About Us

This site is created and maintained by a husband and wife: Gary Wilson and Marnia Robinson. Gary's passion is neuroscience, and he spends many hours scanning the Web and integrating the latest discoveries. As adjunct faculty at Southern Oregon University, he has taught anatomy and physiology labs. He has also taught anatomy, physiology, kinesiology, and pathology at vocational schools in California and Oregon. He attended nursing school, and has continued to take university courses in microbiology, cell biology, immunology and genetics. He has a gift for explaining complex material in ways that make it easy to grasp.

Marnia is the author of Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships (written with much help from Gary). She’s a former corporate lawyer, and the host of www.reuniting.info. Her work focuses on both the subtle effects of sex on the brain and a very gentle, non-goal-oriented approach to lovemaking that has shown up repeatedly across the globe over thousands of years.

Years ago, Gary and Marnia noticed benefits from this "warm" sex practice, and he was curious whether there was any existing research that would help explain those benefits. As it turned out, there was a good bit of science that indirectly explained the effects (both negative and positive) of sex and relationships on the brain. Much of it came from recent findings about addiction and the neurochemical effects of superstimuli, and they found it interesting enough to share on the Web. Then the porn guys showed up. At first, it didn't seem like they belonged at www.reuniting.info. Yet Gary wondered if the research he had been collecting might help to explain what they were going through.

For over five years the www.reuniting.info forum has been buzzing with a unique combination of porn recovery and warm-sex discussions as everyone compared notes, exchanged research and encouraged each other’s progress. This process generated many articles about the effects of Internet porn on the brain, all of which are now collected here.