When you have a certain preconception about someone, you will approach this person from that. Now, at least for me, I had probably a unconscious way of objectifying woman, kind of entitled that they exist to fulfill my desires. I knew that this is no how it works, at least not in a healthy relationship, but my emotions were different. (You guys know the meme “My mind’s telling me no But my body”) Another thing is that I also was kind of scared and obsessed with what I thought was expected of me, therefore be an aggressive male who takes what he wants and expects submission.
But pornfree changed something in me, I have more fun just being around some women. Enjoying their company without any expectations. It is really liberating. I like myself way better. Also, because I changed, they enjoy also my company. It’s a win-win situation.
Porn screws you up… I am just a bit sad, I didn’t found out earlier.