Age 25 – Prone masturbation: Recovery and rewiring

First of all, what is prone masturbation? Prone Masturbation is achieving orgasm, faced down, either by thrusting into a pillow, thrusting into duvet/mattress, thrusting into hand or anything equivalent.

Why should you stop it immediately? It will DESTROY your sex life, leaving you with a NUMB penis and severe ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION. By engaging in prone masturbation you are effectively training/conditioning your penis to ejaculate under conditions (i.e. intense pressure) that cannot be mimicked by your partner! Please Stop NOW! Yes Prone feels good,

My Case
23 y.o. Male, Circumcised at 17 (due to phimosis), Prone masturbated since the age of 12, Never knew anything different, Thought it was a harmless variation and had never been able to masturbate by hand! I remember briefly trying the hand method at 15 (because all my friends were making jokes about their masturbation sessions and they all did it by hand), but could never really achieve orgasm, so continued to prone till 22. Recently found it was a problem when becoming sexually active, sex wasn’t enjoyable, i didn’t feel much, it was almost impossible to ejaculate through vaginal stimulation and would almost always conclude with me having ED.

If you would like to know more about prone masturbation, i recommend checking out the website ‘Healthy Strokes’. This website saved my life! They also have a great Q&A section to help answer some of your questions.

After 6 months of hard work, discipline and patience, i am now fully cured of prone masturbation and i am now planning to start the 90 day+ NoFap Challenge. The effects of prone masturbation are 100% reversible and below i will suggest my top tips.

1) You Must Give Up Prone Masturbation Immediately and Forever

2) Follow the Basic Plan on the Healthy Strokes Website.

  • Abstain from Masturbation (and all sexual activity) for 7 Days
  • After 7 Days, Attempt Masturbation by Hand (can take up to 2 hours so make sure you have a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed)
  • Masturbate by Hand for 30 Days before attempting sex with partner

Tips for Tip 2
Use Lube
Unfortunately, i have to recommend high-arousal content (i.e. porn) to help sustain your erection in the early stages. At times you will have ED, just wait 2 hours and try again, DO NOT REVERT BACK TO PRONE! I did this many times…
Make sure you abstain for 7 days, this will provide you with the increased sensitivity to achieve orgasm. Follow this plan, Orgasm 40 Mins+ Abstain 5 Days, Orgasm 20-39 Mins Abstain 3 Days, Orgasm 10-19 Mins Abstain 2 Days. Then After go Daily.
I do not recommend using the Super Head Honcho sex toy to tackle this Problem!
When you see pre-cum, grip as hard as you can and go as fast as you can to orgasm (this is acceptable in the early stages of the recovery process but don’t make it a habit or you will suffer from death grip syndrome).

3) Follow the Anti-Death Grip Plan, to Adapt to a Lighter Grip (Strongly Advised to Purchase a Flesh Light because it’s hard case prevents you from using the death grip out of frustration)

  • Abstain from Masturbation (and all sexual activity) for 7 Days (Week 1)
  • Masturbate Once Max (week) , gradually loosening grip/decreasing speed (Week 2) – Use Hand or Fleshlight
  • Masturbate Twice Max (week), gradually loosening grip/decreasing speed (Week 3) – Use Hand or Fleshlight
  • Masturbate Twice Max (week), gradually loosening grip/decreasing speed (Week 4) – Use Hand or Fleshlight

If you opt for the Flesh-light, aim to thrust into it at week 3 and 4 which will kind of emulate the sexual experience and of course it is a great prone alternative. The best way to thrust into it is to put it between your mattress and bed! Yes i know its pretty sad & weird but its a great way to regain sensitivity. For more information,

Extra Tips/Learnings
– In the early stages, don’t worry about how long it takes to ejaculate, However, severe prone masturbators should expect to average 40 minutes by week 4 and Less severe 20 minutes
– Really try to feel the sensations of this new technique and try to stimulate different areas to find your sweet spots. The mind also plays a key role, so focus on pleasure rather than continuously thinking whether you are going to cum or not!
– Make sure you are slowly decreasing your grip strength (to a very light/soft) to speed up your progress. Start by slowing down when about to cum! Then do it a 30 seconds before, 1 minute before, 2 minutes before, etc. Until its 100% Light Grip.
– Full Recovery should happen after 6 months or less! Remember everyone is different and it may even take a year
– Try to arrange your sessions in a place which is undisturbed, with no need to rush! (so less of the danger Fap’s lol)
– Limit edging
– Stick to ONE Orgasm a Day Max, Multiple Fap’s Will Not Speed Up Progress!
– I found that the supplement Phenibut, made it easier to achieve ejaculation when mastering the conventional method. Try it out for yourself!
– For those who are circumcised, possibly consider foreskin restoration. I am currently on this journey and after i experienced de-keratinisation, my sensitivity greatly increased.

For those who have completed the training, understand that you are not fully cured until you rewire with a real woman! It is likely that you may fail the first few times, but its the same principle! Go 7 days NoFap to give yourself the best head start. If unsuccessful, either wait another few days or try when you are feeling really horny. As you keep doing this, your brain and penis will rewire to these feelings/sensations and you will eventually achieve orgasm.

But Conventional I haven’t got a girlfriend, so what should I do?? Well its time to enter the game my friend! Its Time! Also let me warn you, DO NOT RESORT TO ESCORTS!! I repeat, NO ESCORTS!! This will most likely end up with ED, more feelings of sadness and even a prone relapse! I’m not personally against seeing escorts but I am when it comes to using them to overcome prone.

After your training is complete, go on NoFap and free yourself from XXX forever and PMO Addiction. Treat your urge as an excuse to speak to real women, that is its purpose after all. Get your sex life together, live happy and stop escaping through self-pleasure! Yes people will say its normal to masturbate to porn, but lets face it, us prone addicts aren’t normal, we have experienced trauma that no man should ever have to face, and now we are out of the hole, lets make the most of it and stick it another one loolll.

Also, prior to this training, I went 70 days NoFap and Came with a girl in 20 mins!! So NoFap alone is one of the quickest routes to recovery! This training programme is primarily here to make sure you never engage in the bad poison that is Prone Masturbation!! and eventually you are going to have that urge to masturbate, so at least when you do, you are doing it in a healthier way

REMEMBER NEVER TO REVERT TO PRONE MASTURBATION AGAIN! There will be times when you are frustrated, because the new method won’t be as enjoyable and it will take much longer. There may also be darker times where you feel as if you will never be able to satisfy a woman or be satisfied by a woman and just engage in Prone out of anger/sadness. But don’t ever let this trick you into continuing the practice of prone masturbation. Just remember why you are doing this and that it is reversible! In Fact, take it one step further and quit pornography/frequent masturbation for good!

Note (Updated May 2020)

Thank You for Reading, over 46,000+ views now and i am very grateful, this was my first post and i will aim to add extra tips, learnings and information on my journey throughout the year! Stay Tuned!

LINK – My Top Tips in Curing De-Sensitisation From Prone Masturbation! Updated 2020

By theconventionalmasturbator