Since over 1 year fighting PMO I can now proudly say, that sexuality and porn is no big deal in my life anymore. And I finally can work on other issues.
I cant say that just nofap turned my life around. I also had to work on many other places in my life too. I worked hard for my goals. And I am just at the beginning. But I took a huge step in the right direction for sure.
Instead of watching tons of porns I take my energy and spend it with my real girl friend. I see the beauty in real women on the streets.
I work a lot more for university. I read a lot more. And the most impressive thing: I get a lot fucking shit done. Its unbelievable. I am not so nervous. I am relaxed and I am getting shit done.
Before nofap: When I was doing something which didnt work, I was very easy getting frustrated and just stress relieved with PMO. of course, this strategy wasnt good and i needed weeks to pass by to finaly get the shit done.
So since I am doing nofap I am 500% more effective on my studies and work.
I have no fear in not getting laid or something like that. I can say all in all, that sexuality is not a big deal anymore and i feel very safe with my girlfriend.
I am very very very grateful for that. Thank you noFap god!
LINK – sexuality is not a big deal anymore
LATER POST
Another 90 days past … these are my second 90 days. Okay, soft-mode. The last 365 days were 180° turnover. Now I have a new point of view, I want to change something even more: I want to quit starring at women in the streets. Doesnt matter where I am, I want to stop looking at women bodies.
In the past, I thought it is okay, when I am at least looking in real life on women. But I realised, its not how I want to treat a women. I want to man up even more. I want to respect them even more. Even when they are dressed and walk like whores and really want to demonstrate their sexiesness, I will not look at them. I am stronger now. Our society is different, I know. But I dont go this path anymore. I will not stare at boobs anymore. I will not fantasize any more. I want to use my energy for bigger things, more important things. I want to grow busineses. I want to be successful. I want to earn money. I want to discover new important thins for me and my future family. I want to give love to people around me.
After 1 year fighting, I can see again the next mountain I want to climb. This optimizing process will never end. It goes on and on and on.
So the next step, stop fantazising, stop staring about/at women. I already made big progress, but I am not happy.
I think its totally enough to share the sexual energy with only 1 partner.
The good thing is, I will be more concentrated on important things. And this is called superpowers gentleman.
LINK – again a further step…
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