Age 16 – First girlfriend, brain fog gone, confidence up


I (16M) have never had a girlfriend before. Due to constant fapping and porn binging, I never gave any girl a second thought after meeting or talking to them. Through abstinence is when I realized everything that I was missing in life. Yesterday I asked a girl if she would like to be my girlfriend, and this is the first time any girl has ever said yes to me.

Needless to say I’m very happy about this and I hope that you guys can use this as motivation to overcome the social anxiety that you may feel at the moment. Keep pushing forward!

We had mutual friends so I met her that way. We got very close in the span of a couple of months and I just went for it. When I did it the only thing I had in my mind is “The worst thing that could happen is that she says no”

I’m glad I found NoFap when I did 🙂 The feeling of just existing and not really LIVING is what caused me to try NoFap. I always wondered why I never attracted anyone and it was because I lacked confidence in myself  nd I was too busy fapping and watching porn to pay attention to anything else. After 40 days I’ve noticed a dramatic increase in confidence, brain fog gone, and my attention span increased.

LINK – First Girlfriend

By y0josh