“You’re hard already”, that’s what she said while smiling. And I was really happy to hear that. I’m in my easy mode streak since 42 days, I started NoFap because of my PIED.
Then it turned into PE, and as far as I know, they are different aspects of the same problem.
Now my PIED problem is fading and I’m learning to control myself during sex and avoid PE. Relaxing and taking it slow really is the best option you have.
I wasn’t thinking about my past issues and it all went good. The last time I MOed was more than ten days ago, so I felt my libido growing strong when the time was right.
Masturbating less and without porn is good for sex, this rule works for me.
I started with tv and magazines when I was 11. PMO got really bad in the last four or five years, but I already had some sporadical ED issues before, probably due to my anxiety disorder. Anxiety and too much porn, a terrible combo for my sexual life. I’m 29 and I PMO to high speed porn since I was 17. I was still a virgin and I didn’t know the healthy way to get intimate with someone until I had a real gf. But I started with tv and magazines when I was 11, and according to the things I’ve read, this was kinda lucky because there was a time, in my mind, where masturbation and loads of internet porn were not the same thing. After NoFap I don’t MO just because I want a consolation prize for a bad day, I do it when I feel like it, and this changed everything. Porn is not a necessity anymore.
Today I felt confident about sex for the first time in years. Thanks again, NoFap. You fellow fapstronauts are amazing.
For the first time since I started NoFap and the first time in years, I was able to have sex without losing my erection or exploding after five seconds. I didn’t look at the clock but we switched positions a couple of times and it felt like a victory, I was in control of what I was doing. Then I decided it was time to finish, not my penis.
I’m on day 14 of my current streak but I started my journey in April. My longest streak was something like 70 days. It’s a completely different game now, I can enjoy sex without fear.
Speaking about PE, my experience says it’s pointless to masturbate before the date hoping to last longer, its way better to resist this temptation and relax. Having a good time is better than the sexual act itself, it’s the whole real experience that helps your healing process, as well as an healthier lifestyle.
tl;dr: NoFap is worthy, just be patient. Work out, eat healthy food, do things. It’s working for me.