The last 10 days have been wild. Let me tell you that if you’ve hit a lull on your way up the NoFap day count, keep going! It only gets better. Days 30 to 40 have been characterized by extreme horniness. My superpowers kicked in around the 20’s to 30’s (can’t remember exactly), but they have been amazing.
Superpower #1 – Extreme Confidence. It doesn’t matter where I’m at, I walk around as if I belong there. This has been prominent in the gym as I’ve been pushing so hard the last 20 days I’ve been seeing great results. I walk with my head up, shoulders back, and eye contact with anyone that looks at me. I am not a ripped guy by any means. I was in the past more or less what they call an ectomorph, or someone who can’t gain weight. That’s been changing, and I actually get compliments on my physique now.
Superpower #2 – There has been an extremely large influx in the number of women who have been sending me dirty pictures. It’s both extremely tempting, but also extremely rewarding. I used to have the mentality that “I’ll play it safe, I want her to like me. She may not like me if I …..”. Now It’s “Ah, fuck it, she’s playing with you. Dare her to give you what you want. If she doesn’t like you, move on.” In fact, last night one of the girls I’ve been talking to called me “a man of risk”, which was immediately followed by a picture of her on all fours. It feels good. I’ve never once been that guy in my entire life.
If you’re at all worried about your looks, don’t. I’m starting to think women care more about how you act, rather than how you look. But I’m in control. I’ve been straight up offered sex, but have put it on the back burner until I finish this semester of school. I think that also helps, as women see that you’re going to take care of yourself instead of dropping anything and everything to be at their place. But really, tease them, play with them, and bust on them. As long as you aren’t a complete ass, you’ll be fine. It also shows you have some spine.
After my finals are over, I will be driving to that girl’s house and spending a weekend. I like to think of it as my reward for a very long semester. We had a conversation last week about how I don’t jerk it or look at porn anymore. I was telling her how badly I want it, and also mentioned how I’m probably going to come extremely fast. Her response? “We can just go 14 times, it’ll be alright”. I laughed, and started talking about something else to which she replied “so, 14 times works for you?”. She wants me to wear her out.
Superpower #3 – Not giving a fuck. No, I don’t walk around and act like an ass or talk down to people. It’s simply not who I am. But, I do stand up for myself and put my needs / priorities first. I used to be that guy who would sacrifice and blow off everything important to him just so he could spend some time with a girl. Fuck that shit. I truly believe that if you work hard, show dedication, and are a somewhat social person, you WILL find a girl. But the mentality of you doing anything and everything you can to be with her needs to go. Don’t put the pussy up on a pedestal….
The biggest change this NoFap go around is my mentality. I tried for a couple of months to get myself past the 7 day streak and failed miserably. I was almost more hurt by the lack of self control I had over myself, than the fact that I was still jerking it to women on my computer screen. I tried every little “do this, or do that” gimmick that would supposedly get me past the rough part, and none of it worked.
I’ll tell you the entire secret to nofap. This is literally the only piece of advice you need to succeed: You have to want it bad enough to do whatever it takes to achieve your goal. If it isn’t powerful enough to change how you act, then it isn’t important to you. That’s it, the key to NoFap. Stop making fucking excuses and man up.
One NoFapper gave me that kick in the ass and it worked. I started thinking about why I was relapsing. It wasn’t so much that I really wanted to get myself off, it was that being so damn horny gets uncomfortable. Literally so uncomfortable that you want to do whatever you can to get rid of that feeling. This is what separates the men from the boys.
You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. I literally think this is the key to success, no matter the field. That’s it, men. There’s no stopping me now. When I do get laid in a few weeks I will probably come in about 30 seconds. Do I give a fuck? No, because I will have had sex with something other than my hand.