Last September I broke up with the girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with after finding out she was cheating on me. I was with her for just over four years, she was my first love. Can’t say I PMO’d loads during the relationship, maybe 2/3 times a week or so, but was used to regular sex with her, maybe 3/4 times a week.
I was down in the dumps for a long time after we broke up and long story short was fapping to porn, a lot, sometimes 3 times a day on a weekend. I knew it wasn’t healthy and I should stop but I didn’t.
Had a wakeup call when I got with this amazing, gorgeous woman (my now current gf) and my erection was just non-existent, I’d never had ED before and it was terrible as fellow sufferers will well know. Luckily she was very good with me as she has had issues with sex before because she has endometriosis. I immediately stopped masterbating cold turkey and the flatline hit me like a tonne of bricks, just completely lifeless.
Long story short this went on for around 3 months where I couldn’t get it up for sex and was worsened by my worrying that nothing would happen, I remember a couple of times she’d give me a blowjob and I couldn’t get anywhere past a semi, demoralising for both of us to say the least.
Jump to last weekend, I hadn’t seen my girlfriend for about 2 weeks and for the first time in months felt horny and couldn’t wait to see her and have sex. I wasn’t worried about ED, I almost knew it was going to be fine. We met and had the most amazing sex, I can’t remember any better than that. Not only that, after sex I maintained my erection after we had stopped, she noticed after about 10 minutes and said let’s not let it go to waste.
I feel like a totally new, more confident person with a raging libido.
I stopped PMO late December, I hooked up with my current girlfriend late December. So about 3 months, the flatline came straight away. [Recovery] hit me about two weeks ago, started getting morning glory again and thinking about sex for the first time in ages. I’m 21.
I said to myself I’d write a post when I get through this to thank everyone here for everything I’ve read, good luck and cheers guys you da real MVPs.
LINK – Flatline success