I struggled with PIED for several months with my first real girlfriend. We went through a lot of tough times together because of this. With several months of nofap and longer with no porn I actually finally managed to be able to have sex with her, then finally was able to orgasm like a normal person.
After I broke up with her I lost control of my life for a while. I started PMOing several times a day again but I thought it was OK because I’m already cured. This wasn’t the case. The next two girls I was with I was unable to have sex with.
I cut down PMO again significantly after this. I then eventually met someone who is special. With her I found that I didn’t have any PIED problems at all. I was able to fuck her for a very long time without cumming. But I was getting depressed due to not cumming. I would just be disappointed after sex when I’d stopped because either I was getting sore or I was concerned about her getting sore (this happened with my previous gf).
In the mornings after she left I would PMO because I felt that I needed to make a release after getting so close with her. I was disciplined enough to not do it again until I saw her again, so I saved the chaser effect for her, but it wasn’t helping my delayed ejaculation.
Finally I decided to just cut it out completely. I got so close to orgasm one evening, then so close again the next morning. But I didn’t fap. I didn’t fap the next day either even though I could’ve done easily. It was pretty tough to resist, to be honest. Then when she came over again I was like a different person. She was so beautiful. I just wanted to fuck her right there in the hallway. Everything seemed to turn me on, from her curves to the tiny imperfections in her skin. We made love later that evening and after I took care of her I came deep inside.
I’m 29 now. PMOed regularly until I was almost 28 when I had my first real sexual experience. I couldn’t get hard even a little bit. Being with a real person felt so wrong. I cut down on PMO after that. While I was with my first girlfriend a few months later a did a full 90 days of nofap. I continued to have good streaks throughout the rest of the year. I had my first orgasm with her, which was during PIV and my first in the presence of another person ever, almost a year after that first sexual experience.
The road can be long but it’s so worth it. I feel like a completely different person now.
PMOing makes me feel like a loser watching some other guy fuck a woman that I want to fuck. PIED makes me feel like the lowest life form on Earth, unable to fulfill even the most basic of animal functions. DE makes me feel dissatisfied and disappointed, and my partner can sense this. Making love to a wonderful woman makes me feel like a king. Choose the latter.
LINK – PIED, DE and finally success
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