Wanted to share a success story hopefully this encourages some of you. After 10+ years of severe PMO addiction and PIED, I can say I’m cured of both after just one month of nofap.
A little background on me, I’ve been trying nofap for about 8 months with a little over a month as my longest streak. I struggled with PMO addiction since I was in my early teens and am now 27. I’ve had PIED in every relationship I’ve been in which also fueled severe Performance Anxiety. I’ve purchased viagra to help with this at first and still didn’t help which led to me finding about nofap and pied.
For me, the hardest part of going through nofap is when I’m extremely horny and not seeing anyone. My mind tells me “just do it, it’s still gonna be at least a few weeks until you have a chance to have sex since you aren’t seeing anyone now”. This cycle happened over and over again throughout my nofap journey until I met my now girlfriend.
We had our first date a little over a month ago and I PMO’d the night before this. Our first date ended up going over 12 hours as we met for breakfast and knew there was something special about her. With the addiction still being strong, I ended up PMOing again after our second date a few days later, and was still edging with PM up until the morning of our 5th date.
The 5th date was when we first tried to have sex and I failed to get hard again. At that moment I realized how severe this was and I could be losing the potential love of my life (I’ve gone on hundreds of dates and haven’t felt a connection this strong about someone before). She encouraged me and said we will try again, but also mentioned sex is very important for her in a relationship so obviously this can’t keep happening. That day was almost 3 weeks ago and I haven’t had a single urge to peek or engage in any PMO since.
After failing on the fifth date, we ended up seeing each other for a 6th and 7th date before trying to have sex again on our 8th date (about two weeks ago now). This sex was a success and she was very happy with my performance. I still have some viagra so I took that before just to help with my nerves, but we’ve had sex multiple without this with success and I plan to ween off it completely so my brain doesn’t feel like it needs it.
The only issue I have is now I tend to last too long before I can O, but honestly I’m just happy I can consistently get hard with her just barley touching me now and keep it that way. A few times we’ve had sex so long that she couldn’t go any longer after her having multiple orgasms and I still couldn’t finish although got close. I was a little upset with myself but fortunately I didn’t have blue balls that bad and it made me much more horny and excited to try it again with her. I still had no interest to PMO and the horny feelings I have are really only directed towards her.
The funny thing is now she sometimes doesn’t want to the sex because I last too long and she starts to hurt, but last night we tried again and I was able to finish around 10-15 minutes as opposed to my normal 60-120 minutes it usually takes. I think what helps is I’m extremely comfortable around her now and getting better/know what we both like.
A side note about all of this is how she consistently tells me how big I am compared to other guys. My whole life I’ve thought I was very average and girls haven’t ever told me I’m big or anything. I know nofap has led to me having larger erections as I’ve measured in the past and after nofap and noticed over an inch of growth in my erections. But still she insists that she’s not just trying to be nice and I need to take it slower sometimes. She was surprised when I told her how other girls haven’t told me this, but I think this is because I’m going through nofap which I told her about (although not in great detail quite yet). I only mention this because I think guys tend to be really hard on themselves about their size and think they’re small but you might be pleasantly surprised.
Long story short, while nofap is a long lifelong journey and can take longer for some than others, success can happen quicker than you think if you find the right person to be with. Good luck out there!
LINK – PIED succes
By – u/nofapnoobnoob
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