The best benefit of NoFap is the incredible desire to rise to the top – to the pinnacle. I have an incredible thirst to be elite – to be all I can be. I want to learn it all, see it all, do it all.
I used to have such a desire to compete and be A+, but that faded from YEARS of abusing my dopamine and feeling that I wasn’t “good” enough. As such, I settled into a deep groove of mediocrity I was only forced out of by the reminders of what was lacking in my life.
Now, I just want conquest. I have such a BURNING desire to be elite. I want to travel. I want to make millions. I want to connect with beautiful women. I want to be the top 1% in my field. I want to give back to the people that helped me get here. I want to illuminate the world…
NoFap will help get me there.
I was talking to a girl I knew in college a little bit ago. I asked her the standard question: “how’s work”. She said “It’s alright. It pays the bills. I don’t really care about a career, you know? All these people say they care about a career – but it’s just dumb. Just have fun.”
I cringed. I thought that was foolish. Your ability to learn skills and apply them is one of the only things that is “yours”. You can lose everything overnight, but if you have skills that people want and are willing to pay for, you can get it back and even more.
I don’t know about you, but I want a fucking career. I don’t want to be pushing pencils all day and being a servant because I didn’t decide to step up my skills. I believe her tune will be different when she has little ones who depend on her and can’t get the newest toy because she nor her husband decided to “become more valuable to the marketplace”.
No gossip. No negativity. No needless social media.
More focus. More discipline. More self-improvement. More expansion.
I hope you all want the same.
It’s time for you to look inside of yourself and step up to the plate. You can be more than you ever thought of being. You can have more than you ever thought of having.
If you don’t, you will see your contemporaries walk in the light while you suffer in the shadows alone.
My high school and college years were a haze of masturbation and marijuana use mixed with high degrees of depression, lethargy, and anxiety.
At the gym, I feel like a complete and utter savage. I easily move heavy weights and I am less tired after sets. I also limit my social media use to limit my anxiety.
I did not have an easy childhood, not by a long shot. I saw early on how important it was to make sure I have the means to live a good life. I really don’t care about making money for the sake of making money. Look at how many millionaires are on drugs and shit. Look at how many millionaires kill themselves. Look at how many millionaires are in chronic therapy.
I care about making money so I can provide for my future self and my future family. I care about providing for my parents in their old age because they won’t have the means to do it themselves. I care about being all I can be.
I’m not going to have the energy and drive that I have now when I’m older. I don’t want to regret it.
I am working on various things in the professional and personal spheres.
- Google Analytics
- Business Development/Entrepreneurship
- Graphic Design
- Reading at least a book a week
- Social skills and social nuances
I’m 24, coming up on 25 in a couple months.
LINK – I want to be elite.