Age 21 – Social anxiety gone, no longer a loser around girls


I was socially anxious, shy, a just generally a loser around girls. I came to this site and saw what many people describe as ‘superpowers’ and thought that I had nothing to lose and everything to gain by giving it a try. Here’s my experience with NoFap so far. Day 15 I began to notice a difference. More energy, deeper voice, better posture, confidence boosted. But I wanted more so I kept going with the streak.

Soon after that I had my best friend (female) tell me that her friend thought I was attractive and would be all over me if she didn’t have a boyfriend. Stuff like that never happened to me before.

Day 20 I met a girl, we hung out all weekend and she stayed overnight with me (no sex though). Amazing experience and we still talk although because it’s long distance we are just friends and will see where it goes when she moves home in May. I’m getting more and more female friends telling me that I’m looking good, clothes, hair, general appearance etc.

Day 27 I broke my 3 month dry spell with a beautiful girl I met at the student union. I’ve never had a girl be so into me before it was weird and cool at the same time. She’s asked for more dates.

The urges are real and at times it’s so hard to resist. But between exercise, hobbies and this website I could push past them.

Day 31 and I’m so proud of what I’ve done, accomplished and who I’ve become. I know people will say I’m boasting but I wanted to put this out there because when I started out, it was posts like these that made me feel hopeful that i could become like that. I could change my life, that it was totally possible and that all the super powers aren’t just a myth.

If you have any questions, or just want to reach out for support and advice then comment or message me and I’ll do my best to help you. This is a collective of people that want to better themselves, we are all working towards a common goal here, I’ve had so much help from this site and I want to be a part of helping others.

I’m on day 31 no porn or masturbation. I’m 21, probably been using porn 8-9 years.

LINK – Day 31 update post. Hope to encourage those with doubts.

by Gnarlys