Age 19 - I view women differently, gained confidence, more passionate

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well.. It was a long road, started on the day that my girlfriend broke up with me to now. There's been lots of temptation but I realized that if I can go from fapping every day to not doing it at all then there's nothing that I can't accomplish. I've been putting my mind into doing what's important to me and here are the things that I've noticed as of day 50

  1. I view women differently- I used to find myself staring at women's boobs or ass all the time and I just realized how messed up it is. I'm seeing girls as people instead of just sexual objects for my fantasy
  2. I'm more dedicated to the things I'm passionate about- for me its been football, I recently signed to play at a college in Texas and instead of procrastinating working out by jerking off I find myself more determined and going out and making things happen.
  3. I've gained confidence and as a result girls are more interested in me. I think this may have to do with the fact that the way I'm seeing them is differently but I just have no fear to go up and talk to a girl that I think is cute and I've made a lot of awesome friends and even had some dates.

that's all I can think of for right now, but I'm so happy that I decided to give this up, it might only be fapping but for me it's made all the difference in the world. I realized that if I can get over my PMO addiction I can do anything. You all have been awesome support!

LINK - the things I've noticed after 50 days

by Ithrowfootballs