I’ve had EXTREME PIED (total limp-dick except when I masturbate myself). I haven’t been able to have sex without sildenafil for years, which gives me erections but I still can’t orgasm from sex. I always finish using my own hand.
Anyways, I started this NoFap thing 26 days ago.
Here are my rules:
- No porn.
- No masturbating, even during sex. (I need to make sure I’m not desensitizing my penis)
- No fantasizing, even during sex. (this is a porn-alternative that activates the same neural pathways as porn).
- Sex with people is allowed. (Having normal sex will encourage rebuilding the normal neural pathways and avoiding the porn-created pathways).
I’ve been having random semi erections once in a while for the past few days. There have been some failed attempts at intercourse and a couple times I took sildenafil and had sex but no orgasm as usual. Throughout this time, I never masturbated or looked at any porn or porn-alternatives. I did my best to avoid any fantasizing at all.
Finally, today, I had sex without sildenafil and then actually achieved orgasm. It was such an awesome feeling. I haven’t experienced that in over 7 years! It’s like being in a wheelchair for 7 years and then suddenly getting up and walking again! I had tears in my eyes. I used to think I’d never be able to fix myself but now I have!
The erection still isn’t 100% and doesn’t remain strong throughout but it’s enough to be able to penetrate. I’m gonna continue with my NoFap, following the same rules as stated above, and I think it will only get better for me.
BY – Limp Biscuits