My fiancé and I decided to do 90 days of monk mode. Our sex life was becoming somewhat bland, we still liked it but it wasn’t as good as when we had first started. We still looked forward to sex but afterwards we were both very ‘meh’ about it but we did know that sometimes we felt that masturbating was just as satisfying. We wanted to recharge and reset so we decided to do the nofap challenge.
The 90 days were hard, but we noticed changes soon into it. He would wake up with wood, we both had less brain fog and more energy. We also started to desire each other a lot more. We got really tempted to give in, so much so that my fiancé wouldn’t sleep in the bed anymore.
Saturday was our 90th day so Sunday we decided to finally do it. We had been having sex for a few years now and I can tell you, I have never felt so happy while in the act, I felt my heart was going to burst out of my chest. He also felt happy, and he lasted a lot longer. Afterwards we spent a while kissing and cuddling, it was really beautiful, I felt wanted, loved and very happy. It was so much more meaningful and satisfying that it normally was.
I cannot recommend nofap enough. It has strengthened our relationship and it has made me love him even more.