tl;dr 28 year old male, grew up in India, moved to North America @ 24, lost my virginity last night. Pre No-Fap me was a generic techie/software-programming nerd, shitty social skills, put other people’s priority over mine.
In essence, a nice-guy who ‘needed’ to fit in. Although physically I have always been athletic (have always been hitting the gym training as an Olympic weightlifter for over 3 years), I never really felt like a MAN. I sucked at making eye contact with people, let alone hot girls. I could never figure out what was wrong with me? Then an enlightened friend told me one day, “dude you need to stop watching porn and touching yourself!”
That was almost year and a half ago. And today I am sitting at a coffee shop writing this post, after only getting 4 hours of sleep (because I was up all night having sex with a girl I approached at the gym and took out for drinks). Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to make this sound like I did it all for sex because last night was merely an icing on the cake of what has been a painstaking and at the same time rewarding 405 days. During these days, I have gone from having moments of pure random ecstasy to those of self-loathing and depression.
NoFap has flipped my life around for good. And you know the best part? IT KEEPS GETTING BETTER
LINK – Not a virgin anymore
by kiff8401
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