, here’s everything you need to know.
Acknowledge the Issue:
– Recognising that you have a problem is the first and most crucial step.
Seek Professional Help:
– Consult a therapist or counsellor who specialises in addiction. They can provide tailored strategies and support.
– Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is often effective in addressing addictive behaviours.
Join Support Groups:
– Consider joining a support group, either in-person or online. Groups like Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) offer a community of individuals facing similar challenges.
Establish Healthy Routines:
– Develop new hobbies and interests that can divert your attention and reduce the urge to watch porn.
– Regular physical exercise and mindfulness practices like meditation can help manage stress and reduce addictive behaviour.
Set Boundaries and Controls:
– Use internet filters and parental control software to limit access to pornographic content.
– Create a schedule to limit screen time and ensure you have a structured daily routine.
Confide in Trusted Individuals:
– Share your struggles with a trusted friend or family member. Having someone to talk to can provide emotional support and accountability.
Educate Yourself:
– Learn about the impacts of porn addiction on mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. Knowledge can empower you to make positive changes.
Stay Patient and Persistent:
– Recovery is a journey and may involve setbacks. Stay committed to your goals and celebrate small victories along the way….