A while ago I bumped into some videos about PIED and the omnipresence of porn in our current daily lives. I started getting flashbacks from my recovery and couldn’t do anything but think. WHAT A LONG WAY I’VE COME, from those days in which I just wanked in my room and watched porn every afternoon after school. Now I’m a whole new person, I feel like a real man.
The addiction also forced me to organise my life, my career and my personal relationships in improved new ways. Not everything is perfect but I’m much more empowered in a much more advantageous position.
Also, I’ve been together with my gorgeous girlfriend for almost 3 years now and I’m so happy. I can’t believe that so much joy in life can come from sharing my life with a woman I love. I care for her and I can be a better boyfriend because I quit porn. Now I can see that porn caused so much trouble in the way I related myself to woman because it made my emotions less accessible and women were kind of less worthy of respect, love and understanding because of the way they are portrayed.
Additionally, sex life is going top notch. My ding-dong works awesome and I keep improving this aspect of my life learning to have a much more “caring” kind of sex. Not like that shit that porn sites have normalised.
I have bumped into porn sites on a couple occasions along the years but I actually see it in a complete different way now, it didn’t drag me as it did before. I could see it objectively for what it is and I didn’t like it at all. I felt a bit weird thinking I used to give so much of my time to this futile shit.
As this process has been so positive in my life I have decided that I would like to help other people who are struggling to get recovered from porn addiction. So I have decided that I want to become a Coach that helps others to overcome for good their addiction to porn and to move with ease into a healthy sex/love life.
Like Gabe Deem who was so inspiring and helpful with his videos I believe that coming out is an important step, because it forces you to deal with the shame that you might associate with the addiction. Therefore, I don’t feel the need to use the username anymore.
My name is Luis Miguel Fernandez I was born in Colombia and currently I reside in Denmark.
You can reach out to me with questions about my recovery in this post or in my e-mail ([email protected]) I would also be open about doing one-on-one coaching through Skype, I think this could be very good to deal with the problems. As I’m just starting with this I will do it for free. You are all free to reach out to me and let me know if you need help in some aspect of your recovery. I hope to hear from some of you. First come, first serve
I send you all positive vibes and energy.
PD: in the links you can get the latest posts I made (Approx: 3 years ago) so you can get a better idea of what I recovered from.