Been porn free since the 2nd of January and this morning I woke up with glorious morning wood after a sex dream. I was horny so I grabbed some lube and went to town thinking about the girl I slept with a few months ago. Only took 5 minutes before orgasm.
Contrast this to in the past where I would struggle to even maintain wood if I was masturbating without porn and probably haven’t been able to ejaculate using just imagination and sensation for a decade. This is from just 11 days without porn.
I struggled to maintain an erection with the two girls I’ve slept with since ending a long term relationship 3 years ago and when I think back porn had a negative impact on that relationship too and I’d always take a long time to orgasm (if I got there at all). Luckily my finger and tongue skills have managed to pick up the slack for my poor dong but now I feel confident that with another few weeks without porn I’d be able to maintain an erection with any woman I’m attracted to.
My confidence is growing, I’m less lethargic and quitting porn is helping to improve my willpower in other situations too (I’m exercising a ton at the moment and am having a break from weed).
I was skeptical about this at first as I’ve always been pro-sex and thought that meant being pro-porn, but I see now how anti-sex porn use is.
I caught a glimpse of some porn on the internet the a couple days back and felt like an electric shock go through me. It was so super stimulating even for just a couple of seconds. The fact that I would’ve looked at that a couple weeks ago and felt very little shows me how desensitized I had become.
I’m committed to this journey and though I suspect I may break at some point in the future, for now I just want to focus on becoming more attractive to try to pull a real woman, and porn directly fucks my motivation to do that. The thing that has helped me the most has been keeping busy with my job and exercise so I’m too tired to want to look at porn when I go to bed and have plenty of good-feel endorphins happening so I don’t feel the need for what I now see as artificial stimulation.
Good luck to everyone on this journey
LINK – Masturbated without porn successfully
by Cimejies
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