Early 40’s…..was having marital problems in the bedroom and turns out porn was the major contributing factor. Was subconsciously comparing my wife to girls on porn that are not real.
Porn was a fantastical world that my brain has taken as reality. Thus, my wife and our marriage was taking the brunt.
I am much happier now, less anxiety, both general and social, and in the bedroom is no problem to keep an erection. All good stuff. I have even taken up meditation.