Well in my case (I’m 30), I had gone downhill with PIED before finally committing to stopping PM (and O unless sex with wife). I was so scared that it “wouldn’t work” that the previous few times I had tried to have sex with my wife failed. So I started noFap and did not have any form of sexual contact in almost 3 weeks.
When I finally did have sex (17-18 days into noFap), I basically did not fear anything, and “rock hard boner” might be a way to put it. There was no doubt in my “ability”, my mind now being focused on how turned on I was by how good she felt.
I could actually let the sex energy flow as opposed to wondering if my goods worked. I thought about it once while we were doing it (like “will it hold up”), but it’s as if I just thought of it while at the same time saying to myself “this feels too fucking good to fail, I’m good”.
I haven’t had sex since, as I told my wife all about what I am trying to achieve (so sex will be rare for a few more weeks). So we will see if this continues, but I must say that it had been a long time since I wasn’t “in my head” as much during sex.
BY – SystReset